My wife comes home from a five day trip tonight. I have not had an orgasm in almost three weeks. She will probably be tired so I am planning to pamper her tonight and hope for a release tomorrow. The advice I keep getting is to take it slow so I am trying to do that. I did need to self lock myself while she was gone, but I am not going to tell her that for fear of scaring her off from the whole chastity thing. I am on the honor system now and it has worked with some help from the cage. If I can keep this going for a while i hope one day she will be more open to using a chastity device in me.