Teasing/edging, how do you know when to stop?

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    If your are edging a sub, how do you know when the right point is to stop or how do you tell if the sub is going to cum?
     
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    I always tell my wife when im going to cum, always soon enough for her to stop. If she gets too close, i stop her and calm down before accident happen
     
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    My Wife(KH) has me tell her when I get close to orgasm. Then she stops and lets me cool down...
     
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    Madam and I use a number system of 1-10 and she will ask where I am at, 1 the lowest, 10 being I am cumming, after a while madam can tell when I was getting to a 8 or 9 due to the tension in my penis.
     
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    My wife can tell when I'm getting close without needing to tell her. I guess the body starts to tense up.
     
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    To begin with my girlfriend would get me to tell her based on a similar numbering system. Since I receive almost daily edging sessions she’s got pretty good at knowing how to push it but she’s also very careful and doesn’t push it too far. To this day she’s never made me cum from edging.
     
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    Practice and feedback makes perfect!
     
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    My wife can usually tell by how wet I am with pre cum, but even then she has allowed me to go a second too long.
     
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    It took me a while to recognize the signs of PK's imminent release, so I had him tell me when he was getting close. Then I started noticing that his hands would ball up into a fist, his tummy would start to tremble and back begin to arch. However the real tell tale sign was his testicles drawing up into his body (cage removed). With each edging segment they would draw up more and more until they completely vacated the ball sack. That is when I decide to either end the session or go just a few more strokes for a ruined orgasm.

    It isn't as clear when I use the Hitachi Wand on him with the cage still on. His balls can't get past the base ring but they are extremely tight against it. He also seems a bit more vocal (heavy breathing and groans) when I administer a session like this so that's another key indicator for me.

    Maybe a video screen shot of a ruined orgasm will help demonstrate :)

    ruined_3_CM.jpg
     
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    Our rule is I can cum if I'm able and she looks for signs. I'm a premature ejaculator so we don't go to long anyway, but once I actually came while soft. She started sincerely laughing and I couldn't help but join in. It was emasculating, a huge turn on, and pretty funny all at the same time.
     
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    I always tell my KH when I am about to ejaculate. And als for permission to come. But she also can see it. My little opening of my penis is getting a bit wider just before. She always gives a few more strokes and I have to do my damn best to hold it in. Takes a lot of training. Good breathing actually. When I come she punishes me. Usually she lets me take a cold shower.
     
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    My Wife uses her hitachi wand on me many days a week when she has me caged. Drives me insane.. Great You have perfected it Ma’am.
     
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    Training, training and more training. We know our bodies better than anyone. Punishments for cumming along with the training help.
     
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