Happy to report we have broken my no orgasm record. My wife would usually unlock me every week or two for PIV. While we do have a strap on and she likes oral too, but she loves the real deal too much. So while sex is almost 2-3 times a week, but I get orgasm only when she decides after a week or two gap. Unfortunately she caught an infection down there, which bled a little from time to time. So our doc asked us to refrain from sex. After a lot of tests which went on for almost a month to rule out anything major, my wife is on her meds now and it seems to be getting better. As of now, its almost 3 months since the doc asked us not to have piv. And so there was no reason for me to have an orgasm. She categorically declared that if she can't have it, I'm not getting it too. So I was just unlocked to be cleaned and locked back up all the time. Last night she was extremely tempted to have an O. So since doc said no PIV, we decided to use just the vibrator on her. She had two quick ones and then had me tied up and unlocked me. I was so so desperate and happy as I expected a handjob. But she just teased me for sometime and locked it back up. Said she just wanted to play with it. And I need to wait until the doc allows sex again.