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Surprises for your KH

Discussion in 'The Pedestal' started by paulie slave, Sep 19, 2017.

  1. I'm currently out of work and am running the house full time. I was wondering if anyone had suggestions on little things they do to please their SO. I don't mean anything sexual per se, but just looking for ideas to really put a smile on her face. I get the cleaning and cooking done and am just looking to do a bit extra.

    I once gave her a pedicure but I was a bit enthusiastic and took off too much dry skin so she got blisters when she wore heels, needless to say I didn't get to do that again!
  2. Get some red craft paper and cut out a whole bunch of hearts of all different sizes. Write notes to her varying from syrupy romantic, to funny, to you're so wonderful type things. Place them in a variety of places where she will find them sporadically over the course of the day.

    I'm scared to try the pedicure, but I give her foot rubs in the evening on a regular basis. Although at 10 - 15 minutes I have been told my foot rubs are the shortest on CM. I find it hard to kneel any longer than that.
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  3. Flowers are nice. A gift card for a professional massage therapist or spa. Make something you think she would like...picture frame, table, box for jewelry. New towels don't be cheap Egyptian cotton full bath towels. Her favorite perfume, candle, or lotion. Make her a card expressing your feelings and gratitude. Or some big project that you never seem to have time for. If you know her friends you can make a surprise girls night out .

    The key being it's not a gift that involves anything else besides a gift for her.
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  4. If you're out of work I'm guessing money might be tight or if it's not then it's your wife's income and it's never as fun to buy gifts for your wife using her income. So this is a suggestion from the heart, take some time and hand write your wife a love letter. Take your time and put some thought into it and really make her feel special. Let her know your feelings have only grown stronger for her over time. That will probably mean more to her than anything. I will usually do this every couple of months for my wife. She always appreciates it and it usually makes her tear up a bit.
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  6. Thanks all for the ideas. I will be trying a few in the coming days.
  7. Since she's working and your at home. One thing I've done is always make her breakfast in the nude or wearing panties. I also wash her car every morning for her dressed the same way ( we live in the country ) house work, dishes and preparing meals are a given. Learning how to massage her body and feet can also make her feel like a queen. Their are a lot of things you can do that don't cost you any money if you think about What Does She Want?
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  8. You could always try boot blacking and shoe shining. I'm sure she would love it if she wears them.
  9. Some great ideas! My wife loves a nice long foot massage with me in a cami and panties.
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    lol. I doubt very much if you being in cami and panties improves the foot massage, penny, but don't let that stop you.
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  11. Haha...She actually requires that I'm in panties, at least when I start, the cami is optional.
  12. Flowers are always appreciated. You don't have to buy them. Just pick some from a nearby park or something.
  13. My KH bought some pink panties with a bow for me to wear, and really likes them. They are pictured in the photos section under "Pretty in Pink", First Steps....