Understanding what is happening to me

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    Yes that is a nice overview and simplified explanation of couple engaged male chastity.

    One aspect of wearing a cage that I can’t say enough about, is the priority change. It could be as simple as deciding to go to bed at the same time instead of staying up and watching tv. If you have already self pleasured, you might just stay up by yourself instead of providing her with a partner to cuddle and be intimate with.

    Sometimes self pleasing leads to selfish decisions, poor communication, and less than optimal romantic connections.
     
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    Well said
     
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    Nice mainstream article
     
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    That would be a really good article for introducing someone vanilla to the topic of chastity, whether trying to get a partner interested in trying it or just a friend who you think might be interested. If they get past the first paragraph's mention of BDSM, then it's all very gentle and non-scary. Bookmarked!
     
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    Yes it does, good read
     
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    Great article! I asked my very vanilla wife to read this and she thought it was well written. I asked her if this would be a good article to share with someone who was being introduced to the topic of chastity and she said "yes".
     
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    Great intro
     
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    A great article.
     
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    @Lucy maybe the OP could get pinned somewhere where new joiners will see it.
     
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    Short and sweet and straight to the point article.
     
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    Wow, that pretty much nails it! With a few tweaks. My wife might say somewhere between day 25-30 is the sweet spot.

    Our rule on orgasms is she has full control and decides when...could be a day, week, month year. She's found the pattern of this cycle is accurate and just shy of a month is possibly the right time (as of right now).

    I wonder, though, how long on the 21+ phase I can go with the right mindset, teasing and communication. ie, as we get better, can I go longer and sustain the "glorious, loving, caring - even obedient version of her male".

    She has found that I have gotten grumpy around the 1 month mark, but that is more likely due to external stress or slow down in our interactions.
     
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    You're asking the wrong Lucy, here's the right one: @L-u-c-y
     
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    Staff Member Owner of Chastity Mansion Administrator Verified Female

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    Done : )
     
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    I like that this thread is sticky. It's worth re-reading about once a year.
     
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