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    My wife so far does not completely deny me an occasional orgasm. Her preferred method is unlocking me and letting me jerk off in her presence, then watch me licking my mess often from her feet. Lately she saw a post about making him masturbate to gay porn while she ridicules and teases. We did that yesterday and she loved it. After I came she let me worship her pussy and ass. A great evening. She hinted about inviting a friend of hers and a neighbor over for the next session. I just found out she told her about my being in chastity. Will be interesting when I see her around. Anyone else have any supervised masturbation experiences to share?
     
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    I'm no longer allowed to masturbate supervised or not she has made it clear that it is hers to play with as she pleases. However, telling her friend sounds exciting how did you feel about that?
     
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    At first shocked but actually excited. I am sure the neighbor will tell others and the ladies may tell their spouses. But yes it’s exciting and I’m anxious to see how it unfolds.
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    That's how I felt when she said she had told one of her friends in passing. Keep us updated on how things turn out.
     
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    I spend lots of time away from my wife for work. Often extended trips. When I’m home she rarely has me locked, when away she keeps me locked at all times. While I am away she has surprised me before by telling me to unlock and play. She has me record videos and send them to her to watch while she uses her favorite wand.
    She enjoys watching me masturbate and perform for her. I enjoy the feeling and try to please her with noises and varying techniques and positions. She sometimes gives me instructions during as well. She likes to have me lick up the cum when finished to clean up!
    Then she has me lock back up.
    It has been very enjoyable and makes me feel very loved. She saves the videos and has told me that she rewatches them sometimes when she is feeling frisky and enjoying her toys.
    She has never told anyone of me being caged as far as I know. She is a very private person and would not share personal things like that with others. I would not care if she did, I am not embarrassed, but proud to be under her control. I also would not mind if she shared the videos with any of her friends, but again that is not likely.
     
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    I was permitted supervised masturbation almost every night until my wife determined that she wanted me placed in chastity. This would almost always consist of me humping my diaper until I would make sissies although there was different variations. Sometimes I would be put into the corner with my nose litterally against the wall as she sat in our bed. I was instructed to hump the wall while she verbally humiliated me. Most of the time I would just lay on the bed and hump one of our big fluffy pillows. She would have me look into her eyes and almost always remind me that this is what I deserved and that my sissies belong in my dirty diapers so they can ne thrown away in the trash can. Since my wife just got fucked in our bed by her boyfriend I am sure she will remind me of this if I am permitted supervised masturbation in our bed again.

    If I have been a really good girl then sometimes she allows me to hump her leg or bottom. That is a specail treat. One time she put a heating pad between her leg and my diaper and that was a special treat while humping.
     
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    Was it my post your wife saw?

    I make him do it a couple of different ways. First, of course, he gets spanked for looking at pornography. If I put him across my lap, he almost always ejaculates at least once, so he has to eat it, get his tawsing then the spanking starts all over again. Sometimes, I want a full load for supervised masturbation, so I'll bend him over something, or have him bend over and clasp his arms behind his knees. I like to do that when I've decreed 6" heels for the Disciplinary Session, since he still has a hard time with them. I pull down his panties and apply physical discipline to his rear end. I pull up his panties when I'm finished and make him kiss the implement I used on him, put it away then come and kneel in front of a computer. Then I pull down his panties again, go to a pornography site and tell him to "show me what he did while he was disobeying me". If I select a gay site, of course, he doesn't want to masturbate to that, but, a few swats of a leather paddle to his behind gets him stroking. If it's just us two, I ridicule him for being dressed up like a girl and masturbating to gay pornography. If there are other ladies present, I encourage them to tease him about it, too.

    Sometimes he stops when he's on the brink of ejaculating, so I remind him I didn't tell him to stop. I add a few swats of the leather paddle to his bare bottom to reinforce my words. Of course, he protests he's going to get a tawsing if he ejaculates without permission, but I tell him he'd better learn to control himself, then and give him the order: "Keep stroking, pantyboy".

    Then he begs for permission to ejaculate. I'll ask him humiliating questions and if there are witnesses, I encourage them to ask him humiliating questions. Some sample questions:

    Are you a sissy pantyboy?
    Do you like dressing up like a pantyboy and masturbating to gay pornography?
    Look in the picture, one boy's eating cum. Do you want to eat cum too? Why?
    (He's supposed to say because he's a sissy pantyboy and pantyboys like to eat cum)
    Then I make him beg me for permission to eat his ejaculate when he ejaculates.

    If I deny permission, of course, he ejaculates, anyhow, so he gets his tawsing. If I give permission, he ejaculates. Before the tawsing, or, if I've granted permission, he eats his ejaculate. I tease him and encourage the ladies to say things like

    "OOOO he just ate something that came out of a penis!"

    "Look at what a sissy pantyboy he is. He must be gay! He's dressed up in women's underwear and playing with himself while he watches 2 boys go at it then eats up what came out of his dick!"

    "You really enjoy being a girl, don't you , pantyboy?"

    When he's eaten his ejaculate (or after he's eaten it and gotten his tawsing if I didn't grant permission), I make him kneel again and ask him questions while I paddle his bottom some more.

    "Are you a cum sucking sissy?"
    "Do you like sucking cum?"
    "Are you a little pantyboy slut?"
    He has to say "Yes, Miss Cecilia" or "Yes Ma'am" to all of those. Then I say "Let me hear you say it." and he has to say it out

    "I'm a cum sucking sissy pantyboy, Miss Cecilia."

    At the end of the session, I make him kiss the leather paddle and say out the words:

    "Thank you for turning me into a cum sucking pantyboy sissy, Miss Cecilia"

    If my friends are watching, he has to thank them for watching and thank me for bringing them over to watch.
     
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    Yes it was your post. Soooo erotic and thanks for the detail. When and if I get to cum again we will use this as a model.
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    Yes it was your post. So erotic. If and when I am permitted to cum again this will be the model
     
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    One thing about bf is he's always erect when dressed up. Even when he knows he's going to be spanked, he's still erect. He has special discipline lingerie and special dresses he wears for discipline. They still make him get erect. Once I get the dress and petticoats off, there's a tent in his panties and I make sure to make fun of him about it and invite the ladies watching (if there are any) to make fun of him, too.

    When I pull down his panties just before I ask him the questions about why he's getting this, I make fun of his erection and invite the ladies to make fun of it, too. Usually, though, especially if they've seen it before, they're into it by then and don't need an invitation.

    When he gets across my lap, I put his erect penis between my legs an d close them on purpose, just to make him ejaculate, so I can make him eat it and give him a tawsing. I usually don't say much while I'm spanking him the first 2 or 3 times he's across my lap. I want him to concentrate on the discipline being applied to his bare bottom.

    The only time I have him count strokes is when he gets a tawsing. He gets 25 strokes for ejaculating without permission. Before I actually give him permission to start counting, I've applied a few and apply a few extra at the end. If he misses a count, I stop, ask what was the number and punctuate my questions with tawse strokes until he gets it right. From then on, he gets "help" counting to 25. For example

    WHAP! "And what number was that?"

    "19" WHAP!

    WHAP! "19 WHAT?"

    "19, Ma'am" WHAP!

    "19." WHAP! WHAP! "and what comes after 19?"

    "20, Ma'am" WHAP!

    "20?" WHAP! WHAP! "and what comes after 20?"

    "21 Ma'am" WHAP!

    What happens is he gets 3 strokes for every 1. Once we get to 25. I scold him for not counting right and make him ask me to start again. I ask him if he needs "help" counting, he says he doesn't, but, I make him ask me to help him count, anyhow, so for the 25 he winds up getting 75 plus the extras. Usually, he's counting and answering through tears and the volume of "20, Ma'am" goes up, since I try to apply the stroke as he's answering me. If he gets the tawsing for ejaculating while he's across my lap, the original spanking resumes until he gets through it without ejaculating.

    If he gets the tawsing for ejaculating without permission during supervised masturbation, I go on as I've already said.

    I don't have him count strokes with the cane, but I never give him more than 12. I had to graduate to that and I started out giving him only 6. Blood and breaking the skin is a hard limit for bf. He's mentioned he trusts I'll say the ABSOLUTE STOP! safeword if I make him bleed during a caning. I don't use the cane alot, because sometimes it takes more than a week for the welts to heal and I'm afraid if I apply something else to his bottom before the welts heal, it might make him bleed.

    Of course, a caning gives me a good reason to put him in chastity for a while. He needs more discipline and in my judgement, he can't be spanked, so chastity it is!
     
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    Any kind of Masturbation is considered a gift. Supervised or not when I'm allowed to masturbate I enjoy it. I have been instucted to do it In front of others,since I'm not allowed very often it doesn't matter to me if someone else is present or not. It's a priveledge to be allowed to masturbate.
     
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    I agree with you and I enjoy the reward of being allowed to masturbate as well.
     
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    I lay in bed and masturbate next to my wife every morning, to wake her up (of course I can't cum). This morning she took over, and almost went too far...stopped just in time, rolled over, and went back to sleep. She doesn't seem to mind if I masturbate, but she knows I won't cum without her permission.
     
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    So many interesting threads. So little time ...

    Technically, that is all I am supposed to have - Supervised Masturbation.
    I am under the Honor System so its up to me to keep my hands off until she gives me permission. This has [mostly] worked for decades.

    She lets me 'play' a few times per week & lets me finish occasionally. She reminds me each time that this is supposed to be the only time I am allowed to masturbate.

    This is where the waters get muddy ...
    When we started our Honor System, it was for cumming only - not for masturbation too.

    The last few years, she has wanted to include a rule that prohibits me from playing with myself unsupervised. This is where I am having trouble!

    We have had discussions about me wanting to her to be more strict.
    [A few good threads in various forums about strictness, dominance, whats natural, etc.]
    I think this is her doing that :)

    I am 95% able to keep myself from cumming - but far less successful when it comes to playing with myself. Because of my inability to keep my hands away, we have a Lori's is on order.


    We were out one day and someone we know [pointing to the neckless my wife was wearing] asked "Is that the key to his chastity belt?".

    Both our jaws dropped - and I don't even remember her answer - haha.
    [it was a key to a pair of handcuffs by the way]

    But really, that had to be the light bulb moment for both of us.

    When my device is here, she does plan to wear the key on a neckless - and I have no doubt that if someone asks her that question again, her answer will be an unhesitating 'Yes."
     
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    Knowing how much Mistress detests my masturbation, on the few occasions where She actually allowed me to do it in Her presence, I really considered it a special treat. Of course, Her reaction and calling me disparaging names really humiliated me even more. But, since I enjoyed it more than She did, I don't expect a replay any time soon!
     
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    That is so True. So many Interesting Threads and so little Time.
     
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    Even prior to chastity and our FLR, Miss would often allow me to masturbate in bed next to her. This especially applied if she was not up for having sex and I was my usual horny over indulged self. Once in a while she would allow me to hump her leg, but usually things were taken care of by my right hand. I often resented her lack of participation and felt a bit humiliated by my solo performance lying next to her but chalked it up to the direction my sex life was going in at the time. It did often put me in a very subby space in my head though. I know now that I was very lucky that Miss. allowed me this act when she really was not into it. Since starting my chastity and our FLR, Miss rarely allows me to masturbate, and prefers taking her property into her own hands. She also knows now that I have accepted and prefer to not orgasm, and Miss, also knows she usually has better control of me than I have of myself, so she doesn't really trust that I will stop in time. Ironically, the one occasion that Miss. still likes to see me masturbate is while I am caged going down on her. She gets a kick out of seeing me have what usually amounts to a ruined orgasm or limited orgasm in my cage. This is something that I can only make work when I am with her, as I would otherwise never be aroused enough to get near an orgasm wearing ExtremeWerkzz short cage.:oops:
     
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    For me, masturbation is forbidden. Part of my chastity training instilled the notion that my body is property of the Princess and manipulation thereof is off limits. Since beginning my training last August, I have been permitted the privilege of self-manipulation once or twice, but this was under Her direction and supervision and was designed to further matters for Her pleasure. As it should be.
     
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    i am not allow to matubate as well and i dont know how it can be done anyway in a little cage.
     
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    The Prime Directive :)
     
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    My cage will be here fairly soon ... thats when I will find out exactly what you mean!
     
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    well i think that you will find out.
     
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    This was also a huge problem for me and also how I ended up in a chastity device. We started our power exchange as play, with a no-cumming-during-PIV rule. But I am a masturbator. When we evolved to an FLR it became a no-cumming-without-permission rule. But as a masturbator I adjusted by just masturbating to the edge, setting a goal of two edgy leaky drippy sessions a day. But I knew this was not what she had in mind and was cheating and disrespectful even if I was successful in holding back over 90% of the time, so I bought a chastity device and confessed to her and asked her to hold the key. That was almost two years ago. Now I don't masturbate our penis anymore, except on the very rare occasion she asks me to masturbate for her (she says it turns her on to watch, to see what boys secretly do), but she hasn't asked me to do that in over six months now. I miss my erection and I miss stroking it. Every few months I try to get off inside the cage, but it's usually not worth the effort, and I dare not pull out, because that would be like an alcoholic walking into a bar. So I'm a recovering masturbator.
     
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    In a previous relationship with a Domme (not a KH situation), I was only allowed to masturbate under her supervision. I would be naked except for my collar and be made to kneel in front of her (she was usually clothed in some way) and she would tell me to begin stroking myself. She would let me use Vaseline as a lubricant, and put a small black bowl in front of me. She directed my stroking (fast, slow, stop, etc.) Sometimes but not often I was allowed to ejaculate into the bowl, then of course had to lick it up. Usually though after edging me this way for however long she wanted, she would secure my hands behind my back, spread her legs, and have me service her until she had several orgasms.
     
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    @Rectrix
    Getting into FLR at an early age helped me with my approach to life.

    When I met my wife, I introduced her to this - she appreciated the benefits but it took time to get her to feel comfortable with calling those kind of shots.

    I have enjoyed the orgasm denial part from the very beginning but have always had the luxury of 'playing' [euphemism for masturbating] ... until recently.

    This was one of those 'careful what you wish for' things - I always wanted her to be more strict but it wasn't in her nature.

    I have become the custodian of Her penis. She wants me to keep my hands off and I am finding that its too difficult for me to do. The Lori's is heavy and not a long term solution. If we could find a secure lightweight device ... I think we would both smile.

    Since I am more on the Honor System than not, I -could- finish what I start ... but since I won't lie & she will ask ... it keeps me in check. Mostly.

    You might be on to something here with Recovering Masturbators ... Maybe L-u-c-y would entertain the idea of being the first online 12 Step recovery program
     
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