Timber's Behindbarz

I started in enforced chastity over twenty years ago. Soon after I moved to San Francisco I visited Mister S. Leather and asked them whether they had any chastity devices. They looked at me like I was from Mars. Enforced chastity? Why would anyone do that? But they recognized the potential and soon had fun little leather shorts. (I still have mine, which are twink-sized and need to sell to a deserving twink.)

Somebody sent me a Tollyboy chastity belt to wear, but the T-style waistband was primitive, and the simple straight penis tube was impractical. That was disappointing and never could be made to work.

I bought a Carrara chastity belt, which was fun and actually worked for up to a few days at a time. Mine had a penis tube sized for my penis, not terribly thick, which left not enough room for my balls and caused edema. I had it modified with a larger penis tube which solved the ballroom problem. I once wore it over a weekend, having mailed myself the keys (in separate envelopes). On another occasion I wore it all weekend at a science fiction convention. I still have it, but it doesn't really work for long-term wear. The biggest problem is that the downward tube just makes nighttime erections hurt. That makes me grumpy and nobody likes a grumpy woof.

I have tried a number of other devices, but anything that puts pressure on the cock ring just hurts after a while. I have a Cellmate that's fun but eventually painful.

A few years ago I found the Behindbarz web site but could never afford one. I have made room in my budget and on Friday ordered mine: Blue, 4" penis tube, extra bars. I also wanted a Pup Tube for nighttime use and special occasions … so I have asked if I can add that to the order.

I will be writing about my order, news, unboxing, wearing-in, and further adventures as they develop.

 

Thank you for the suggestion! I saw discussions and photos of that here. It certainly looks like it would do the job! But I did not find them on the BB web site.

 

One thing I hope I got right is the length of the penis tube. I'm a grower, not a shower, but I want to allow for erections, nighttime or otherwise. Thus I ordered a 4" tube, which will better accommodate that.

I have not actually ordered my Pup tube yet, but as its main intent is for sleeping, I think 4" is appropriate. I suspect there's no way to make that look not ostentatious under pants.

 

Oh. Locktober. I'd heard of that but have not participated. Diving right in will be hard; I should first take some time to adjust and get used to my belt. Otoh, Locktober with a Chaster account could be fun.

 

Innatcase I better change the order before they start!

 

That office manager is going to wake up to a few messages from me. I hope he reads them all before responding … and that I'm not making a pest of myself. On the other paw, I am spending half a ton of money.

 

Half a ton of money? Yikes! One might hope that as they finalize the design for the funnel they do some cost-engineering and bring that down. I suspect I'll be using external catheters. (I do that now for mostly uninterrupted sleep anyway.)

 

I also hope that as they firm that up, they provide proper options on their web site. This is a case of not even knowing what questions to ask, and asking "What questions should I ask?" won't work. The funnel will wait.