Quick backstory, dabbled with self locking over the last few years. Able to go 3+ days in September but. for whatever reason, was unable to duplicate that personal record until this week. So I started Monday morning of this week and made it to Wednesday morning when I had a testicle slip through, and had trouble getting myself reset. So i remained uncaged all day until bedtime when I relocked myself and have been that way since. So by tonight it will be 4 full days, but also being caged all week with the exception of Wednesday. My goal was to make it to Sunday night which I will achieve. The last couple of days/nights have been tough. I've been disciplined but desperate for a release. My only question is, do i put myself right back in?
Why not try to push it further by having no access to the key. Post it to yourself by 2nd post then you know you’re locked until it arrives . Giving up control will make it so much better. Good luck
Two reasons why I can’t quite go that route, one is that I can have a ball slip through and when that happens, I need to fix that asap. It seems to happen while at work during daytime hours. Second is that I just introduced my wife to the idea of male chastity today. There was no outright rejection nor was there really an acknowledgement. It’s part of a longer story but hopefully she will want to participate in my locking.
Sounds like you are taking a safe approach which is smart. there is nothing wrong with building up to longer periods, especially if you are coaxing your wife into the fantasy as well. Good luck.
Thank you. The biggest hurdles were comfort and ability to sleep. I was able to achieve both this week.
I suggest being in as often as possible so long as there is no pain or damage. The ball slipping sounds like you need a smaller base ring, though. That shouldn't just happen.
I think it's my anatomy. My balls are high and tight. I think also that my hernia surgery in my 20's left scar tissue. I know this because my doctor commented about it when I was getting my vasectomy. It's always the right one and that is also the side my hernia was.
If your wife participates in key holding then that’s the best route . If you introduce it slowly there is a fair chance that she will enjoy being part of it. Also try a smaller ring .
I had a similar problem with one of my balls slipping out. The solution wasn't a smaller base ring, but more the gap between the cage and the base ring. If the ball can get past that it will work it's way past the base ring. So a smaller gap can keep it place, because if it remains trapped, then you will be fine. At least it was for me. Just continue to experiment until you find the best fit.
Same here Missy. Hurt slipping out for a second and no way in hell could I push/squeeze it back inside the cuff ring. I closed my gap a little a it solved that issue. Like you said, it's a gap issue not a cuff ring issue.