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    #1 MzLeatherClad, Aug 5, 2020
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    As a Domme in a very long distance relationship with Rodeo Cowboy. I enjoy lots of things about our early days together.... I am training him to serve both non sexually and sexual tasks.

    Last Monday he was travelling with work and would be staying in a hotel for the evening so I set him the task of stripping and remaking the bed in the hotel from scratch. He arrived at the hotel that evening unpacked and proceeded to strip the bed completely and remake it sending proof pics.
    However he forgot completely to ask my permission to begin his task. I see asking permission as part of my control.

    As punishment he was told to redo the task of stripping the bed.

    He was so apologetic but I set him a CBT punishment for not asking permission he had to go to a local store purchase some pegs ( clothes pins) and put as many as he could fit on his cock and balls for 30 mins. He suffered pain as a reminder to obey me fully. Listen carefully to the tasks I set him.

    I think he has learned the lesson well.
     
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    Oh you cruel Boss Lady, @Rodeo cowboy I feel for you. When I arrive at a hotel after work, all I want to do is lie on the bed and sleep, not remake it several times
     
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    Part of being a good submissive is to be sure you understand what your domme wants. I'm sure he was so eager to please that he overlooked that aspect of his assignment. Sounds like you've helped him learn from his mistake so he can better serve you in the future. That's the kind of direction any good sub would crave and be so happy to receive.
     
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    I am certain he learned well. And certainly appropriate that you assert your desires.

    I do ask, however, is there a difference between learning protocol and disobedience? I am not saying you did, or did not, make that distinction. I only ask because a new sub who wants to please may need to learn the difference. Was he punished for disobedience or a lack of knowledge?

    Laz
     
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    I try think of Domestic based tasks he can do in the hotel room. So I have limited choice..... he actually stripped the bed two days running ❤️
     
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    He’s very keen to please and I love that quality in him. He now asks Permission before doing a task .......It worked.
     
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    He’s not disobedient it was lack of knowledge. He does try his hardest to please me one thing I love about him is his attention to detail.

    but one has to set very high standards ❤️
     
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    A good task and a good response, making it a real learning experience
     
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    Tasks are always fun!
     
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    It was explained to me that I would need to ask before I started that task. The ask was part of the task. I do have standing daily and weekly tasks that don’t require and ask, but do require confirmation proof of completion. I understand and appreciate the amount of time required to assign and verify tasks are completed.
     
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    Taking this a different direction, clearly this post illustrates that we are really lucky to have some incredible, amazing and highly educated in this lifestyle women in this mansion.

    So my crazy suggestion: a virtual FLR training camp, by women living in this world for women entering this world. The collective wisdom and experience of the women here would be far better at coming up with a list of topics than I ever could be, as well as determining whom would be best at leading each topic (and that’s kinda the point, this is sharing collective wisdom i.e. @MzLeatherClad leads a discussion on discipline and @MrsBR_Saiph leads the discussion on cuckolding {links to a previous discussions we’d had).

    and yet I boldly go there without asking permission (I’ll buy some clothespins).

    a rough sketch could include:
    - discipline as laid out above by @MzLeatherClad
    - what service should look like, setting expectations.
    - tease denial
    - breaking your man into his new role
    - short term, long term vs permanent chastity
    - some hard subjects, what if his fantasies are more extreme than you’re comfortable with.
    - even some interesting electives, cuckolding, crossdressing, sissy training...

    It’s just a thought, and at the very least it is simply a sign of respect and admiration for the incredible women that have the confidence and willingness to share their experiences with us.

    Thank you @MzLeatherClad and the many others.
     
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    You flatter and you top from the bottom @Neo in Neo. I know who I am and yes I believe I know where I am going but it is because of the collective voice that is Chastity Mansion. We all have something to share and all also have more to learn. I am by no means an expert to lead a discussion in the realm of cuckolding. I do believe I am an intelligent level headed person always willing to listen and communicate which I believe will take me far on my journey. I welcome anyone who can learn and relate to my experiences.
    I think what you propose already exists as isn't that what is happening here. We all contribute to the discussion in each thread led by the op. I appreciate the mention. :love:
     
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    No apologies necessary. I am flattered to be held in such high regard so as to be mentioned.
     
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    Thank you for the clarification. Your new relationship with Rodeo is very exciting for many of us. May I suggest a reason why that is so? To a certain extent, I believe a good number of us males on this site are eager to watch how a skilled and experienced domme molds an eager student of chastity.

    Put another way, it may be accurate to say that more than a few of us may be learning vicariously through the both of you. Hence, at least for me, there is a great appreciation for you and Rodeo sharing your adventure.

    Laz
     
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    Thanks Rodeo for that important distinction. Seeing as the permission/approval was part of the specified task, you were lucky to receive such positive reinforcement.
     
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    I was pondering the notion of meaningful tasks inside a hotel room--having stayed in them for years. May I add an aspect to the bedmaking? (Rodeo may want to kill me for adding to his workload.)

    I humbly suggest that Rodeo tend to the cleanliness of his room each morning such that the housekeeping service isn't even necessary. Therefore, Mz LeatherClad may require him to leave a thoughtful note to the housekeeper saying something like this: "Thank you for all of your efforts, I went ahead and cleaned the room for you so that you can have an easier day and know that someone appreciates your hard work."

    Rodeo's goal, therefore, would be to illicit a polite written response from the housekeeper and be required to show that to Mz LeatherClad.

    Heck, I think I am going to do this next time I stay at a hotel......just to brighten someone's day.

    Laz
     
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    what a wonderful idea..... I think he should wake an hour earlier just for this task when he’s staying away from home.

    I do know he gives the food away to lady friends.

    and part of his task is to where possible make himself useful to Ladies.
     
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    Thank you kindly Mz LeatherClad. It delights me to have been of help.

    Dare I make the claim that male chastity should be for the benefit of ALL women, not just a keyholder? (of course, especially for the keyholder....but not 'just')

    Laz
     
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    Thank you for posting this fine example of autocratic control and consequent punishment. It being from such a fresh new dynamic makes it even more familliar and special.
     
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    I had a simple task assigned last weekend.

    MzLeatherclad gave me the task of going to the Home and Garden store buying a flowering plant, repotting it, and tending to it so that it would thrive. (The symbolism isn’t lost on me)
    This is the plant that I picked out, repotted, and tending. 84C91A45-3047-473D-8BDA-F4BD5C45E532.jpeg 29BD74D3-4D43-4656-A3CB-871FA4751A94.jpeg
     
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    It’s already looking healthier with some TLC from you :) well done
     
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    Totally agree
     
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    Weekly Task

    I have a weekly journal assignment. I am to write a journal entry that covers from Monday to Sunday. Last week was week 3. I am suppose to record my thoughts, feelings, changes, etc. it’s a great assessment tool. I took Friday - Sunday off to go on vacation. My journal assignment is non negotiable. It is due Sunday evening. I had not started or completed my journal entry by midnight Sunday night. Monday I confessed my failure. My punishment. CBT with pegs/clothes pins. I was directed to attach as many as I could to my cock and balls and to leave them for 32 minutes. The punishment was necessary and fitting. (I hate cbt) I attached 50 pegs. It hurts to attach them. With the timer running I got 50 pegs attached. I extended my punishment time from 32 minutes to 52 minutes. The first 32 minutes was punishment, the next 20 was because I wanted to suffer for my Domme.
     
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