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This sums up a lot of females experiences in the fetish scene

Discussion in 'The Pedestal' started by Mistress Lucy, Jul 12, 2017.

  1. I agree with what your saying, though I think it is rather dependent upon the type/nature of the porn you are choosing to watch.

    On reflection it is true to say the majority of porn has a minimal story, if any, to put the people involved in the same place then usually its pretty male centric with the women becoming very stimulated within seconds from anything the guys do then quite quickly he gets to recieve oral until such time as they switch to PiV or PiA sex which ends in him pulling out to show his ejaculation. Often the guy is seen to switch around from receiving oral to PiV and PiA sex and back without ever wearing a condom or stopping to wash after anal. During which she will probably (and unrealistically) be seen to orgasm several times .. in a sense highlighting his prowess and justifying his (lack of) technique. Most porn is built upon variations of that scenario pretty boring really and in relation to this thread is actually degrading towards women in that no man ought to ever treat any woman that way whether it be within a long standing relationship or a one night stand.

    I know I digress but....
    Porn is intended to be, on the whole, just male masturbation fuel and not in anyway is it intended to be instructional. Unfortunately the less experienced the people watching this stuff the more instructional it actually is. Any inexperienced woman expecting that everything and ANYthing a guy wants to do to (rather than with) them will have her collapsing in waves of rapture is going to be sadly disappointed. Why any woman would want to hook up and stay with a young guy whose been living on a diet of the is stuff and acting accordingly is beyond me. But they do, for a while, which reinforces its validity as instructional material, whilst unintentionally emphasising the inadequacies of both males and females that do not fit into the typical but unrealistic 'porn' physiques. Always good looking, usually young women with older men both having tight, ripped, lithe, limber bodies, often with overly large breasts or penises and every woman having an amazing (and unnatural) ability to stretch any opening to accomodate anything with which they are about to thoroughly enjoy be assaulted with.

    So I apologise for any misunderstanding generated by my previous post in this thread in that I do believe despite most men not seeing it that way that MOST run of the mill porn does degrade women ...and men too. The problem is the majority of people who buy (thereby encouraging) this crap think its how things should be and blame themselves when they dont match up to the reality of it.
     
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    +1 for trying a different approach
    -1 for copying and pasting it to every woman without reading their profile
    -1 for writing a crap rap



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  3. i don't like some words and they very very rude i think.
     
  4. @filltee@filltee , yes spot on. The thing that concerns me is that children are finding porn at younger and younger ages. This is where the instructional aspect of porn can be so damaging. On a personal note we caught my 8yr old son with porn on his iPad. Obviously we have taken measures so that doesn't happen again, but I was shocked that he had somehow discovered it at such a young age. I have also noticed that a lot of parents don't seem to care either. That son is now 11 and was complaining the other day that instagram and Facebook are blocked on his devices. He said all of his friends are on there. I had him prove it to me, and there it was, friends from his school all on these apps. Maybe I'm old school but I don't see how instagram and Facebook can benefit kids at such young ages. Maybe he can use them when he is in high school, we'll see :p
     
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    Some of these messages are from instagram, and I've also had unsolicited penis photos on there, so kids probably get them as well. The senders just don't care who they offend as long as they get their kicks.
     
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  6. @Mistress Lucy@Mistress Lucy , thank you for validating my concerns on instagram ;)
     
  7. it sucks when it seems the only people that notice the damage social media can and does do is a bunch of kinksters.
    this needs to get around to the general public and especially the parents.
     
  8. I don't think it's just the kinksters. Many of the kinksters here are also parents, and a lot of parents know it's a problem but there are precious few effective tools for dealing with it.

    Our days of raising kids are done, thank FSM, but we had a lot of struggles with it. This was back in the days when MySpace and texting were the main social media landscape for our kids, and that was bad enough. We refused to get them cell phones and tried to use blocking software on their computers (and put the computers in public areas of the house, etc, etc). They bought their own phones and paid for month to month service, and used computers at the library or at friends' houses.

    It was like trying to push a river upstream even then, and I can only imagine it's gotten worse since.
     
  9. I have found in my experience most parents are either oblivious or don't care. It does sometimes feel like a losing battle but thankfully technology is keeping up. We have a DNS blocker on the router which is password protected. We also have a device that connects to all of the wifi devices, its a go through hub, which can also filter unwanted sites. This device also allows the parents to set time limits, bed time(which stops wifi from working), and I can pause the internet at anytime for any reason with a push of the button. That one always gets their at attention :D. We also have a strict policy of no devices or computers in their rooms at night. The real problem I have found is being able to block them but also myself being able to view my interests such as this site :eek:
     
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  10. Wow! Is it really that bad? I will take your word for it. As an educated man, hard to figure.
     
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    Bicycling over people?? Is that a fetish?

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  12. @Mistress Lucy@Mistress Lucy , come on! That has to at least make you giggle when you read stuff like that? lol
     
  13. Mistress Lucy do try and keep up!
     
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    Maybe the first 1000 times.
     
  15. i wudnt like to be runned over by a bike. eeeek
     
  16. I have gone to pro dom's. and stated, I'm very open, what would you like to do to me! Only limit nothing permanent.
    Left before with my eyebrows shaved off.... She had a blast, I regrettted for the next 5 mts, not communicating.
     
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    A pleasant start to my Monday morning...

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  18. Mistress Lucy not sure why my gender is so crude... especially in trying to communicate. I love being pushed, and my thrill is not knowing where we are headed. Yes, I do have to ask for a physical scene ever so often! I absolutely follow her lead. I am a sub... never want to be degrading to there authority.
     
  19. Yeah, I'd say I have to agree with a post I read earlier on this sort of stuff. A lot of submissive men are really repressed, and that manifests itself in some pretty strange ways.
     
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    They just don't care.

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  21. If this guy wants to go to a real government jail, and he really does the things he writes about, I'll bet his fantasy comes true sooner or later.

    Too bad you can't help it along with a quick phone call.

    And may I just add, ewww…
     
  22. Where exactly are these guys getting your info to send this crap