Things that you do that give you a feeling of submissiveness

Having to sit to pee is will do it, especially if I'm in a restaurant, etc. Knowing that I can't walk up to the urinal and pee like a man but have to deal with a possibly filthy seat, and take longer than otherwise, with my pants around my ankles, my panties maybe showing, and don't forget to blot the tube, and what if the men's room in a bar doesn't even have a bowl only urinals... Yeah, sitting to pee.

 

Having to bare my ass for a spanking that adds to the submissiveness

 

Yeah, can identify with both the above comments. I will sometimes carry my g/fs bag, be it girly shopping bag / shoulder bag. I am an occtional Tgurl, so this always feels nice, but I'm sure I get some funny looks, but this makes me feel submissive. as well as being the only one who cleans in our house, I just love to wear an apron and set to work, this really makes me feel submissive and happy..x

 

Her easy confidence in being the leader makes me submissive. It makes it difficult for me to not do as she orders. Take the puppy outside, clean the bathrooms, get her something to drink, load the dishwasher, sweep the floors. If she was meek about it, I would possibly resist.

 

I concentrate my servitude in being a personal and sexual submissive.
Every time I'm busy in any way and my KH/Wife asks me for something,I'm surprised of my reaction,absolutely not disturbed for interrupting whatever I'm doing,everything can wait for a later time to be continued,I feel true happiness fills me because I have an opportunity to serve her.
When thinking about it, I must admit that I live in a submissive state, like hypnotised or medicated , the chemical change chastity brings with it works wonders!!

 

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Drinking her pee, licking her pussy and ass, making the bed, making her breakfast, doing the laundry, addressing her as Ma'am, opening and shutting car doors for her, picking up her dirty clothes, making her an ice cream Sundae every day, and many more.

 

The actions mentioned above and max vvt others do the job for me.

Here after my top 5 things that put me in my place:
5. Addressing all women as "Ms" in social settings or texts.
4. Wearing one of my subby tshirts "Sub", "I ❤ Chastity", etc. around the house.
3. Doing chores while my Keyholder Wife relaxes or goes out with Friends.
2. Getting a grade each week from Mistress for my submissive behavior over there past week (with related punishments).
1. Sliding to the sit on the floor whenever Mistress meets with Ms C, Her close Friend who knows of our FLR and my chastity.

asa

 

There are 2 reasons I like my husband dressed up. One is I just like it. The other one is it makes him more submissive.

 

Anything i do in response to requests from my Domme. Wearing a cage, shaving my body, posing in lingerie, stockings and heels, because she likes men to be sissies. Even acts that i enjoy already, now have are tinged as submissive because She requires it.

 

All of these mentioned do it for me, also having my madam scold me in public, or choosing my clothes for a trip out, also last year a newish girl at work clicked that I was a sub, so she would order me about, to do things for her, nothing major, just to clean up for her, or to go make her a coffee, when ever I did she would always be grinning as I did!

 

Did she share her insight with anyone else at work?

 

When eating at a restaurant, my Wife will often allow me to look at the menu, ask me what i think i might like but when it's time to order, She will just order for me. The matter of fact way She says ""oh, and he will have ..... please", makes me strain in my cage and have a little heart flutter.

 

On a sidenote: If a girl at my subs work would boss my sub around I wouldn't like it one bit. He is submissive to me and the ones I have chosen. Not public property.
Always be a gentleman but somethings should be reserved for the Mistress/KH unless she has said otherwise of course.

 

Sorry to redirect this thread even further, but i have to ask @madams-sissysub, what happened to make your sub status click for your coworker? How did She figure this out?

I don't advertise my chastity or our FLR, but we do have a goal that if people were to find out, it shouldn't be a surprise, so I'm interested in what your "tell" was.

asa

 

No problem asa, I don’t think it was a singular tell, that did it, I think it was an accumulation of things. Like you I don’t advertise my chastity, or my bdsm lifestyle, but nether so I hide it, so if asked I tell the truth.
I had Talked with Emily several times when kink had kind of come up, she was a typical 20yr old, and talked of how “crazy” she was and How her And boyfriend were kinky, one day she showed me her phone and asked if I thought this dress was sexy, it was a Typical Ann summers type pvc dress, so I said it was ok,
I quickly bout up a dress on the libidex website that my madam has, (libidex is a uk latex clothing company) and said, this is better, she grabbed my phone and said it was amazing,
A few days later she and a couple of the other nurses were talking about Dommes, (One of these I talked about in a post I made recently) I was listening without joining in, carrying on with what I had to do, when Emily said, ask him, he knows all about it, I froze and said nothing, the other two just paused and said nothing, then Emily sternly said, go get me a drink of water! I stood there not sure what to do,
Then she said sternly, now! Unable to go against my submissive nature, I scuttled off to the water dispenser to get a drink for her,
When I returned with it, she took it off me and said good boy, she drank it, and then said to the other two nurses, see I told you!
And it carried on from there, it rarely involved others after that, just harmless fun Of her getting me to Do some of the things she should of done.

 

That's a great story.

 

Foot worship does wonders for enhancing my subby attitude.

Almost any kind of service works too (I'm a service sub in general)

The first time my then Mistress went out on a date had me feeling rather subby...

I had been helping her get ready earlier and then resumed my chores and was vacuuming the living room. There I was, naked except for a cage, pink lace panties and a collar, holding the vacuum cleaner wand as she walks out of her bedroom with her coat on, picks up her bag and then smiles this far too long very pleased smile as she walks to the door, turning her head as she passed by grinning at me. That gave me a never before felt strong feeling of submissiveness, with a new understanding of my place and the roll she had chosen for me.