About 2 years ago my wife and I decided to explore BDSM. So the first thing we did was buy a bunch of toys --not really knowing what to buy...but just knowing the toys themselves brought an erotic element to the bedroom that we'd not had before. One of those toys was a CB-3000 --we used it a couple of times for fun and then it pretty much stayed in the toychest. We are your typical family with kids and a dog and all that. What separates us from most is when we are alone with the toychest --Mistress J has an insatiable appetite for sex and we are now D/s freaks with Jan relishing the role of Domme. Ironically, the toy that sat in the toychest the longest (the CB-3000) was the one toy that truly taught us about Dominance and Submission... Mistress had noticed a change in me...I was becoming selfish. Mistress J has a high demand for sex and I was not fulfilling her sexual needs. Truth of the matter was that I was masterbating twice a day before she got home --I was selfish. Mistress J asked that I put on the CB-3000 with the Points of Intrigue and that I wear it 24/7 for two weeks. All I can say is "Ouch" and what a difference it's made when it comes to her control --she's truly in charge and knows it. It's been 10 days since I've had a release. Last week Mistress J demanded that upon her arrival home from work, I have my clothes off, kneeling and the cane collection out for my daily a punishment. She proceeded to hand out 20 nasty strokes of the cane and then I had to eat her pussy until she came and then clean it all up. She then let me out of my chastity and rode me until she came again (I was being hit with the cane and not allowed to cum). We did this 2X last week. Over this weekend she asked me to fill out a bunch of index cards defining punishments she could consider should I do something wrong (there were some pretty humiliating ones in there...I like humiliation). So we'll see what's in store for this week.