Tips for staying locked at night

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    That is it! It's not for his comfort, it's for Your fun. Enjoy it!
     
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    Dial the cage length down. The less room his cock can swell the less pain he will be in.

    I also found this: https://allknight.com/products/mens-wear/bdsm-mens-harness/cock-jock-cock-harness.aspx

    When I get erections my cock cage would pull away from my body and it would become painful. Specially at night. I started using twine around my waist (tie around the rings base on each side) to hold my cage close. This prevented the painful pulling 100% of the time! I was so happy and finally getting full nights rest.

    I learned quickly that it helped with the weight of my cage too. So I had less weight pulling on my cock causing reminders of my cage and erections constantly. Once I started with twine and then this wonderful product I found long term chastity so much easier. Well until teased by my women.
     
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    Don't take it off at night. and there you are .. locked all night.

    That is the solution and not just a glib comment.
     
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    For several years I struggled with nightly pain and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get it to work.

    The solution was to get pierced, to get a slightly shorter cage and to increase the size of the base ring (this was the most important thing).

    I was always able to pull out of the cage from the back so I kept trying to make the base ring smaller to make it more difficult to pull out. And while the smaller base was fine during the day, it was torture at night. That's why I got pierced. It stopped the pull out problem and allowed me to have the right size base ring. If it's too big, your balls pop out. If too small it's really difficult to sleep.

    For me the only solution was to get pierced and the trickle down effect of this was nothing short of a miracle. In the grand scheme of things, the piercing was way less painful than even one night of uncomfortable sleep. I don't really know why I waited so long to get it done.
     
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    There will be times he doesn’t want the cage on but as long as there’s no injury or potential injury it doesn’t matter what he says; you’re the one in charge of the cock not him. You must keep the cage on if YOU want it to stay on. Remember, this is all about what you want. I must admit I really felt bad for my husband at first but as time progressed I came to enjoy his pain and I let him know it. Over time his pain lessened and now if his moaning wakes me I’ll fondle him and make it worse. Sometimes I make him lick me to orgasm!
     
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    Don't drink before bed. Cut down on fluid intake for a while generally particularly alcohol.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I forgot to mention, even with my cage being dialed in and perfect, I still dab a little baby oil gel on the ring and between the cage and sack.

    This seems to cut down on whatever friction that makes it stick when things move around.

    Not lotion

    Good luck
     
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    Tell him to duck it up! We have all been through it! I have been locked for 2.5 years I wish I could get a booner! Use numbing cream so he can get used to it
     
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    Does the gel work better for you. I have been using the oil and I never thought about the gel.
     
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    Gel is way better, at least for me.
     
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    I'm using baby lotion. Didn't like the oil myself. It 'lubricated' the cage too well and night erections put even more pressure on the balls...
     
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    That's the right way to treat Your man, Madame.
     
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    I'm glad to see someone agrees.

    His pain really gets me wet now as I'm sure it does other women in the same position. One of his punishments and something I really think sped up his acclimation to the early pain of his nightly erections is Viagra and fondling before vibrating my clit to orgasm, at bedtime. The first several nights of that I had to tie him spread eagle to the guest bed in another room just so I could sleep. I did wake periodically to check his balls for circulation and lick them to continue his pain.

    He seems to have finally adjusted and his pain is greatly reduced. He still moans at night but rarely wakes now.

    I think the secret is to make him endure it until he adjusts.
     
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    So, now that You've found out the secret, enjoy it! i'm sure he enjoys it too, knowing Your're having fun, Madame.
     
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    Wonderful
     
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    I agreee with the 2 posters above me!
     
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    Recently, when he's in pain, and I'm feeling extremely generous, and he deserves a reward but not to the level of an orgasm, and I'm not in the mood to pleasure myself at the cost of his pain I allow him to use Aspercream with lidocaine.

    I also allow him to use it at night when he needs to be well rested for the next day.

    I don't think Gigaman should be allowed this courtesy until he's experienced a good amount of pain. I don't want to sound mean but he needs to learn who's in charge of the cock! What he wants or doesn't want is irrelevant.

    This is all for the pure joy of the key holder.
     
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    Of course, Madame. he will realize that You are the One in charge, because You are his Superior.
     
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    I have been wearing my cage 24/7 for 3 years. With my new PA piercing and custom made small cage I was able to go to a larger diameter ring because I could no longer pull out. I also use a silicone based lubricant because it lasts much longer then water or oil based. Eventually it learned and conditioned itself not to get hard at night anymore.
     
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