The Lady in Red Shoes

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  1. sylvana chastity
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    #26 sylvana chastity, Jan 2, 2018
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    To conclude (have to watch that clip as well): I am the only one who knows, that that must be a Sissy?! :p:D
     
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    Nothing but trouble - LOL
    - But yes I will put it on my to- do list.
    I'm afraid it is already very long.....
    So much to do, so little time.... :):)
     
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    Wow - that above was my first expurgation (had to look up that word, as I'm living in a free country)!
    Definetely not what I was expecting in here - will "breathe" a lot until deciding how annoyed I am...
     
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    @Jens After weeks of long hours and hard work the only fault to be found is the quality of shoes that's a good result.
    I am no expert on womens shoes and would never claim to be.
    The shoes looked fine to me and worn by a lady with nice legs and a well turned ankle.
    I really don't think its a case for the fashion police just yet.

    I have seen profile pics of reportedly designer shoes that looked 2 sizes to big yet had space at the back with what I can only desribe as floppy ankles.
    So what do you need to do now? Search through every profile looking for pics of ill fitting shoes or shoes under £200?

    I think your time would be better served doing what you have been doing improving CM.
    You will never please all of the people all of the time thats a fact.
    Maybe you should stop trying to justify what you are doing to people who will never be happy.
    Nit picking every change seems to be a pastime for some.

    All I can say is I think you are doing am good job so far and most appreciate that.
    So carry on with the good work and don't let the bananas grind you down.
     
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    Thanks for kind words an support- I will tackle the nitty gritty with humor and high spirit.
    But yes, not all of the time. Something is just too silly, And I will let it blow in the wind:)
     
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    There was no censor ship- just turning your purple text white - I guess what you see is nothing when looked in the Day Theme. Try the Night Theme - its all there.
    If You want people in Night Theme to be able to read Your comments, I'm afraid You will have to avoid the purple......
     
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    Oh my - thanks for the easement, Jens!
    I really was irritated about having a (okok - flat) joke removed!
    Have to say, that my settings in here are moving from day to night faster than our beloved sun will be able to manage (without me ever changing anything)!
    And in the end: why is the next, purple answer still visible?
    So for now I will check out greeeeen and see what I (or anyone else) can see or not.
    Hugs and thanks again

    Syl
     
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    And, at the risk of being labelled for kink shaming.
    Crawling along in the footseps of an Essex girl may be a popular kink on this Forum for some but personally it's not my cup of tea.
    i think it would be more considerate of you to restrict it to your own profile page.
     
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    On my usual viewing settings I can hardly see the shoes. What I see is the backs (never the best view it has to be said - prone to making any leg look fat) of a pair of not particularly pretty calves and not much else. The nearest ankle is so much on the foreground that it looks less than attractive, and the one that shows a promising ankle is covered up by the What's New tab.

    Yes, I can alter the viewing size (Chrome, Windows 10) but that doesn't alter the other facts.
    In all honesty it's not a particularly pleasing image.
     
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    #35 Jens, Jan 3, 2018
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    I find it truly amazing that such a top image can cause so much drama.:confused: I lack the urge to ventilate my more refined standards to the common and less sophisticated members of CM:D:D
    It really does not make me pop.:cool:
    And for the top image - I kinda like it, plastic calves and swollen ankles, the hole shebang.
    If that makes me an ignorant and less sophisticated I am happy with that.

    To be a little constructive here at the end of my post- I would like to make it clear to all that the top image is a purchased photo that I am not particularly attached to. It will sooner than later be replaced with a Slider. Who knows, -perhaps the lady will stop by in there too, to remind us all that lives can be meaningful without being at the pinnacle of excellence and victim of snobby taste....;)

    Yes I am in excellent mood today:):)
    And Now on to something more important:pray::p
     
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    I dont see any drama - just comments. If you feel any drama then you should know that it's generally entirely within yourself. Accept the emotion, deal with the emotion, learn from the emotion.

    To my end - I was being constructive. I could tell you how to photograph ankles in a great way but what would be the point? You gotta work with what you got - and what you've got is fat pair of calves. :D
     
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    Great news! Drama is off, never was there. Voila!
    Constructive as You were - I just wanted to underline the fact that not everybody are choking by the look of that photo.:)
     
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    Well, there's reasons for that. :)

    I'm not choking especially, in fact I can now breathe most wonderfully. ;)
     
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    well i likes these ones anyway.

    Louboutin_altadama140.jpg
     
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    I like the progress of the site. It seems modernized, and the approach to being more inclusive is working. That is why it is hilariously ironic the main banner for selling the chastity mansion is what could be the opening for a porno. I am not sure what the view of the back of those legs is supposed to mean, I mean, I understand they are meant to be sexy, but as others have pointed out that is rather subjective. It just doesn't read 'chastity'. If the intent behind the changes, like the avatars and where certain imagery is found, was to make the site more approachable to everyone, women in particular, I am quite sure the legs are not fitting that objective at all. It is rather low class in fact. I can look at pictures of that kind of content if I wanted to anywhere else, and sadly it is forced down our throats all too often - that image of a young petite woman, glazed with some flash of red, curves on display to sell sell sell- but this forum has its value in its members and the community they've built, not some fantasy image. It isn't drama, it is just the front door to this place. Why not take a vote?
     
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    I think another question is who is the Lady in the red shoes... ummmm, and why does it have to be a woman? After seeing those gorgeous legs my first thought was that it was @jemima. Just a thought
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    @beck - I've said it before, you write deliciously.

    And to the supporters of those legs, if you can't see that what Beck writes is correct, then I humbly suggest that you can't see the wood for trees. Or, in this case, see the objectification of women for legs.

    :D
     
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    giggle. it not me cos Mistress wont get me red heels.
     
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    Well @Jens (Partner)

    I find this thread a lot about nothing in the end, this is work in progress and as stated above in other posts: one cannot do good for everyone, there will always be people unhappy with changes.

    In my opinion you (and the new partners / management team) are doing a great job: CM is clearly moving and changes are being applied; so why not be happy (and have some patience)?

    Just my thoughts.

    Keep up the good work!

    brgds,

    Felix
     
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    OK a less serious issue:
    Would you like to have these?
    Maybe we can try to persuade Mistress B....:D

    Just joking..;)
     
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    yes i wud love some
     
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    So I just noticed the shadow to the left of the legs.

    Is CM utilizing graphic designers from pre-school? On second thought, graphic designer is too complimentary . . . Please, please get rid of this banner! There are so many quality elements in here building anew, rekindling, and discovering but this banner is ridiculously infantile. It degrades us all.
     
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    Haha - I hadn't noticed that. Really, that is so puerile.

    Ask 20 guys to draw a silhouette of a woman - 16 of them will draw that sexy version.
    Ask 20 women to do the same - you'd be lucky to get one doing the sexy version.
    And we're asking why there are so few women here!

    Dont get me wrong, I like sexy women, but I like them in my bed and in my head - not in oddly imagined pastiches at the header of my favourite chastity forum.
     
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    @SubVerity
    We are all of us fighting a great battle. Be kind to those around you, for you do not know what battles they may be fighting.
    Is your post reflecting the kindness of your signature?
    @beck
    Is CM utilizing graphic designers from pre-school? On second thought, graphic designer is too complimentary
    To my knowledge CM is a 'non-profit' organization carried by a few volunteers putting in money to keep up the Mansion.

    I'm sure using other wording will have more effect in trying to change a thing that maybe wrong or misplaced according to you, but please keep in mind that
    is done non-profit.

    On Fetlife or Tumblr I would have expected this kind of response/reaction, not on my/our favourite chastity forum.

    Let's keep it friendly and polite like I always thought of being the modus operandi in the CM.

    No hard feelings; just my opinion
     
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