Total time/and what you learned this year

I suspect and sincerely hope you meant to say "lick."

I've actually been locked far less this year than the previous. I think that has a lot to do with the pandemic and having everyone in the house all the time, and so on. However, I was locked for several weeks in the beginning of the calendar year, and I am locked now.

As for PIV sex, that's long been off limits to me. The more time that goes by (it's been 2.5 years) the more it just solidifies that. Of course, I try to remember what it felt like and sometimes beg her for just a few seconds, only to be rebuffed as usual.

 

Please, don't be sorry. I was just teasing a little. It was pretty clear what you meant.

 

521 days 24/7 here. We haven't had PIV for at least 5 years now. I've had 1 orgasm while being locked this time from pegging, my Wife approves of anal orgasms so that was ok. I have tried to have another but so far only gotten close (which is very frustrating) . I've learned what style of panties I prefer to wear and what brand of panty liner I prefer. I've always done the laundry and dishes so that was nothing new, dusting and cleaning all the little things around the house and getting the house ready for visitors has been new and a learning exp. My Wife started seperating her panties and bras from the regular laundry so I learned how to hand wash those. I receive a regular glass of my Wifes "Hot Lemonade" (As she calls it), I've been learning just how different it tastes on different days and times of day etc.. Kissing and licking pussy is always a ongoing learning exp, its never a mastered skill.

 

I had my last orgasm on October 13. After a one month ramp-up period I am now caged 24/7 with no orgasms in my future unless @Artemistress changes her mind. PIV also at her discretion but likely to be vanishingly rare.

I am learning to focus only on her pleasure and happiness. I'd say we are more intimate than ever. It's not a straight path but has its twists and turns. Hopefully as we go deeper into this things will continue to improve for us.

 

Great question Darley Dixon. Very timely after nearly a year of worldwide arbitrary prison.

I'd say I was locked MUCH more often during the pandemic year. Reasons I'd include are the purchase of a more hygienic device, her and I working from home, and a recognition that chastity truly is "good" for me.

To the best I've kept records, I'd estimate that I have spent about 40% of the year locked. Had maybe 2 or 3 sanctioned orgasms via handjobs. About a dozen UN-sanctioned ones. No intercourse. And I've probably given her about 12 orgasms with my fingers.

 

I've been locked for 151 days this year. The longest was 30 days. I'm locked now until 15 Jan. My wife is very unpredictable!

 

224 days as of today. Unlocked for only a couple days for an airplane trip.

I've learned to be much more patient and control my emotions when I don't get the attention I think I deserve. She has received more oral sex this year than in our entire marriage. So I think I've learned how she likes it done.

I've learned the best way to get the attention I want is to serve her domestically with out being asked or expecting anything in return.

Goals for the new year. Learn how to braid hair and do proper pedicures.

 

I have been locked everyday since we started this at some point of every day. This has really helped our relationship a lot. It has brought a more emotional aspect into our sex life that has lead over into other aspects.

 

ummmm, graphs,

 

Locked for 3 years one month. Last orgasm July 2018 and I was caged for that. Nothing since then. What have I learned? I will never be allowed out of her cage and I will never experience an orgasm again.

 

By the end of the year I will have been locked for about 60% of the time, with only a handful of orgasms. Longest stretch about 70 days.

Definitely the most time locked in a year so far, I think influenced by the global lockdown and complete absence of international business travel.

 

This year stats
113 days session
11 days out for Surgey and recovery
209 days currently
138 days till my next doc appt and unlocking
255 days since my allowed miking once this year
Only had 3 wet dreams
No PIV in last 2 1/2 years

 

So far this year we have had 277 days where I didn't get unlocked. That included one stretch of 91 days straight. The pandemic definitely lead to a lot more more casual play which has been a great escape.

On the orgasm side I'm at 33, but 3/4 of them were in January, one week of August or the end of November. That has been a bit of an emotional roller coaster.

I think the largest change to our kink relationship this year was my wearing a strap-on. My wife likes the way PiV feels so that tends to happen when I am unlocked for more than a day or two, but she has also developed a taste for the endurance and size of the strap-ons. We would have started that years ago if we had any idea how satisfying it would be to make her cum while I am wearing a fake cock. I has also been fun to pick the cock for the evening from our growing collection. Even if I had better endurance and larger size I still couldn't compare to the variety of size, shapes and textures available in dildos. I would strongly recommend it to anyone who hasn't tried it. Also make sure you use some quality lube, it makes a major difference with the larger dildos.

 

2 years almost on the day! i've had max a few weeks off (moving...). probably caged 90% of the 2 years.

it went from "hmm chastity cage? ok i guess..." to "bitch, you better have my property locked up, you'll get a spanking if you leave the house incaged! infact go plug up with the big uncomfortable plug for your attitude."

i learned that making large changes to make a great environment for your family lead to buttplugs and much more kinky play!

 

I also track these details pretty closely--i like to use the data to validate that our FLR power dynamic is "real".

I'm at 93% caged for the year and have had six orgasms so far, 4 full and 2 ruined. My last climax and PIV was in Sept. Mistress also had me track PIV for me vs Her favorite dildo ("Phil"). He's had 53 this year and I've had 14.

Being home so much this year, I've learned how much i enjoy submission and how much my Keyholder Wife, @MistressAMA, loves being in control.

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I'm usually locked 24/7 too. The next time ii unlocked will be for the last ring modification. Its taken a couple years to dial the fit in and will probably be the last time she takes it off.

Full orgasm have been available when shipping the device back. When locked there's zero action. Losing count but Christmas will be a year since my last hand job, last blowie about 2.5 years ago and last PIV 1.5 years ago. On day 140 and 142 I pumped the cage to ruin orgasm
s to relieve the pressure but so unfu
lllllfllfilling.

 

Two orgasms so far in 2020 with probably no more on the horizon for at least the rest of the year (I only had three in 2019). Also had my longest stretch without an O, from May to mid-October. Almost 180 days. I was hoping to go that far and beyond (especially given that it was Locktober), but when your key holder tells you it’s time to come, it’s time.

One week out of the cage while traveling plus a couple of one or two day time outs for various reasons. I used to keep close track of that kind of thing, but it doesn’t seem worthwhile any more. Being caged is my normal state, so whenever I’m out I know I’ll be back in soon, and I haven’t felt tempted to take advantage of my freedom.

 

Great thread. Awesome stats.
As a newbie I cant compare though its full time.

I dont get how your wives dont want more piv. Seems like some of them end up chasted.

If I suggested to my good wife that chastity was for less piv shed not buy it. She agrees to keep me locked so that I am ready for piv when she wants!
Big change for us as I used to masturbate daily and neglect her. The change in my attitude towards her is so stark that I can’t see her going back.

 

sounds like a perfect life to me

 

I've been locked every day of 2020 so far, and my last penile orgasm was Thanksgiving of 2019. No PIV in 4 years. And I guess I've learned how much I love it.