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    #76 LockedAndSafe, Oct 15, 2019
    My girlfriend (and keyholder) and I have a wonderful, loving relationship that suits us both fantastically well. The chastity aspect is pretty straightforward and becoming more a part of our day-to-day lives. It also happens that we're incredibly well suited for each other sexually. We have an amazing level of trust in each other. Neither of us have ever been fortunate to have this level of trust in prior relationships. As a result, we're comfortable sharing our fantasies with each other and acting them out. Much of it is unbelievable and, frankly, no one's business but ours. But like others have said, we live most of our lives in purposely normal surroundings - jobs, kids, laundry... When I read what others post, I just take it at face value and move on. It doesn't influence me other than when there's a piece of useful information or a chuckle.
     
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    #77 buildup, Oct 15, 2019
    Good point: none of us know for sure what is fiction and what isn't when a member is relating an event. What someone might think is too extreme to be true could just be regular behaviour to another. It can be difficult to accept something as real if there is no way or no chance of it happening to you,
     
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    #78 aussie_chaste, Oct 16, 2019
    Yup. There is always someone going above and beyond. I'm sure there are a few that have gone 10 years in permanent chastity, but what would they have to talk about anyway? This year was the same as last year and next year is looking like the same again?

    And on the other hand you have those who bought their first chastity device. "I just got it and I am never taking it off again!" Even though the picture shows a poor fit and the cage is going to fall off while they are walking down the street - good luck with that.

    Reminds me of back in high school when we were all talking about the hot sex we were supposedly having and going all night. When in reality we were all virgins and those who were actually having sex weren't talking about it.
     
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    #79 613CuckLock, Oct 16, 2019
    Hi Aussie. Good point!

    Right now I'm locked again after three weeks out free. When my wife gets home she'll tell me how long the lockup will be. I've been anticipating all day which is exciting!
     
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    #80 613CuckLock, Oct 17, 2019
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    I got my answer.

    Photo removed
     
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    #81 L-u-c-y, Oct 17, 2019
    Photo removed

    No one wants to see that : )
     
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    #82 Ormaz, Oct 17, 2019
    There should be a Fiction section and all fictitious stories moved there.
     
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    #83 Mimi, Oct 18, 2019
    Im not one who likes to post about my FLR much i have posted the odd thing but i mainly reply to other posts,
    And yes its easy enough to spot the BS if its not what you want to see just move on to next post its that simple.
     
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    #84 Dogtanian69, Oct 18, 2019
    There is one.... and there are some very good stories hidden in there
     
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    #85 Locked in love, Oct 18, 2019
    While we're at it, can we just have a section in the gallery for dick pics? I know all the guys here have one but I've got no interest in looking at them and I suspect I'm not alone.
     
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    #86 L-u-c-y, Oct 18, 2019
    What would you like to see in the gallery instead?
     
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    #87 sylvana chastity, Oct 18, 2019
    daisies! :D
     
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    #88 613CuckLock, Oct 19, 2019
    Speak for yourself. Some people do want to see that.

    Censorship.
     
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    #89 L-u-c-y, Oct 19, 2019
    That's what the gallery is for. I don't want to be happily reading a thread and be forced to see someones naked arse.

    Post the photo in the gallery then post a link to it here, then you give people the option.
     
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    #90 613CuckLock, Oct 19, 2019
    Here's a typical stretched story:

    Guy locked up. KH puts numbing cream and a sleeve on locked guy. He does his thing and she has "5 or 6 orgasms" and he is left with none. Or it's "she came 2 or 3 times and I didn't".

    For each sexual encounter with every woman in my life, I know exactly how many orgasms they've had. It is my nature to focus on the woman's pleasure. and that seems to be the case for a lot of the locked guys here. So when I read things like "my cock has been locked for 6 months, she put the numbing cream and 4 condoms on me then had 5 or 6 orgasms" I just sigh. Poor bastards!
     
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    #91 613CuckLock, Oct 19, 2019
    Haha! Love it!!
     
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    #92 L-u-c-y, Oct 19, 2019
    It makes me laugh when I see people saying things like "I wake her up with my head between and give her orgasms every morning before work".

    What is more likely to happen, she would say "For fucks sake let me wake up normally for once you selfish prick!".
     
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    #93 613CuckLock, Oct 19, 2019
    That sounds overly complicated when your forums allow for posting attachments to messages. Plus you don't have rules regarding pics. It's ad hoc on your whim.

    To be honest, when you removed my pic and categorically made the determination that "nobody wants to see that", I was offended which rarely happens.

    If you want to set rules for posting pics then do it. I looked at your charter after you did that to me. And I looked at the update. I did nothing wrong.

    Plus my ass looked good ;)
     
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    #94 L-u-c-y, Oct 19, 2019
    Yes it is ad hoc at my whim, get used to it :)

    You should had had the sense and politeness not to ram your arse into a conversation.
     
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    #95 Lockedboy101, Oct 19, 2019
    At the end of the day, it’s Lucy’s site. She can do as she likes, whether we like it or not. She does make a fair point though, might as well use the gallery seeing as its there.
     
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    #96 613CuckLock, Oct 20, 2019
    This and any other forum is nothing without contributors. Lucy manages the site and I like it here. But I will stand up for my principles.

    Lucy could have handled it better than she did.

    I have been wholly respectful despite Lucy's assertion.
     
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    #97 613CuckLock, Oct 20, 2019
    My experience is that women need to "feel in the mood" for whatever is in store. Unless she's ready (feeling clean, sexy, desirable, interested, dressed with the internal humm) then it's not happening!

    Guys can contribute to the mood - make small shifts in direction. But the woman holds all the cards. That is sexy.
     
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    #98 L-u-c-y, Oct 20, 2019
    Your principles are sticking a naked arse photo in the middle of a conversation thereby forcing everyone to look at it without their consent?

    You're just throwing a mini tantrum because you couldn't bare your arse to everyone.

    Much like men do when they don't get their own way.

    You are welcome to bare it and anything else in the gallery.
     
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    #99 613CuckLock, Oct 20, 2019
    Uhhhh. Ya. I guess??
     
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    #100 tomf_22033, Oct 20, 2019
    Way back a girlfriend and I played with numbing cream a few times. It was a lot of fun, other things in life got in the way from playing with it more.

    A friend of mine and his wife told me about their experience with him having a bad reaction and having to go to the hospital.

    So people do mess with it and it’s not all fantasy.

    Keep in mind we all have different experiences, so not everything is fantasy even if it sounds wild, nor is everything that seems real so.
     
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