Super strict cage

KTB and you will not gum

 

Try a much smaller cage. I got one from a a chinese seller recently. It's 100% effective without a magic wand. When I realised I couldn't get any pleasure I tried to talk my KH into letting me go back to the old cage. All I got was verbally bitch-slapped and told in no uncertain terms that this is my future. I feel like I've made a stupid choice and have to live with it now.

 

I can recommend the £7.69 chinese cages, I have 2 of them And they're really quite good

 

I only got mine a couple of weeks ago so I can't testify to long term. Don't worry about night erections, when it's really small they don't seem to happen any more. I used to wake up some mornings really sore, hasn't happened once since the new cage, well I can't really call it a cage, more of a button!

 

Other possibility is a MatureMetal with long crisscross punishment pin.

 

I second the KTB. In terms of “impossible”, it’s the only thing I can think of. We had ours out the other day and man did i forget how much it hurts. Especially if you don’t put it on just right, and we didn’t. When on just right it’s still brutal, but not quite as scary.

 

I thought I'd try something smaller than my fort. I bought a knock off HT initially I thought its reduced diameter would be an issue. Before I'd worn it a week I sent off for the steel small version. Erection attempts abosolutely loads daily and woken up every morning. But erections NIL. I'd never believed what people had said about the benefits going smaller till now.

My KH used to like my pointless almost erections in the Fort but now she loves to hear about my failed attempts at getting erect.

 

You can orgasm in any device simply by holding a vibrator against it. I thought all guys knew that you do not have to be erect to orgasm. You can even see that in chastity porn. Chastity is not being locked up. No need to lock up. There are plenty of guys locked up between their regular orgasm schedule. There are guys like me who are currently unlocked but still chaste.

You are actually practicing celibacy, not chastity which is why you will find your experience very different than those who practice chastity. Chasity is built on a foundation of a power exchange. It involves sex, just not control over your orgams. You can have sex daily in chastity. Take away the sex and the keyholder and you have celibacy. Look it up. Your focus is on the device because that is all there is. Chastity involves feelings of intimacy, a growing emotional bond with a lover, having someone else, not yourself or strange men on the internet deciding when you can give yourself an orgasm when you could do not at anytime anyway. I do not get self locking but I used to whip myself and call it S&M until I learned that without the "S", it was actually self flagellation. It is a valid fetish as any other but not the same as S&M despite using the same equipment. I had nothing in common with those in the S&M community and instead of spending money on new whips to keep that excitement going, I spent it on dating girls to find a few who would play S&M with me. I found 3 in my lifetime which I never would have met sitting behind my keyboard. Lots of being called a pervert but I found a few willing to try and it was well worth it.

You are never going to find the holy grail of chastity devices. You can cum in any of them so what is the sense. Believe me, if you get a painful one, it will not last long because self inflicted pain is not the same as enduring it for a loved one or a Mistress you serve. Check out fetlife. There are a lot of self lockers there who talk about devices and emlalock and all that stuff. It is a fun fetish for them but just not the same fetish for most into chastity although the self lockers and online sex players seem to be taking over. Just as mastrubation is different than intercoruse, despite both resulting in orgasms, such is the case with self locking and chastity play. I have been where you are and the secret is to keep dating as many girls as you can and play the odds that you will eventually find a kinky one. Good luck but I would not advise to spend more money on a device since the device is a device and will only give you a few weeks of excitement like buying new whips did for me. A waste of money in the end although I used to have a very nice whip collection at one time.

 

OMG I love this discussion! Over the years I have been working towards smaller and more compressing cages and I have moved away from plastic and silicon in favour of stainless steel. My small stainless steel cage now feels far to roomy especially when I am flaccid! Also the separate lock does not give that look of tiny un-importance of my tiny, baby, pee pee as she calls it!

I read on the internet "Thank God women have exploded that myth and are telling men that clitoral stimulation is what they need and the penis is not capable of that. The fall of the penis and the rise of the clitoris is completely in line with the decline of men and the rise of women in so many areas today. Instead of a man’s heavy body on top of a woman thrusting into her as hard as he can, now more and more it is a man on his knees with his tongue on her clitoris concentrating on her pleasure, while his penis hangs uselessly totally unwanted and unneeded" but perhaps a more devastating feeling will become my future when I am locked into a much smaller cage with an internal lock!

Then I expect she will only let me out to experience her new toy! As a KH on the internet has said "I’ve been planning some size teasing recently and getting him to wear the new silicon extender during the day and out to dinner or with friends is definitely part of it. But also just acting like it’s his cock, sucking, wanking it, drives him crazy, as he can just feel it, but never enough to cum. And then when it’s all warmed up, well it’s like the ultimate endurance condom. He can just keep going with no risk of him finishing. He actually needs to get fitter because that’s now the limiting factor in how long he can fuck me for. Before he always had the excuse he could stop because he’d cum! Oh I’m all flustered now… that’s tonight planned then my pleasure his frustration! Giggles"

OMG I'm leaking just thinking about the smaller cage and the replacement extender for my KH!!!

 

I recently moved into a much shorter cage which is a quality stainless make. When giving oral worship to my KH, she knew already that I could orgasm with her in my CB6000s. So, when the new cage arrived a few weeks ago, while giving her oral, she gave me permission to try and orgasm in my new custom stainless cage. And of course, I did. By the way, I use no vibrator of any type. Just me pressing my body against the cage over a period of time, and I eventually get there. But, with the new cage, it is much more difficult, as it is much shorter. You have to work much harder at it and it is not very physically enjoyable. Much like a self imposed ruined orgasm. So, it is not often appealing to me. And it makes a big mess I have to clean up in my cage. I own two Kali Teeth Bracelets but don't use them presently. I assure you that properly worn, you will have no orgasm with it on. The only thing you will know is pain if you start to become aroused. KTB is very effective at assuring you will have no erection or orgasm. I did not find them appropriate for long term wear unless you are a kept stay at home sissy who is being properly overseen. Otherwise, the KTB can really hurt you. To make a long story short, there are cages out there that are more difficult or challenging to orgasm in than others, and as many have mentioned here, most CB devices can be defeated if you try long and hard enough.

 

I have an old cb3000 with points of intrigue and found the points can be pushed on to the cb6000s assembly as a spacer, this was one of the most secure arrangements I’ve ever used and the mid/larger points could be very good at killing an erection. I moved to a metal Chinese device now as there are other issues I found with the 6000, in fact I have adapted the points of intrigue to fit the metal cage with a file, drill and a bit of patience. I don’t know if you can still buy the POI for CB but I would recommend giving it a try.

 

What is KTB?

 

Thank you, that looks like something from medieval torture chamber....makea me have tears just looking at it.

 

yes youm rigt all you can do when its put on you is scream all the time till its tooked off.

 

Not if you only think pure thoughts!

 

Jemima is correct; all you would think about is pure painful torture, as you’re straining to keep it down, knowing an erection would be devastating,

 

Such fun to watch a male trying not to get an erection.
Rita

 

That's all well and good but what happens at night, when you are not in control?? I would love to try this but so scared that it would cause serious damage, those teeth look sharp, and long.....that's why we need strong women....we are weak and so predictable......and another point, there are females out there that would want to get me hard.....to see my pain!

 

I only have my husband wear his KTB on special occasions when I am there as I like the entertainment it provides.
Rita