The Wife Files.

I think it is a great idea. You have to be totally honest.
But now I know what exsactally hubby in interested in.
It also let us share somethings we might have never expected to see on each other lists. Sharing really does make it easier.

 

Mmm mmm mmm, the thought of role reversal never bores me.
Especially now that habby is walking around in panties sexier then mine.
He knows I think he looks amazing in them and makes sure to give me a constant show.
Last night he strutted around the house taking every opportunity and make sure I was feeling good. We might of even locked ourselves in the bathroom for 15 mi. While he bent me over and watched himself fuck me .... I teased him about looking at his lace panty bum and how sexy he Must of thought it was, becuase part way through he told me to look.
It was way sexier than any porn you could find. I'm not going to the lie the man is perfection to me, especially in purple lace.
Also he can make me feel better then any dido ever will.
Later I went to watch him play hockey. At one point I caught myself smiling and giggling at the thought of him being an alpha out on the ice, not to mention how sexy I think he is out there, then coming home to his panties and a wife who wants to make him cum like a girl.
I really like pulling his balls up closer the the head of his penis to make it look small and pathedic it's always fun to tease him that's way.
The thought of pegging has been floating around. I was going to do it last night but hubby suggested I tease him so that today he would be even more built up, and begging for my cock. All my actions last night were to make him feel like he was my little bitch... he take the role so well and know just how to perk his ass up in the air so I can play with him from behind...after a little rubbing. I sat facing him with his penis at my vagine .... his penis now looked like my cock....after rubbing for him to see I made him give me a hand job. Without cumming of corse.
Now with the seed set in his head of my cock pleasuring him he will be ready to be treated like the slut his is.

 

A weekend or being teased.

A small bit of heat happens this weekend around here.
I shared that the talk of pegging was floating around the air. We talked about it off and on all weekend and since the weather was crap we stayed in all day. That led to a day of sneaking around hiding and playing.
I love to dress to tease hubby. But becuase we have kids I have to keep clean. So it's usually things like wearing a top he likes or skirts and dresses with his favorite panties or no panties. This is deffinatly one of my favorite ways to teach him.i would let him pick out my outfit everyday a he's home it I knew it would keep him interested all day.

 

OOps I pressed send befor I was done..
I teased him all day and by the night,
I made him come on the trip to the grocery store with his panties on and my pink jewel plug in. What a funny time. I laughed at him maybe a little to much, and probably hit to many bumps and pot holes just to make him squirm.

By the time we made it to all the kids being in bed ,hubby was begging to fuck him.
I should explain the inbetween some more. I wore a black spandex body suit that is full of holes, garenteed to make my nipples poke through my shirt all day, and a very tight red dress. The dress something I have not worn for years. I knew hubby would be all over me. And really that is my main goal of chastity to have him pawing over me all the time.

I have a dildo that insert into me . We bought this a while ago but it's never got Much use.
I put in on tucked it in my bodysuit, pulled my dress down and went out to show hubby my hard cock. I also told him tht when I have my cock on that we call his a penis. Mostly a sad little penis.
He was so despreate for release last night I had him sucking and jerking me off like the slut he is.

He was having som reall, really bad swelling of his tubes in his balls sommuch pain he could hardly walk. This then lead to me stepping on his sore balls to release the pain. He noticed and told me how cute and sexy my feet where and how much he liked the colour I painted them. I actually could believe I was squishing he balls. But he was enjoying it.
It was decided that I was going to give him some release by giving him a ruined orgasm.
Well it ended up being 3!
I told him exsactally how he was going to get it. I ended up making a hole in my body suit down my my vagina big enough to fit my cock through. So I removed my cock sat on his lap facing him and put his penis through the hole. All of a sudden I had a real cock.

This is so much fun. I do love invisioning myself with a cock sometimes and I know hubby thinks it's sexy as fuck .
I made him jerk me off (we left some light on for this I have really been trying to make more eye contact lately and enjoy watching what we are doing) Me moaning with evey stroke as if I could actually feel it.
I ended up shooting 3 ruined orgasms on him. I gave myself these. One shot on his face and half hit him in the mouth. I decided this was a great time to test out him eating his own cum. So I decided to lick it off him and plan it deeply in his mouth with my young. Such a sexy way to feed my hubby his cum.

 

I left my cock in my body suit and used my vibe to make my self cum. It was such a kinky night

 

Sorry for all the terrible grammar I promise to fix it all mext time!

 

It sure makes me look real SMRT

 

A Minor Bump in the road and a day of love wasted.

God I hate when things are going great and then out of no where it's like you have hit the end of the road. It fucking sucks. You go from every wonderful feeling you could imagine to feeling like you just got hit by a truck.
I have battled for years with some anger issues. And when somthing bugs me a lot of the time I just can't seem to shake it. I don't know if I am the best at giving the silent treatment or the worst. I guess it depends on who you ask. Last night and today just didn't go the way it should have.
Hubby decided to to tell me a huge secret yesterday... it was huge heart reading leap in our realationship.He had a moment and had to share something with me he had kept secret for almost 10 years! I don't know what made him share with me on this day but he did. Maybe it was the talk we shared about him being locked up and watching me with another women. Maybe it's becuase we both put cuckolding on our list so it's been talked about the last few days.

We use to have a friends that we use to party with. I had been friends with him I little while longer than my husband , but always felt like we all had a good friendship. Him and hubby use to DJ together and we planned a few parties over the years. But as the years went on hubby grew so jelous of him. We had so many fights, so much frustration and so, so many mean things said to each other over this person that It was decided to not even have that friendship anymore.

From time to time he would come stay the weekend at our house and hang out. We all use to party and our house was a good in between cities spot. I still have to get more details from hubby but he told me he thought when I would leave the room to go downstairs to go to the bathroom, get a drink , whatever, he thought I was sucking our friends dick. And that it turned him on so much that jerked off to the thought of it.
I didn't know what to say.
I didn't know how to react. We had talked about how he wasnt into me with other men. Like we just talked about it within the last week.
I always thought he thought it would be one of her worst things ever seeing me with another man. And now I'm finding out that this whole time he has been thinking about be fucking other cocks.

I left his a long letter for when he got home from work. Full of my usual love gush and a lot of naughty stuff. I also left him some spacific tasks.
They were simple. Come to bed in his panties becuase if he wants to be some my sissy husband he needs to wear his panties. Second kiss my all over and give me a back rub all the way down to my bum.
I wasnted a good ass licking .... he is so good at it and since I had my period I thought an asslicking would be perfect. So he was suppost to lick me and when he was ready to cum he had to make a choice. He either A got ho have a full orgams on my bottom but her had to lick it all up and feed it to me with his kisses or B he had to let me give him a very ruined orgams.
Well.... I have never been so dissapointed. His kisses and back rub lasted about a minute, he ass licking lasted about a minute, and her maturbating lasted about 30 seconds. And he didn't even pick one off my options, he decided to combine the two but ruin it himself. And then he only cleaned my bum up with one lick and one kiss

Not even one second of that was for me.
I was disappointed in more then one way.
After I handled his secrets so well, I took the time to leave him an amazing letter and I thought the tasks were simple.
But all he could do was think about him self.
He didn't go slow , he didn't make me feel like he was the one who was lucky to get to take care of me. All he could do was think about he's pathedic needy penis that wanted to orgasm.

I tried to tell him why I was upset. But he got mad at me and yelled at me at 130am . He fell asleep. I stayed awake to 3 wondering if this is going to work.
If he is going to hand off his dominant side and become submissive to me.
Can he do it? He's so man, so alpha it's hard to see him sitting there being my sissy husband.

I don't talk to him all day. I was tired and grumpy from being up all night. I thought he would of apologized in the morning but it took him all day to so it.
When he did He said absolutely everything I wanted to hear.
I told him next time I wanted him to tell me and not text me.
I like it when he begs me for forgiveness. He does it naturally. Always getting down in front of me and begging me to love him again.

 

@Jasmic68 I always enjoy when you reply.
So some nots on what you said.
For the most part hubby has always been good at taking care of me. If I ever need a back or foot rub he does it with out question. Anything I ask he pretty much does. But I guess when you are giving the opening to orgasm You forget about everything eles. I have feeling the more he is locked up the more he will start doing these things on his own.

I completely agree with you on next time not giving him that option. This is why this trip is so great if something gets messed up we can just try again. Trial and error.

I think he mostly told me about the other man situation so I could use it against him when I tease him.
We share our feeling about other people in our relationship all the time. And if it's something we both felt if it would jeopardize us then we deffintaly won't be taking part. I would never want to risk losing him. And again not something we are going out and doing tomorrow. But now I know how he's really feeling about it.

I am sure thing will work out. Just have to get all the wrinkles ironed out. As long as we comuniticate and love each other thing will be just fine.

 

Easy like Sunday morning....

I just have to say again I love having this place as an outlet. Sometime times you just want to tell someone your secrets and maybe your best friend is not the one to share it with.

So Hubby had been successful locked up all weekend! Wearing his cutest panties. And being the best husband a wife could dream of having.
Living this life is so full of emotions and rawness. You really have to know how to care about someone, their feeling and their openess. Trust is a huge word here. If we didn't know and trust one another on the level that we do I don't think this choice of lifestyle would be the same. Sure I lock him up and tease him all The time and deny him More then I let him cum. But I also care so much about him and his desires and wants.
I don't ever want him to feel any more discomfort or pain then he wants. I want to fulfill all his fantasies, fill him with passion, and let him feel love and acceptance for what ever we do.

We have had so many moments this weekend I can't share them all. On friday I think we were both really horny.
We are like teenagers. Hiding behind every corner or door we can to make out or rub each other's privates. Rubbing,licking, sucking, eating. Addicted to loving.

Hubby's ball get really swollen tubes after a day of heavy teasing. And I love giving him ruined orgasms so much that I don't mind letting him out for one or two, maybe even 3. I have really be into making his penis my cock lately. With the switch of power and really trying to embrace the dominant role I want it's been my choice or how to ruin him. I also know he might like imagining me with a cock. Becuase the noises that come out of him when I do it are enough to make me drip. He had two almost orgasms.. I would almost say they were just dry orgasms. Third times a charm and he squirted but not a lot. But my cock was still hard and I knew there was more so I got it to shoot 2 more times. The orgasms almost starting to get to be to much.
Cleaned up, locked up and to bed For snuggles and sleep.

Hubby had a grumpy morning. He was tired and full of arguments. It was annoying. I let it go for the most part of the day but around lunch he started getting on my nerves. He caught on apologized and started making up for being a bum.
I already had a plan for the evening. I had been making him have some but plug time to get him ready for ass play . I didn't tell him when it was coming just that it would be when I was ready.
I knew excatally when it was coming tho.
I have had a lace body stocking for years. It never fit me right and never really seemed to suit me. But I had a feeling it would be perfect for my hubby to feel sexy and feminine. And just like the bitch I wanted him to be.
I layed it out waiting for him. And got my. Outfit ready at we'll. I didn't plant on having my sex part out for to see last night. I put on my body suit inserted my cock and put the rest to keep it in place. There was no ass for him to lick.No boobs for him to grab or even see. Only my arms and legs exposed and my cock.
He took it all right away. He was so ready and needy. My body was rushed with adrenaline. He was mine. And he did it perfectly.
I felt so good doing it . Enjoying him the way gets to enjoy me.
It was pure bliss.
I had no problem having on orgams. Maybe 2 . And he enjoyed having his ruined orgams.
I told him last night that he probably won't have a chance for a real orgasm untill at least Christmas.
Tonight will end with watching him play a hockey game and then having a warm shower together.

 

OK,OK,OK, so my husband is so silly. I would have to say this is deffintaly our first be careful what you wish for moment.
It's started with him fulfilling all my needs.
Then it turned into a me wanting to milk him session, while he was caged. As I have shared this is the #1 thing on my list of things to do.
So I went at it a little differently this time.
Slowly. We call it a man pussy so obveously it should be treated like one. YOu have to warm it up and then go for it. I could tell by his body and his noises that we were so close. And then things had to come to an end .
He was really, really frustrated , maybe said something in the heat of the moment that maybe he shouldn't of. He told me he didn't want me to let him cum untill I accomplished it through his bum. My eyes probably popped out of my head. I laughed and asked him if he was really sure about this, he said yes. I might of laughed some more. I figure if we work on it about once a week we should accomplish it by Christmas.