[Survey] Why are you a Keyholder?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Miss Nicole Smith, Jul 24, 2021.

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Why are you a Keyholder?

  1. It's a service that you charge for as part of a business.

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  2. You're dominant and need to own part of your sub.

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  3. You find the training process enjoyable/rewarding.

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  4. You want to see how long you can lock them up.

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  5. You like making your sub beg/plead for release.

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  6. You know your sub will be happier in chastity.

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  7. Your dom friend has keys and you're competitive.

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  8. You needed a new activity to occupy yourself.

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  9. Somebody has your keys so you want keys.

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  10. Somebody has your keys so you want keys.

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  1. Miss Nicole Smith
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    What makes you put the effort and time into holding somebody's keys either online or in real life? I came up with a lot of possible reasons.

    Please check all that apply

    I'm fishing around for a keyholder and am trying to learn what is what.

    Nicole
     
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    Smart strategy. I know there is one lucky keyholder out there for you. Good luck and enjoy. ps - i'll be interested in results as well. :), even tho i'm not looking.
     
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    I am sure you will find a KH who will love to train you to be an obedient little sissy.
     
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    It would be good to change the settings so results can be seen without voting. I can't answer as someone owned, but I'm intrigued.
     
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    Keep up in your search one will find you sooner but hope not later.
     
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    I’m still looking
     
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    #7 Cecilia B, Jul 26, 2021
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    I actually became a Keyholder for security and peace of mind. When husband was still boyfriend, if I had to work late at the hotel, there was no reason he couldn't go out. I'm older than husband. I didn't get my pick of the guys when I was single, but he got his of the ladies. He told me all the time he wasn't a cheater, but I was insecure. I was afraid of what could happen if he got too many beers in him

    My first idea was having him wear lace panties under his pants. The idea was if some hussy did take him home with her, she'd pull down his pants, see the panties and freak out and kick him out. He did it once, but said he just felt not in the mood for drinking with his friends when he had panties on. As a side, that got me into dressing him up, but that's another story.

    I was talking to my best friend about my insecurity when she suggested the cage. I looked into it, got a Chinese knockoff from Amazon (or maybe it was ebay, I forget) just to see if it would work out. Then boyfriend agreed to it. Once he got used to it and agreed to keep going, I went to Kept for Her and got the real thing.

    We've progressed a lot since then, but he still has a few reservations and limits. Still, I enjoy putting now husband in Chastity both for security and Discipline.
     
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    My late wife would go back home to see her family and she knew I would look at porn and masturbate she would be so angry! So one day we were in a sex shop. She went up to the sales girl and asked about a chastity device well the sales girl thought it was for her and showed her one I was of course standing there with them my wife said oh no no for me for him! I got an instant hard on and the sales girls face lit up and her nipples got instantly hard she smiled from ear to ear and showed us a few I had the choice of metal or plastic. I asked the difference between them and she said the metal will tug on your parts. So we decided on the metal. We asked how it works with ring size and all that and cage length. And width she said we should measure to get a proper fit. I could hardly believe when she pulled out the tape measure and my wife yanked my pants down I was dripping! The gal measured my junk then said I need to be soft in order to get a proper fit. So both jerked me off and when went limp measured me again they both talked and a few minutes later they had a cage which they proceeded to put me in at the moment of locking me up and holding both keys my late wife said well take it I got hard again but couldn’t get hard they both laughed at me and my wife said you’ll never jerk off again when I’m gone! And she was right! But it was a day to remember! ADB0F051-766D-41D2-B643-042D1BEBF144.jpeg here is that first cage. I miss my wife! And my keyholder
     
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    Dare I say it - I think you missed an obvious (and probably the most common) reason: ‘because your partner is into chastity and introduced the idea to you’.

    I suspect that it’s mostly the locked guy who comes up with the idea and looks to his partner to hold the keys for obvious reasons. The keyholder then holds the keys to indulge or please their partner, at least at first.
     
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    Husband then boyfriend told me early on he looked at pornography and masturbated. I never liked it, but thought I had to put up with it. I thought I had to put up with a lot of things just to keep him.

    He had to keep telling me if I didn't like something to say something. We've gotten to the point where I don't permit pornography or masturbation, unless I'm supervising it . Masturbation and pornography get him a Disciplinary Session.

    I have expanded my use of chastity as security to keep him from pornography or masturbation when I have to go out of town for business. I don't always do it, though. I will check his computer history. If I see pornography, I assume he's masturbated. It usually results in immediate lockup and a Disciplinary Session being scheduled. He doesn't hide or edit his computer history or use a scrubber. He's also big on honesty. He won't volunteer much, but if I ask, he'll tell me the truth, even if he knows it gets him a trip across my lap.
     
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    please i hope you find somebody. ooh and welcome to here as well.
     
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