Regarding your fit, do you prefer to feel like your penis is being compressed/gripped, or do you prefer to have a looser, more roomy fit? I am going back and forth between the two ideas. My tighter fit cage is acting more like a cock ring at times, keeping me in a constant state of "bursting at the seams". Kinda painful in a good way ! But I don't know if that's good long term, like if it is restricting blood flow or anything.
My Kh likes it very tight and small. I like the stern, ever-present reminder that my sexual fulfilment is out of my hands. I haven't had any negative experiences with it yet either. But if it were, we would immediately draw consequences.
I like a tighter fit primarily so it's not visible under clothing. But I also do like the compressed feeling of a tighter cage. As long as everything stays soft there is no pain. Skin colour looks good so blood flow should be fine. If I was feeling regular pain I'd try something a little bigger.
Different thinking for me: IF...(a big if) I swapped cages for the night and for the day I'd wear a tight one at night and a looser fitting one during the day. The nocturnal erection attempts are easier to bear with a smaller cage.
I prefer the squeeze over the scrunch. I like the constant reminder that my (her) penis is being held tight.
well with the squeezy little cages it make peeing harder so it best then to have a little tube go inside you and then peeing is better in that.
I agree with the smaller cage camp. Not so small as to cause discomfort when flaccid, but tight enough to keep your penis centered in the cage and lined up to pee without a mess. A cage that is big enough to give you some room to grow will definitely pinch you at times when you least want it
The flaccid penis is like water in a vessel, it takes the shape of its container. if your cage is tight enough to feel pressure when limp, then im not sure how you got into it in the first place! Im still somewhat new to this "sport". but in all my research and the 10 or so cages ive bought and tried, in my experience you want a cage that is "snug" on all sides and the tip when you are at your most neutral phase of limpness. the less room you give it to expand, the weaker your erection attempts will be. If your base ring is sized right, you should be able to suppress all but erections caused by deliberate teasing, and morning wood.
The tube I am locked into at the moment is certainly tight. Where kinky sex is concerned and whatever the problem, more often than not, tight is right!
Yes to squeeze, please! As long as the ring is close and the tube keeps your dick aligned, smaller is the way to beat down boners. Keeps head and some shaft super compressed and it confines whatever swells or bulges below the tube, within — or mostly within— the ring zone…substantially inward. You back up an erection that way you can absolutely shorten and defeat arousal.
Definitely shorter/compressed for me. I liken it to someone gently squeezing my penis/balls continually, not so much that it becomes painful or tiresome, more just a gentle cupping and you are easily reminded that something is there. I have tried longer fitting cages and I just can't get used to the downward pressure they place, especially at night