The chastity experiment

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    #1 Guest 0035, Mar 19, 2019
    Today I started some sort of experiment.
    I locked myself into chastity, locked the keys into a vault and set up a session on Emlalock.
    Seems to be quite casual for users here, right?

    Well.
    The clue is ...
    My girlfriend doesn't know something about this. About nothing.
    I never told her that I am into such things and I can't guess what her reaction to all of this would be.
    But I know I would enjoy a happy ending of this experiment. And I would be fine too, if it leads into a FLR with TPE.

    The session I set up is about revealing my secret to her. I don't know how long I am able to hide my cage before her eyes so time is working against me.
    I also set tasks as punishments in the Fortune-Wheel, which could bring me even more into trouble.

    I don't know when she detects it or what she will think about it. But if things turn bad I will know earlier than expected.

    But here I am.
    Locked into chastity, a session set up and started and no chance to chicken out.

    If you can think of ideas how I can bring this topic closer to a newbie (which I think she is), please tell me so that this whole thing is not going to shock her too much ...

    If you are interested in my session you can check it up with this link:
    https://www.emlalock.com/#/profile/72ef7vz3y475k9k/session
    It is based on a template from a friend.

    You can do me favour when you vote on my requirement-links, since I didn't notice that a minimum of them is required to complete the session:
    www.emlalock.com/#/r/jijh0

    Greetings
    DummBatZz
     
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    #2 Guest 0035, Mar 20, 2019
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    #3 New to cage, Mar 20, 2019
    Added 2 days
     
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    #4 Guest 0035, Mar 20, 2019
    Thanks
     
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    #5 corsac, Mar 20, 2019
    I can think of other (better ways), but it seems as if you will just have to hope she isn’t extra scared away by what you decided to do. Good luck! Oh, I added 2 days.
     
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    #6 Guest 0035, Mar 21, 2019
    May you tell me which way would be the best in your opinion?
     
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    #7 Guest 0035, Mar 21, 2019
    E939820F-5F2F-4B6F-B553-F8989ECBAFD0.jpeg My Holder changed the the settings so that I have to wait for the maximum amount of time set in the beginning
    12 weeks. I don’t think I can hide it that long...
     
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    #8 Guest 0035, Mar 21, 2019
    Thanks for voting all of my requirements. Now I have to wait for my fate...
     
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    #9 jemima, Mar 21, 2019
    these things dont last very long do they. ever time I have a go it says its all over.

    pout.jpg
     
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    #10 Guest 0035, Mar 21, 2019
    Do you mean the voting link?
    All required votings are done...
    You can get my friend link. But you can only decrease the lockup time since I am running at maximum.
    www.emlalock.com/#/f/1y35x
     
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    #11 bondinchas, Mar 21, 2019
    I introduced my wife to my chastity cage by wearing it in bed one night.
    Yes, the light was switched on very quickly when she discovered it!

    She did (and still does) enjoy having me locked up.
    But it is something that can go spectacularly wrong.

    What can work well is to first suggest a novel kinky thing and talk about it, then don't mention it again. I really mean don't mention it again - ever. Leave it until she brings it up.
    If she's interested, she will, if she isn't she won't.
    Women seem to process this sort of stuff differently to men. Men will jump in, wham bang, thank you ma'm. Girls need time to 'get it'. If they don't, you'll just put them off it more by pushing it. If they do, then everyone's happy.
     
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    #12 Consensus, Mar 21, 2019
    Truth here. However, be prepared for her to simply say she's not a kinky person, and maybe simply withdraw entirely from the physical side of the relationship as a consequence, speaking from experience. In other words, be very careful!
     
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    #13 bondinchas, Apr 5, 2019
    That's always a risk, but it's probably not that one's kink changes the other, more likely that if one exposes their deepest preferences then the other feels able to expose theirs.
     
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