When I returned from my weekend away My Love was happy to see me, She asked how much I enjoyed it, I thanked Her very much for locking me up and told Her that I had a great time. When we went to bed that night I uncaged and began to rub Her back, needless to say I was aroused. When She felt my stiffness She apologized and told me She was just not in the mood, which was fine since one of the points of this is to give Her the control regardless if it's to play or not to play. I got up yesterday and did my usual routine, made the coffees got dressed and went to work. When I arrived home I proceeded to lock myself up as per Her instructions. When My Love arrived home we kissed hello, at that time She reached down to see if I was locked up or not, nothing else was said. One of the requirements She has for this to become the norm is that She does not always want to talk about it. I have been told and I do understand, that it can't always be about chastity, it can be a part of our lives however life happens as well. After my shower I began to unlock, My Love told me to leave it on, Her reason She said "You told me if I wasn't using it, you'd prefer to be locked, I'm not using that so leave it on, just don't touch me with it when we cuddle, it's uncomfortable digging into my back" When I got up for work this morning and delivered Her coffee, She had seen my cage, gave it a tap but said nothing else. Didn't give me Her key either and I dare not ask for it so I came to work caged. It's been 13 days since my last ejaculation and 6 since I was permitted an edging session so I'm thankful that She has it locked up, for the sole reason of controlling my hard ons, at this stage it doesn't take much. I certainly am enjoying this denial session and how My Love is opening up to this journey, let's hope it continues!