The hate of male orgasms?

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    Are there women who have a strong aversion to male orgasms or just hate the though of male satisfaction, and use enforced chastity to make a man give up his orgasms forever?
    To me, chastity is not about punishment or training, i crave the feeling of being not allowed to cum, because the woman is strongly against male orgasms

    Its a bit hard to put this into words, i think its a mix of chastity/humiliation/misandry? I just enjoy it to hear a woman philosophe about why males should never orgasm at all, its sending me to heaven

    But this kind of "kink" is hard to find and doesnt really have a name. So i just ask in here, the only place with a small chance of people who feel the same
     
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    Yeah, this is a very big fetish of mine too, and I'm having a hard time finding content with it as well. Usually I just google phrases like "men should never cum", " only girls are allowed to cum", etc, each of these is enough to make me leaking in my cage.
     
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    My GF/KH doesn't want me to orgasm or ejaculate. She says it not something she wants to see or experience ever again. I wouldn't say she hates it, since I don't think she hates anything and neither of us have the time or energy for hate, but she is adamant that it is a nasty sticky mess and she doesn't like the smell or texture of it. I can't say I like it either, lol.

    Happily we both enjoy me without orgasms or ejaculations :)
     
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    My wife loves to make me leak, but does get great pleasure in letting me orgasm. She still loves to suck me off, show me the load and then do a big swallow. In fact, there are times when she fakes a swallow and snowballs me with my sperm. Other time when fucking, she asks me to pull out to come on her stomach and then lick it off and share it with her.
     
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    Probably not applicable here but I, for one, love a man's orgasm.
     
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    In my wife and my relationship, we have grown to dislike and avoid my (male) orgasm. Mostly because of the post orgasm blues I experience. As a result, we have more sex which is my goal anyway. We still do PIV but I find I can't last long enough for that to be really satisfying to her. Looking to go the strap-on route but she's not keen on it. If she begins to accept that, I'd probably see less and less PIV.
     
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    We have started using a strap on with much more girth than my dick and she has orgasms with it she never cums with mine. She lets me go in after so she can tell me she can’t feel me but won’t let me cum. I’m on day 48 without orgasm on my birthday day 61 I’m aloud to cum but she wants nothing to do with it or see it,if I want to cum I have to it alone not sure I want it like that.
     
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    mine likes to watch me cum in her hand and even gives a little torture after. maybe thats why she is not a big fan of locking me up. I tell her she is the only one that gets to do that
     
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    I wouldn't like that at all either. Denial changed me.
     
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    Definitely changed me I don’t like the sub drop afterwards so I’m going longer and longer each time even considering giving up on orgasms altogether.
     
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    I can understand thinking of giving up on them altogether. Idk if I'm THERE. @IB-Chaste would tell you I am. lol! But i definitely don't want to cum alone. That would feel hollow and empty and kinda sad
     
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    That's what I'm struggling with right now. I happen to be over 60. Tao says no more over 60. Karezza says no more too. My drop has gotten more severe recently so that there's a pretty big downside (I used to take SSRI which kept the drop in check). So, I'm kind of looking this beast in the eyes right now. It looks to me like I should be done with them, but I like them. I think I should just be happy with giving oral and be done with it.
     
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    Try experimenting with different positions. We've found a position with her mounted on me that makes her cum amazingly and takes much longer for me to cum (so I often don't, at least not in that position). Before chastity, we couldn't use that position because I was too long and it would bang on something inside her (really painfully). Now, having lost a bit of length, she can go until her legs hurt :D
     
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