The chastity belt, our life choice

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    I had always a strong masturbation habit, since I was a teenager. It is about 5 to 10 times a week, and it has always affected my relationships. A few years ago, I discovered by chance on the internet the existence of chastity cages. Soon I thought a chastity cage would solve that problem.



    My GF is very openminded and when I asked her if she wants me to wear a chastity device, she agreed. All the past years, I tried lots of chastity devices from plastic ones to gerecke or steelworxx. But these devices were always cheatables, I could masturbate despite the fact I get pierced and the tube were very short and tight. It was so disappointing that we abandoned. My masturbation problem was still not solved.



    Lately we talked again about this, because it affects badly our relationship. She hates me even touching my penis and is not very intersting into penetrative sex. We talked this time about a real chastity belt, a full chastity belt. We agreed that the purpose is to lock me in a permanent way, her having the key, opening the device every one or two weeks for cleaning, or even once a month, as she wants. The other purpose is to make me more sweet, caring and obedient, in one word changing my behavior. So I red a lot of reviews here to make my choice. I studied all the aspects of wearing such as sport, discretion etc.



    I chose a Neosteel belt. I found the minimalistic conception is interesting for discretion. I chose the rear cable to allow sport activities. The rear cable is the black thick one, as my GF wants the belt very secure. The tube is just as long as my penis when flaccid, as she wants me to be unable to become erect, except when she wants. I asked M. Mende to make the connexion between the cable and the belt permanent to avoid the two pins damaging underwear. All the device is locked with the padlock.



    The device looks very heavy, unbreakable. The finition is impressive. The first days it took me lot of time and patience to bend the belt to make it exactly to my hips. Step by step I bent the belt so it presses equally all over my hips. I also needed to change the shape so that it dont presses the nerves because I had pain in my legs. The same for the connexion in the rear : it pressed too much on my bone, so I bent it. The cable is thick and short, it pulls back the shield. I can just pull the cable a little aside to defecate and it is impossible to push the shield ahead to pull out the penis. I bend the shield also to make the tube pressing just as needed the pubic bone. The sensation is to be totally and firmly enclosed in the crotch, but all movements are allowed. It is very tight, Nothing moves, even if I lie down and try frankly. The overall sensation is very pleasant and I'm very often excited. When excited, my penis is immediately blocked in the end of the tube and I feel a lot of pressure inside. Then the skin is heating, wich is painy, and I have edemas. I use a lot of almond oil to lubrificate. Sitting is no problem, because the tube is short and doesn't touche the sit, but it's comfortable just for shorts periods, but it is better day after day.



    For the adjustment period, which will normally be a few days or weeks, I keep the key in order to check and permit the skin to rest, but we have also a remote time safe to help in case of lack of will. The adjustement period is my business, after that it will be her. The first day I wore my belt a few hours. Day after day. I extend the wearing time progressively. Today is 14 hours. One aspect to watch is the skin at the base of the penis. If everything is okay, we hope that the aim, permanent lock up, should be achieved next week.



    Mentally, it is quite complicated. Both of us wanted that belt. But I fear that change in our life. I know that lots of things will change. It frightens me. But it is no question to go backward. Sexuality will be her, she will probably feel empowered in our relationship and it will have consequences, considering her smile when looking at this belt. She is really waiting the keys. No more porn. Erection attempts are painy and provoke edemas. I try to relax. Most of time wearing that belt is very pleasant when relaxed but it is uncomfortable when I try to erect. It forces me to relax by any means. This aspect pleases a lot to her : the impossibility to become erect without her permission. I fear she will be really severe about my chastity and on the one hand we agreed on that and on the other hand I fear it.



    One thing that I feel already is a sense of shame. Thinking that I will now live enclosed in that belt permanently makes me feel ashamed. I fear people discover I wear a chastity belt. Hopefully mine is really discrete, even when just wearing underwear, at the exception of the protusion of the padlock.



    Living with a real chastity belt is a heavy and unusual choice and I'm proud to do it. I have a lot of hope and at the same time I'm really concerned aboutr my virility. I'll tell you in a few weeks. I'll do many photos of my belt soon.
     
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    Great post and thanks for sharing. I will be interested to hear how living in a full belt works out as I think it can be a real challenge for many people's day-to-day lifestyles. Good luck to you both!
     
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    Good luck .it is a shame it has to be a belt to be secure but I get where you come from I’m going to have a pa soon as I thought that would be secure are they not then ?
     
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    hope the journey goes smoothly for you it sounds like you are doing it in stages which is good. Oedemas are to be avoided if possible completely if you keep getting them then something needs changing. Enjoy the totally trapped feeling a full belt brings its a real mind bender.
     
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    I have been pierced by the past, the tube was very short and tight, and I managed to climax.. sorry for you. You can get a PA, this will not prevent you from masturbating inside the cage.
     
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    Thank you! I'll tell you.
     
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    Quick update: since my last message, I had to step back due to skin shafting or burning. I still have to remove it regularly to let the skin rest. These devices seems to be worn very progressively. I was too ambitious. I hope I'll give her the keys in a few days as a gift for birthday.
     
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    My GF is now holding the keys. We have the same rules as Mean Bitch: if I well behave, obey her, including doing the chores, pumping her etc, I can hope a weekly possibly release. But it's always up to her. At the difference of Mean Bitch it is just added a weekly discipline session. I will be disciplined once a week.

    My GF/KH is a little bit afraid by these responsabilites but she accepted the keys because this belt makes her relieved about my masturbation habit.

    She wears the key around her neck or her feet, it depends. We are discovering together this lifestyle, finally. It's been a long time we had the desire to go into a FLR, here it is, finally! I recognize I was really scared when I offer her the keys, but it was a great time.

    I'm really happy to be belted. I'm proud, frankly proud. We are both relieved, we are accomplices, we know each that our sexuality is her from now and that I will no more masturbate. It is very comforting. I'm always a little bit excited but I try to relax, because try to erect is uncomfortable, the tube is just as long as my penis when flaccid and the belt is tight. Apart from shafing, I feel very comfortable in the belt. It is tight but really comfortable. The rear cable is at moments too tight, when I feel excited all the belt is under pressure and the cable seems really tight. I feel like this belt forbids to be excited. I have to learn to relax.

    First days..
     
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    Any update?
     
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    Upgrading in another belt!

    > If somebody is interested, I have a Neosteel Masterpiece Sports belt for sale (see "for sale" category)
     
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    Update.

    I sold my first belt due to edemas problems, the tube was too short. Now I have the same model but with a lining and a longer tube. Madam didn't like the marks on the hips and prefers with the lining. The tube allows me to harbour a semi-erection.

    The feeling is different, it could be seen as less restrictive than the first model, it is not. It is very restrictive. As the measures given to Mr Mende were really perfect, using the experience of the first belt, the belt is really tight, restrictive but it does not hurt.

    I needed a few days at bending the belt. I didn't touch a lot the shield, just bending it a little. The belt all over the hips was more difficult to get correct. The lining is really comfortable, I appreciate it a lot. As the tube is longer, I sit a bit on it, but I prefer that as I can erect a little. I feel more free in the tube and this is reassuring. I don't fear edemas now. That could be ironic: on one hand I love wearing that belt because it is comfortable and I feel secured without health concern and on the other hand I fear the future because with this belt it is no doubt that the locked up duration can be elongated.

    I feel ashamed by all these years masturbating. I'm convinced that I needed to be belted. I think that women don't deserve this from men. To me, men are too agressive and they don't respect their wife as they should, and putting them in chastity belts is really desirable. Belted, they just stop masturbating and begining to listen for their wife, loosing their agressivity.

    I tried many devices but I was always disappointed. With this real chastity belt, I feel delighted. No more shame about masturbation. My GF no more worries about that and appreciate to have the possibility to change me for better. The chastity belt is a perfect mean to make me advance in behavior. But we'll see, I wear it as I want for the moment, for new adaptation purpose.

    At this moment, I still need planty of oil for the skin, and the belt is really restrictive, making a huge difference with the freedom I had until now, sometimes unbearable. It is a test, a hard test. But how can I tell the benefits! I feel so better when belted! No more masturbation. No more shame. And I will have to keep quiet and to warn on my behavior. For her.

    Men fantasize about chastity belts but they should keep in mind that women doesn't care about their fantasies, women want them to stop masturbating, to be treated and served with respect. Chastity belt is just a mean, unfortunately required (in my case anyway).

    Photos following
     
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    That belt looks great. And you went through a lot to get to this point. I hope it works for you to be in a full belt.
    It certainly has its restrictions and limitations.
    Personally my chastity experience changed completely the moment I realized that it's not the chastity device or belt keeping me from having orgasms, it's my mindset.
    since then I could stop chasing ever more restrictive devices and instead concentrate on not allowing myself to even get that close. I realized that in the right moment I could ejaculate just by thought alone inside a tight chastity.
    Once I understood that I had to enforce chastity upon myself, the device only became an aid to chastity rather then the cause. I somehow doubt you are going to spend the rest of your life in a full belt, but a cage I can totally see never going without.
     
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    How long have you locked in full belt after you hand your keys over to your GF ? Really plan to wear the belt permanently?
     
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    I wear my belt about 12 hours a day currently. Time for adaptation. Yes, the objective is to wear it permanently..
     
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