Hi everyone, What do you deal with when coming down from a T&D session while in chastity? How do you handle it? I've been finding myself somewhat emotionally wrecked by it lately, with a strong need for reaffirmation and a good dose of insecurity. I suppose I need to preface this a little bit. My KH and I have been together over 2 years now, playing with chastity on and off at first but doing it pretty continuously for the better part of a year now. She's never had what could be called a "normal" relationship before; toxic and abusive exes, and a torrid sex life as a result. Ours is the most stable and exploratory sex life she's ever had. I'm about as kinky as they come, whereas she's never really even experimented with kink before me. Even through that, she's taken to chastity and regularly displays to me how much she enjoys it both by letting me see her arousal and verbally reinforcing it. Since I've introduced her to kink to a small degree and to chastity, which has now become our norm, I've found myself stressing after the end of sessions. I'm concerned that she is truly enjoying herself, as she has also regularly proclaimed her enjoyment at me being fully inside of her and cumming deep in her. I know to take her at her word and see her arousal as she either shows me how wet she is or gets herself off on me, but I find myself still dealing with the emotional worry that I'm pushing chastity on her, that it's a strain on us, even with no indications from her that that's the case. She teased the hell out of me this evening, never even unlocking me. Quite the mindwarp. She got off fast and hard with a vibrator from it. Yet now I'm sitting here, dealing with the familiar worry I've been having that I'm steering this too hard, doing the all-too-common topping from the bottom. Beyond talking with her and reaffirming our relationship (which I've done plenty after sessions) and cuddling and being close, I still fight anxiety after T&D sessions. So what do you experience after some T&D has concluded? How do you work together as a couple? What do you struggle with, how do you cope, what have you done to be content and happy with your situation? Thanks!