The art/science of mental chastity...

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    It seems as if using physical devices have certain complications that come with it and I was just wondering if anybody has ever tried or was successful in maintaining a chastity relationship without a physical device? Is it possible?
     
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    This is what I'm working at now. I have no cage, just my willpower and my determination to do the right thing for my Mistress.
     
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    It's definitely possible. Do some searches on the forum for "honor system" (and "honour system") to see some past discussions.

    For some men, the drive to obey and submit (and the fear of disappointing or upsetting their wife/girlfriend/dominant) is enough to keep them chaste. For others, the honor system can feel unfulfilling, and they need the physical bondage of the chastity device to make the chastity feel "real."

    On a related note, there are other communities of men who attempt to remain chaste without devices, for a variety of purposes -- many religions encourage this, and the Reddit "nofap" community is all about avoiding masturbation, for instance.
     
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    The trouble for Mrs Chaste and myself is that I'm just not very honourable!
     
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    Lady Moon is right. I'm so determined not to let my Mistress down I will do anything to avoid it. And that includes playing with myself. It becomes an absolute.
     
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    Yes @winstonmacgregor its possible. The problem that most of us have run into is we can't keep our hands off of our Misstresses property ( our cocks ) the cage gives us a physical bearier and also reminds us that our cocks belong to so one else. The Strongest Chastity Cage is still your mind. If you can control that than you may be a rare individual that doesn't require a cage. Good Luck
     
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    We have practiced the honor system for quite a while before Mistress resorted to buying the cage after finding me to be dishonorable. Now, I only am caged when She is at work and She at least trusts me when She is around. (I know the wrath associated with Her catching me in the act.) This arrangement seems to be a happy compromise since, when She is nearby, She is so much in my mind (and on my mind) that I would not think of dishonoring Her. We now have a morning ritual which is employed (and enjoyed) on Her workdays, where I put the cage on and line up the holes and She inserts the lock, clicks it shut and gives me a tug to physically demonstrate Her control over me. When She returns home from work (and assuming that I have completed my assigned chores), She unlocks me and makes me promise to keep my hands off of Her property, which i honestly and faithfully do.
     
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