The Benefits of Male Chastity

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    Except for the two dudes part! With the cage on, he is more into me now than ever, heh ;)
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    She sent me something similar, it had more cleaning lol.

    I didn't really realize how much time I had devoted to jacking off till I stopped. I didn't do this because I have a problem, but looking back I know there were mornings that turned into whole afternoons watching and playing around searching for the right vid to cum to.

    I look at Tumblr but only to send her pics etc. and never when home alone, only at work.

    I am doing things around the house more, always a project, in fact just last night she said to take a break and relax...so gave her a foot rub.

    The male brain has a lot a chemicals driving us, weird.
     
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    My guy only jerked off rarely, usually when I was asleep (of course, lol). But I will say, ESPECIALLY over the last couple of weeks since he and I had our conversation about where things have been headed, he has been way more attentive to me and ensuring I am happy, adhering to the rules to the best of his ability (he has accrued 27 spankings so far this week....better than last week), and has been really enthusiastic about our version of the male chastity lifestyle. It is very refreshing to see and makes me feel great and excited for things to come!
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Was told the other day if I snuck an orgasm I would lock up for a year, no questions or discussions.

    To be honest I had given that up when we first met, we had sex every night and it hadn't occurred to me to want more orgasms lol. Now before we met was a different story.

    So happy u two have grown even closer lately if that's even possible.

    I hope like hell she hasn't been tallying mine up... I have been kind of naughty lately.
    Smoked in the house
    Sassy
    Missed some oral mornings
    Admitted I gave it a few strokes while uncaged

    Anyway, I do prefer this over someone stewing over slights or wondering what is wrong.
     
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    The 1 year denial is definitely suitable regarding your behavior , @Mistress Amanté agrees !
     
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    Didn't u get a year for meddling?:rolleyes:
     
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    @Nicoftime , browsing tumblr while at work is frowned upon by most HR officials :D.

    @Thatgirl , the logic is sound ;)
     
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    Even having my phone on is a no-no at my work!
     
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    But I didn't come up with the punishment , I just agree with @Mistress Amanté 's choice :p
     
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    I always get a kick out of tumblr sites where most things are not true and designed to arouse those who know no better. Except for the sitting down to pee part, the rest is not true for me. I have seen all sorts of false claims like 78% of women prefer BBC or 90% of women want a guy with a big penis. How about 80% of wives would love to have sex with other men if their husbands asked them too. Usually this kind of picture shows the wife with her husband on one side and a guy with a very big penis on the other. :)
     
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    Darn those interwebs! Putting fantasy on a site designed to turn people on?

    I get it though,
    Tumblr: I'm going to tease you till u beg to be caged
    Reality: you have me so turned on...she says "so"

    I like to find little pieces of truth in the fantasy.
     
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    I saw another version of the same one. It looks like someone just modified the original but it does not have the two guys.

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    It seems like both 'without' and 'with' single guys are living alone to me, I know its supposed to convey cuckolding for the 'with' guy but its not clearly implied he is married at all.
     
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    OMG, Yes. I had no idea how much I jerked off to Tumblr. A few times a day if I could. Since being in chastity for two months now, it's possibly the best thing that could have.happened to out marriage. She gets the constant attention she's deserved for a very long time. A few nights a go, I was able to cum. She allowed me PIV. Wow!!! I have never came that much in 15 years of marriage. Also I've had a few ruined orgasms too. So far everything is going great! She's even bought a couple of books on male chastity and keyholder.
     
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    It makes me happy to hear a couple becoming closer together when the relationship is built on Love and Respect.

    You have developed your own version of male chastity and are both excited about where it will lead you. Exciting. Mastubation can damage a relationship more than we realize. When I stopped our relationship grew stronger and my commitment to my spouse improved. I don't remember the last time I Masturbated with out her approval, it's been years.

    I time may come when @Thatguyontheinternet welco se the sting of the strap on his bare backside because he knows it's given with Love. His submivive mind will welcome it and be thankful that hisMistress cares so much about him to help him become a better servant to her.

    To be chained together with the power of Love is stronger than any Chastity cage that has or ever will be built. Congratulations
     
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    Your backside should show the results of your behaviour. You Deserve It
     
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    The best thing about Chastity is how it can enhance intimacy when together and apart. It's a shared physical, emotional, and mental experience that offers a lot of control to the woman. Couples run into trouble when the experience isn't a shared one -- i.e. it's two misaligned people frustrated with their partner.
     
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    One aspect that is very beneficial to me and therefore her, is that being locked almost forces communication. I was never very good at it.

    I used to hold in my feelings, moods, wants, needs...pretty much everything. Now this pent up need fuels me to open up. I never would have told someone what I was going to do to them, let alone what I wanted them to do to me. Neither of those things may happen, then again, they weren't happening anyway. My point being I never would tell someone that I missed them, that I felt empty when they weren't there. I wouldn't tell someone how incredibly hot and bothered I was, I would expect them to know and act accordingly.

    I can be myself, let go of social norms and just be me. The lock doesn't really cause it, but the mind frame of constant arrousal makes it seem ok to talk a lot easier.
     
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    I totally agree with you @Nicoftime chastity has released the inner emotions.

    Very Good Point
     
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    I couldn't agree more. Enhances intimacy
     
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