To Stir a Lion

Hello everyone, I wanted to start a journal about my adventure in Chasity. I started this manly as an experiment. I feel life can be spiced up from stepping out of the normal. What is something abnormal for my life? Well strapping a cage on my penis and space out orgasms of course. I enjoy listening to guided meditation that then turned into erotic hypnosis organically, I am sure you know what I mean.

I am not sure when the concept came to light but it was exciting to me the idea of chastity and would sometimes go cage-less in terms of orgasm control. Then with web surfing i learned that it is a large market for male Chasity. So you do what you always do when aroused, you decide to commit. So after a year of "committing" (LOL) I decided to spring for a cage. That is when the price came and told me. "we expensive"

I was ill informed and did not know where to start so I got some cheap device that i could not even get my penis in. I am 6 foot 2 inches in height (1.87 meters) and always thought I was average in terms of the genital department. But just like women who have different bust sizes we men also have many sizes, shapes or even coloration. I learned about myself in a way that taught me that I had more girth then the baseline and condoms were tighter then they should be, hey I thought they were supposed to be! anyways, this first device taught me that there is no "base line" not like all other men's accessory slapping a MED or LRG on something does not work on Chasity cage.

So I tried again, took some tips in poorly written forum post and websites that wanted to crush my testicles for $19.99 a month and measured myself, did the math, ordered a silicone cage as since the last hard plastic cage was tight i thought to have something stretchy will increase comfort.

NOPE! This cage was super wrong to fit. not only was the cage to long, but the base ring was tight and caused my scrotal skin to chafe and even started to split. This was due to the gripping of rubber. As many men know the scrotum loosens and tightens based on temperature. The cremaster muscle did what it does and that movement made my scrotum to be a bit unhappy with me.

I have given up all hope then I saw a random post on a forum that had a picture of a simple cage and it looked pleasant to the eye. This was called the Cherry Keeper. I thought the name was clever and then learned it is a 3D printed cage that was super affordable compared to the much expensive alternatives. With my 2 failures I was/am scared to spend large amounts of money until I am comfortable with the size. Tracked down the creator and found them here!

After a month of lurking, I decided that it was time to put forth some effort and go for it. I created my account and simply asked for help. The creator being super quick responded and helped me understand the numbers. I ordered and clicked the lock for the first time today. Let me walk you though this, and myself of course, on the experience.

First things first. Shower! i found a quick shower is good, I already had an erection and was a bit scared and stressed on this idea. The device looked much smaller then the others i have.
(left to right on my cages)

But, I want this to work. After a bit of play and cleaning I was able to get the base ring on. I got the oval ring because it felt more organic and I am glad I made that choice. I decided to do this in the shower as water helps lubricate and I did not want to slather my scrotum in oil, yet. I put on the cage, and I cannot stress enough on how when people say
"You know when it fits, because it will just fit."
That statement is on the money. It fit and fit well. I did not have any discomfort.

There is an app I found in this forum that that allowed me to have a "keyholder" and it is a fun little thing called Chastikey. I set it up, locked up for a chance of 2 hours to 8 hours. And let time tick. I have a cable lock that works wonderful for the cherry keeper and the device has a add on for padlocks that i need to order. after a few hours with little adjustment. I wore a Boxer Brief to help with support and prevent free dangling. This was my first real fit and I am skeptical.

I finished my first session and was excited and aroused. The weight was a noticeable reminder that was pleasant and enjoyable. Wearing the ring i was able to learn chafe points. If you are new and reading this, I did a lot of reading myself and never read this. Where the ring meets the scrotum, just like my silicone experience it rubs and moves. HOWEVER this is nothing like my other experience. I took some sandpaper and smoothed out the surface of the plastic and applied a bit of coconut oil. Now that friction is much less. I am sure I will get used to it over time. But the one tip I got over and over was, learn your limits and take it slow. Lube up if you think you need to and even if you don't.

I am already ready to upgrade to a better plastic. I found my fit. I am not sure if I can put hyperlinks here or even call out the creator. But if i am told I can, I would love to discuss these things. I want to create a conversation and expand my experiences. While I am not "submissive" in the way most would consider submission. I locked for me, to create awareness of myself and understand the world of pleasure past the simple. Today was day 1, my experience and mindset. Maybe I will change or grow. We will see as I write on.

Thank you chasitymansion for being classy, respectful and source of good information. The next question is, whats next?

-TheStirringLion
maybe I should change to the locked lion? LOL

 

thanks for the tip, I was thinking about that and how it could cause me any issues. I will update this as I go through it. What did you do to curb those erections, or if not curb, manage?

 

Thank you all for the support and tips! Since i have tomorrow off i am going to try for a bit longer then 5 hours. We shall see how it goes.

 

Wow! Just finished 8 hours with Some sleep! Those erections are no joke. I decided to sleep with a brief and that seemed to help I have never woke up so aroused. I see why people get addicted quick. I completed my lock and my penis felt twice harder then normal and i would be a layer if I was not rocking (lol) quite the hard morning. But you do not need a cage to be chaste. I would have kept the cage on, by my scrotum was tender.


So, new conversation before I try another lock down. What support do you use? My first lock was a boxer brief, when I slept was a brief. Both felt good, I know unless I was being fun and flirty I would stay away from boxers.

My arousal is Kinda a monster and the amount of pre-ejaculate is high and hope this feeling does not fade.

 

This made me laugh much harder then it should have.

 

I am excited to rock this super blue trunk, my lock slipped out a bit! I am going for another 6-9 hour wearing. No breakage of any skin! just tenderness and a lot of Pre-ejaculate.

 

WOO just set a new record for me, 14 hours in lock i was bold and doubled my lock time, using Chastikey to create a gamble, I created a session for 8 hours, the gamble worked against me in a fun way

 

Starting another lock it gets easier every time!

 

Decided to order a headlock for my cherry keeper I think that a little bigger cage will make longer sessions a bit more comfortable, insted of a short wide fit. a bit longer so the scrotum can breath. Will update when I get it in a week and see if I can go longer then 24 hours

 

Ever play 50/50 So i self lock wity Chastikey (ios app) and some how got all 4 green cards which was the magic number for unlocking. Well It was 4 hours in and I wanted to last at least 8. You can put it down walk away which is fine OR you can gamble. Gambling is sexy like this, that chance is fun so I hit it and it reset which was not that bad, but then the game hated me. I got double up cards which doubled and then doubled now I have 54 red cards.

In short I get one draw every 30 min and if its red then it stays locked, if its green I get to draw again. 4% is not a good draw number and I am using a bot which can decide to add or remove. All or nothing is a bit much

 

Just completed a 13 hour lock with a full over night. What a hard morning (lol) I woke up natural and did not have any pain. I think sleeping with a brief helped me make sure that there was no sliding or clinking. Last time I slept with the cage on was with a boxer and I had some erection discomfort, nothing major.

How do you handle overnights? From past tips and suggestions things like making sure you sleep on an empty bladder.

I want to try and complete a longer lock session, my order for a longer cage is not here yet, should be here Monday

What are some fun chasity things you added in your life to spice up your cage experience?

 

My first time hitting 20 hours!!!!!!!!!!!