This is me.

Hi,

I’m a 43 years old male. Maried for the past 15 years to an amazing women. I have introduced a chastity cage to my wife about 3 years ago. She took it very well and she did not take long to enjoy all the benefits of keeping my cock locked and keeping me from not masterbating. The moment I told her all about chastity and the reasons why I need to wear one, she completely agree that this would be perfect thing to keep me sexually ready at anytime. My wife is not only sexy but she is also very intelligent so she right away ask me if I was sure about what I was asking her to take controle off. She mentioned to me that there is no turning back since she knew that this was going to be quite interesting and addicting. Once a gave her the key, she was not going to give it back.

My wife has always been a dominant person but never fully accepted the power she had over me. When I introduced the chastity cage 3 years ago I also discussed with her the dominance that she had with me. She said that she knew that she was naturally dominant with me but did not feel confortable with it. I told her that this was a huge turn on for me and that I always loved when she gave me orders and directions. She admitted that this was natural for her to controle me but she never really thought about it. She even became emotional when I told her that I knew that she loved taking charge in our relationship. So she admitted that she will now be more accepting of her dominance over me. So in the past 3 years she has evolved completely and she is now more dominant than ever. For the past 2 years I have been taking care of all the house chores. She also knows that I have a feet and shoe fetish so when she leaves or arrive at home I am in charge of her shoes and boots. She lets me put them on her feet’s and remove them. I’m also in charge of keeping them clean at all time. I love it!

The first year she was making me wear a chastity cage about 3 to 4 days at a time with breaks for sometime one to two weeks. The second year I was wearing it 6 to 7 days at a time with breaks for 3 to 5 days. Then last year I was wearing it 6 to 7 days at a time with breaks for 2 days. So in December she informed me that she will be keeping me in chastity for longer period since she finds that I am lacking stability in my day to day chores and also it did not help that she found me masterbating. So I have been wearing my chastity cage since December 18 th. Since we do still have sex she is locking me back in right after sex. I’m slowly accepting that I no longer able to masterbate. By the way, I’m very serious about chastity and will not attempt to pull out or any attempt to play with myself. But my wife finds it very fun to play and tease me just to see me go crazy.

Oh yes, I also love to dress with sexy things in latex, leather, higheel....I’m a closet bisexual that likes to travesties.

Anyway, this is me right now. I have left many details so if any questions, please do not hesitate.

 

I’m really committed to chastity but my wife sometimes seams not to want to put me back in chastity right after sex but since December it seams that this is changing and she locks me back in right away. It’s becoming a reel lifestyle and we both enjoy all the benefits. I will never pressure her. Thanks for welcoming me.

 

I’m glad you like my introduction. I’m only unlocked if we have sex and I never asked her to lock me back in after sex since I did not want to pressure her. She knows I can wear my cage long term since it is very comfortable and I did wear it in the past for 7 days. I think that in the past she wanted to give me a break but deep down I did not need one. So now I’m wearing it full time and after sex I’m right back in. And I know that she is more and more using her vibrator so sex doesn’t happen has often as before.

 

Thank you

 

Yes it is! Communication is very important to us and always has been. This is why our relationships and our chastity lifestyle is growing every day.

 

My wife loves it that I take care of her boots and shoes and always expect that they are fully cleaned and treated. What turn me on every time is when she tells me that she got her boots really dirty and I have a good cleaning to do. I feel that she is proud of getting them dirty. She rides horses two times a week and her riding boots are always really dirty and it takes me a lot of time to clean. But I love it! Me to I have to always keep them organized. Yes, for the past 3 years I have been the one taking care of cleaning the house every Saturday. Vacuum, laundry, bathroom cleaning... and on a daily basis the kitchen needs to be spotless. We had a long discussion about domestic chores 3 years ago and we agreed that this will be my jod. I wasted so many hours watching porn before chastity so she said to me that I will have mich more time to do reel important things like domestic chores. And I do many little daily things for her. Like serving her wine.

Thanks for being interested in my little life.

 

Tha

Thanks Sara

 

Today I celebrate my 30 days locked. Its the first time I’ve been locked that long. I was unlocked 15 days ago for sex and locked back in right after. It does feel strange to go that long with my cage on but at the same time I feel very proud. I’m definitely getting used to always have it on and feel ready to continue for a longer time. This morning my wife told me that she was proud of me for not complaining about being locked for 30 days and she even noticed positive changes in my day to day house work and mood. I do admit that I am in a better mood. We did discuss that keeping me locked for longer periods will keep me from emotional changes from unlocking after just few days and locking me back.

Anyway, so far so good. But I must admit that I’m quite horny lately.

 

By the way my wife is talking to me about how happy she is that I have made it to 30 I think that many days of chastity are coming. The only thing that I’m a bit stressed is that she is not showing any sign of wanting to have sex with me. She always been the one deciding when we have sex and lately she is just satisfied with me going down on her and her vibrator. I think she too amused by how horny I am. It’s stressful but interesting and exciting at the same time. Is it weird to feel this way about being denied?

 

That’s the way I see it also. When I do all the chores she can use her time on relaxing and seeing her friends. Glad that your device is on its way.