Hi, I'm here new on CM. I've owned a few chastity devices including a CB6000, 3000 and Curve but could never get my girlfriends to become my keyholder so I would lose interest sell the devices. I'm not a sissy slave, I am just a guy with a masturbation problem. I would jerk off 2 times a day and in the past it has caused a woman I loved to break up with me because I couldn't get hard for her. So yes it's a kink for me but more important its to change my behavior. Last month I found a Domme, Mistress Janet, who would hold my keys at no cost, she just wants the control. I proceeded to buy a Birdlocked. I tried it on and wore it for several days without any problems. On Friday (6-12-09) I sent the keys to my keyholder who lives 2 states over. I put the spare key in a clear Keysure box for emergencies and the other key is on her keyring. We will do webcam teasing sessions and I am required to write out all my sexual fantasies for her so she can use them to tease me. She also wants me to talk to as many pretty women as I can which will be the biggest tease of all! It's one thing to see a pretty woman on a webcam or in a pic, but when she is stanging in front of you flirting and you can't do anything about it, that will be the tough part. I don't know how long she wants me locked up for this first round and I don't really care., I'm prepared to go the long haul. I'm just so happy to finally be locked up and under a Woman's control!