Good morning all! I have been thinking a lot about this lifestyle and what it means to me and my pet. He introduced me to the bdsm lifestyle about 4 years ago. We were just dating at the time, but he told me of his sexual interests. I had heard of this lifestyle but did not know anyone who was actually involved in it. I just thought it was a phase that people go through. However, it's not. My pet and I got married this past June and we have been actively trying to live the bdsm lifestyle. I have been struggling with it. One of the main problems that I have is the fact that I have no sex drive. It doesn't matter to me whether or not we have any sexual relations. I believe it is in part due to the medications that I am on. I have tried to make myself to be interested, but it is hard. I have even bought and taken pills to up my libido. However, nothing seems to work. I know that I am neglecting my role as a domme, but what else can I do. I want to be the domme that my pet is ultimately wanting and at times I can be, but to just come up with a scene is hard to do. If anyone has any thoughts or suggestions for me, I would greatly appreciate it. Well I have to go to work now. So there's nothing else to say for now. Hopefully I will have something later on. Take care and talk to y'all soon.