Pet and I are wrapping up the remainder of our distance as our immigration journey comes to an end. Lately, we've been talking a lot about our D/s dynamic and how it'll evolve once we're together every day. There are many things I can't predict, but I am convinced our relationship will only get deeper as we start the next chapter of life. As an often primal Dom/me, I do fantasize about making @_and_smile spill in certain scenarios. As we all know, however, subdrop is quite an inconvenient result from a full male orgasm. We've been thinking of ways to combat these effects. Obviously, Ma Nature wins every time... but I'm of the opinion that we can at least curb the effects by taking additional 'corrective' actions afterwards. For several years now, I've had the occasional urge to leave him completely empty, bringing every drop of hard-earned and mostly-denied cum to the surface... multiple times, every day, for several days in a row. It's been a long four years and I've never had the option to even consider something like this, since subdrop over long distance is one of My least favorite things. Times are a-changin', though, so My mind is flooded with daydreams of the not-so-distant future... We're spending the next weekend together and this morning I mentioned keeping him unlocked so I can use him at any time I want, with no restrictions. I also mentioned the desire above, as a possibility for when we're finally together for good. The following conversation was exchanged afterwards. Such a good boy for Me. --- I've tried immediate lockup in the past and it's definitely cut down on the length of his refractory period. However, as you can see by our exchange, I do not want to rely solely on the cage to change his behavior. Neither does he. We've discussed a post "Owner orgasm" mandate; having him pleasure Me afterwards, regardless of his satiety, should help get his mind back on track more quickly. I've also entertained the thought of 'smothering' him between My thighs while he spills, as to positively reinforce the fact that My pleasure is his own. Making him associate his orgasm with My wetness all over his face and My flesh against his mouth seems like it could produce lovely results over time. I love the mental alterations... and reconfiguring his mind has been a delightful experience for us both so far. I'm curious to know what measures you all take (aside from chastity) to handle subdrop after a full male orgasm. What works (and what doesn't) for your relationship?