Trouser Bulge!!

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    I just wanted to get something off my chest which quite frankly is on my mind.

    Trouser bulge is on my mind, i have to wear trousers every day for work and maybe i am just being paronoid or overly cautious but i am convinced people can see it and know i am wearing a chastity device.
    I allways ask my wife/keyholder if she can see it through my trouser and her normal responce is "Corr" as she fiddles with the key and peers over the top of her specs, although this know statement "corr" is quite flattering it is not exactly helpful.
    I know i am probably being daft and there is probably nothing to be concerned with however i would realy like to hear fom anyone if they've had the same concerns at the beggining.
    Thanks
    I am quite new to wearing a chastity cage, and at present i wear a cb6000s.
     
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    Well my sub did have the same concern, but i can honestly say to him that no one will notice. Beside, men do have a bulge. Chastity or no chastity. I think its in you mind to feal naked with a chastity.
     
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    If you are at all concerned about it showing why not place a Tena pad inside your briefs between your device and the briefs?
     
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    Tak, Miss Mira
    Does a "Tena Pad" work Charles.have you tried it.
     
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    Yes and Yes
     
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    Thanks, I may just invest in a pack of pads and give it a go,
    I can just imagine the wifes reaction lol
     
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    i wud thinks that putting a pad in wud make it bulge more.
     
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    This was a massive concern to me. I lost sleep thinking about it.
    My former Mistress told me I was being silly.
    The turning point for me is when I was going to a family get together.
    I fully expected to be unlocked for this. Mistress had other idea's
    Well a long story cut short it all went well. The only one there that knew there was something extra in my trousers was me.
    Where what you normally wear the only thing I found helps
    I swapped my boxer short for snug fitting briefs.
    Lady's Knickers are just as good. Lets not go there lol

    Elastic band to hold the padlock in place helps
     
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    I was going to mention the clik clacking,you beat me to it,
     
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    I suggested the pad because it takes away any sign of the padlock or the cage just leaving a smooth outline of your 'power bulge'
     
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    Oliver you just beat me to posting this topic giggle. I was going to as has anyone ever been "outed" purely based on the "bulge" in their pants? I have been locked on and off, mostly on for six years and not once has I ever had an awkward instance of someone knowingly staring at me.
     
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    You should always wear a pad anyway, to catch any dribbles. But yes, I was the same at the start, worried about the bulge. I once caught a girl at work glancing at my crotch but she just looked impressed! The only thing people will think is: "What a big boy!" and not: "Ooooh, he's wearing a chastity device." Most people don't know chastity devices (bar medieval belts) exist anyway. So stop worrying! :) x
     
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    If someone does notice a slight bulge how many are actually likely to even admit to having been looking down there in the first place! You can have a huge erection and not be stared at....they may notice but how many ever asked you?
    stroppy
     
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    Back to work tomorrow,and feel'n better about the bulge.
    thanks :D
     
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    I must admit I somehow always end up looking, but not for once have i thought, Holy s*it thats boy must be in a chastity device :)
     
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    I know exactly how you feel. I thought I could never go out or go to work locked.
    Then I had no choice i was not allowed to unlock After a while it just becomes Normal.
    First day nerves out the way and you will be fine.
     
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    I feel it all has been said. I had this concern as well but realized like others have said even if they are staring they won't say anything very unlikely they know it's a device (unless they are in the know). While wearing an old pair of semi-tight jeans an ex made comment "whoa DP" DP being short for dick print. Since she is vanilla never wanting kink play I just shrugged. Made me think if others are staring they are thinking his packing a monster.
     
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    Hurray, just got in from work and the trouser bulge nerves are gone, i did'nt notice anyone stareng, I did however get one or two smiles.
     
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    well done Oliver, you can concentrate on your work now LOL
     
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    I got used to being locked . The feeling that everyone could see I was locked had gone.
    I have not been locked for over 18 months. Not really sure why , Last night when I got home around 8pm. I went straight to the bedroom got changed and locked up. I was going to unlock at bedtime. However thought I would stay locked just for the night.
    Well I got dressed this morning I felt as if the device could be seen under my trousers.
    That same old feeling that I had got over. I am not in to self locking so the idea was to unlock before leaving the house.
    I am meeting up with friends later. I am now thinking about staying locked just for the day.
    Looking in the mirror every five minutes to see if its visible. Is it paranoia? well going out for the day in 15 minutes.
    Just working up the courage to stay locked and see what it feels like in company. Will I feel everyone is looking or will I just relax and enjoy the day.
     
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    Well I think I have proved the bulge is not noticeable.
    I was going to say the test was complete .
    However looks like it may be extended a little.
     
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    Nobody looks. Nobody cares. Besides, what's going to happen? Is a stranger going to stop you in the street and say, "Hey, buddy, I couldn't help noticing the bulge in your pants; what's going on down there?" How many times do you look at other men's crotches?
     
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    I know exactly what you are saying. It is paranoia and up until this morning I had not felt like that since my first few weeks locked.
    This morning was the the first time in over 18 months I have been out in public while locked.
    I know people don't go around looking nor would they care.
    However when you are with friends who know you well ( unfounded I know ) I start to think if the shape of the lock can be seen etc. Walking around going about my daily routine I don't really care.
     
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    It's a very common thing, much like the feeling you get in a crowd that everyone is aware of you, even though you may be walking by other people who feel the same way but you don't give them a second glance.

    I find that when I interact with people, such as cashiers, etc., I focus on them and whatever we're doing (paying for groceries, placing an order, etc.). I tend to completely forget that I'm locked until I've walked away.
     
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    Well I am happy now I have got used to it again . Lucky really as my 24 hour lock up has been extended.
    I just hope the post helps others new to chastity. Like Oliver who started the thread.
    I did reassure him earlier in the thread. Now I have come back to say I have put it to the test again.
    And the best advice I can give or take. Just carry on in what you do as you did before you where locked.
     
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