Tip of penis "peaking out" and painfully rubbing against underwear

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    As the title says, I have the problem that the tip (urethra opening area) is painfully rubbing against underwear or - worse - gets caught in the seam of the trousers where the legs are sown together.

    Is there anything that can be done? I've had this problem with all cages and all types of underwear, really don't know what I'm doing wrong!
     
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    I'd say your cage is a little too small - the end of your penis should just reach the end, not be poking out. The alternative is a less open cage at the end. I'm in a short cage but the pee hole holds the opening of my urethra behind it.

    A bit like this:
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    I get that sometimes. I normally wear boxers with my work pants. Both are loose fitting. Usually no issues. Some days things just don't sit right and I get a little irritation occasionally.

    I have a brand of shorts I like to wear and if I wear boxes my penis runs so bad. I found wearing tight boxer briefs fixes that issue.

    Not sure what you have tried do far.
     
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    the only thing that works to prevent that for me is to put a small square of toilet paper or a cotton makeup remover at the tip inside the cage. I don't like this solution but it's all I have found that works.
     
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    Had that problem too, tried many things and different cages. Now wearing a mature metal jailbird with the 2 cross bars and no problems at all anymore.
     
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    I bought a looker 02 from a german manufacturer. Can't find it online anymore though. I cut and filed down a stainless steel m6 bolt to block the urethral tube hole. no more pinches.

    IMG_20221028_175441.jpg
     
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    cage is just a touch too short. if your version of device has a longer cage option try the next size up.
     
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    If you wear snug underwear it may push extra penile tissue into the cage, causing the glans to project between the bars. I've experienced this.

    The MM Jail Bird is sized with a relaxed dangling penis, but if you press the cage against your body with snug fitting underwear, the cage may be too short.
     
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    has noone come up with a DIY cap solution for the likes of jailbird etc? maybe just a bit of material with an elastic band to hold it in place or a 3d printed one? purely to stop skin poking out but can be removed easily for urinating.
     
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    There is also a cage made by a member here, Comfyne, that has two nubs that stick out so that helps block underwear from rubbing.
     
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    https://www.steelworxx.de/
     
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    Thanks for that. My browser doesn't find it or other sites when I google 'male chastity devices'. No idea why
     
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    Hope i'm not hijacking the thread op? Should I get a longer jailbird cage? IMG_20221030_131756.jpg IMG_20221030_131953.jpg
    I'm actually trying to make a cap out of some moldable plastic that gets delivered later today so I'll see how that goes but I'm curious what other people would do in this situation.
     
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    That’s a good idea!
     
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    Thanks, it really works. takes a few tries to get it just right so i't easy to clip on and off but you get loads in the bag. i got 250g of it and I think i'd be able to make at least 15 of them, maybe 20.

    It goes hard in a few minutes but if you thoroughly cool it down it becomes really solid piece of plastic. just make it thick enough but not too thick that you can't remove it
     
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    #17 Comfyne, Oct 31, 2022
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    Hey, I made a cage specifically to solve this problem.

    It has little horns at the front of the cage to hold fabric away. It doesn't work 100% of the time (ie - if you have extremely tight clothing, it can pull against the cage anyway) but it makes this almost a non-issue for me.

    You can find it here!
     
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    I'm wearing the "easy to pee" style cage from Badass Workroom and was having the same problem, but I came up with a, possibly genius, solution. I rolled up a 2-piece strip of toilet paper to make a little wedge and pushed that into the opening, and it works, no more foreskin poking through!
     
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    my one dont peep out cos i cant see it cos it is inside me. but i know what you means and putting something in the cage to stop it do that is what to do.
     
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    I use a little piece of medical tape to protect my “tip”.
     
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    20 days in, no rubbing the tip, no urine issues.
     

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    Get a stainless-steel Nub, no stick out, secure, comfortable. DH Gate has them and they are not too expensive.
    Lisa
     
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    Try this:

    https://www.shapeways.com/product/QCTBGBVJQ/cherry-keeper-custom-ckc-52u81v-19?li=shops

    or this:

    https://www.shapeways.com/product/ZQTN98HG9/cherry-keeper-custom-cc2-t13dst-19-fb-ct?li=shops

    Because I have quite a bit of foreskin, I can’t wear cages like HolyTrainer or any open-slit design.
    But I bought these two from Cherrykeeper and they are perfect! I wear the larger one in the begining after not being locked for a while, then once it “shrinks”, wife puts me into the smaller one. Nothing sticks out, nothing hurts (in a bad way).
     
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    When the tip of your penis pushes through the pee-hole, the cage ist too short and the hole too large. If it only happens getting an erection I would go for a smaller hole.

    An even better solution might be a plug or tether that is screwed to the front of your cage. That way there would be no opening at all. But even if you are open to such things they in themself could (must not) lead to other problems.
     
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    @outro2006 it must make a mess when you pee tho in one like that
     
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