The dying pubic hair.

I like my wife clean shaven, she likes to be mostly trimmed. She has been shaving clean recently just to tease me.

 

LLive and let live on this one as far as I am concerned. We both shave as it happens, but from personal preference not because it's the done thing. We decided to go pubic-hipster last year and have the pubic bearded look, but neither of us liked it.
At the beach a few weeks ago there was a couple who had dyed theirs, really bright red for the girl, green for the man. After the initial wow, they looked really good, but it would take ages to get the area ready to do that

 

IMO this is just a matter of personal preference. I don't shave myself. But my (locked) subbie's shaved, usually, as an indication of his status.

 

In the 1980s when I was in HS the full bush was the norm in porn. Magazines were just starting to have a woman with a bare pussy every now and then. This was a real treat for me and I just loved the look. When I started giving oral, I was fine with parting the hair. But once I went down on a shaved woman I was hooked. I just loved it smooth as I could enjoy giving oral and not worrying about hair in my mouth.

When I got into BDSM my first Domme took me to a party and shaved me from the neck down as my first real scene. I was hooked and loved the feel. When I started sucking cock my first time was with a crossdresser. Times after that were with other subs who were also ordered to be clean shaven. So obviously my preference is bare for both men and women.

 

Back when I got married 44 years ago, every woman had public hair. My wife's was particularly hairy. However, I liked it because it retained her scent and you could feel it during oral sex. I do not know when but pubic hair shaving started to turn up in porn videos. I was one of the earliest adopters of a home video tape machine just to watch porn. I paid $100 per video. When girls who shaved became popular in porn, the other porn actresses followed suit. Men like anything different in porn. Then anal sex was seen in some porn but the actresses were paid more to do it. They were also paid more to have sex with another woman or a black man. The latter two were considered career enders and what washed up porn stars did. Times have changed. In my day many guys considered performing oral sex on woman as gay. I did not and therefore word of mouth drove a lot of women to my door.

My wife and I were always into fetish sex so she started shaving as soon as it appeared in porn. We also did anal sex before it was almost a required act in porn movies, by accident. My wife was particularly wet and after I ejaculated she asked me if I knew that I was in her butt. I did not. My wife is very tight since she is 4' 11" and never had children. She liked it and we did anal sex regularly after that. Especially since PIV sex was painful at worst and uncomfortable at best. She is only the second woman I had anal sex with. A few others asked me to take their anal virginity to humiliate or get back at their cuckolds, but I refused by telling them that it was an act that I reserved just for my wife; except for one time when the wife said her husband was gay because he wanted anal sex from her and I showed her the error of her ways. One girl actually told me it was gay because gay men do it. I reminded her that gay men kiss and perform oral sex just like she does so why is that not gay also. Some people.

Back to pubic hair. For my wife there was no going back. She prefers it shaved. She tried waxing a few times but found it too painful for her since I did not really care if she shaved, waxed or grew hair. Our girlfriend is a natural blonde and her public hair was so sparse and blond that it looked like she did not have any. I cannot remember the last time I had sex with a woman with a big mound of pubic hair. I laughed when I saw hairy girls listed as a fetish. It used to be my normal sex and now it is a fetish. Even girls who smoke are a fetish now when in my time we all smoked before, after and sometimes during sex.

I will confess that I do like not having to pull out public hair from my tongue or in-between my teeth.

 

My Mistress/Wife shaves bare. She was like this when we met many yrs ago and i love it. I also shave but not as much as i should. I love the bare look on both of us. Seems like the cage goes on better if shaved also. I have shaved from the chest,arm pits,waist and legs before. Mistress said she likes it on me either way if not mistaken

 

I can't speak for others...but I love the sight of my shaven, bald, unmasculine pubis when compared to my Domme's trimmed but decidedly primal bush. It's the perfect metaphor for who has Privelege...and who has Rules.

I would be heartbroken if I couldn't look at that Beautiful groin & know that when I worship I'm enjoying a natural woman's body & I am required to be in a most unnatural state. It completely reinforces my submission every single time I see myself next to her.

 

We both keep it shaved regularly, there may be a day or two but that's it. Its usually a daily thing for the both of us.

 

My KH never shaves down there. She says that one of her boyfriends tried to shave her once and he nicked her, and she's been leery of it ever since. I, on the other hand, definitely prefer to keep myself smooth, and she likes it that way, too. The absence of hairs getting caught in the device is just a plus.