A very interesting thread popped up on reddit titled "When it comes to kink, does the why matter?" For those on chastity mansion currently in, forming, or contemplating an FLR, did you discuss the why with your partner? Did that matter to you? How did it effect the relationship or dynamic? Using me as an example, when the 24/7 lifestyle and full-time chastity was brought up, I definitely wanted to know the motivations of my slave. Why they wanted it, why they would agree to it, and any related thoughts of theirs as to why they have a female dominance fetish. I wanted to know their psyche and mind inside out, shining light on everything, so I could better learn to arouse and dominate them. I also wanted to know if there was a negative reason behind it, make sure I wasn't partaking in anything I felt was re-living trauma or perpetuating a sense of deserved worthlessness.