Suggestions for rules, anyone?

The substance of the rules are fine; but beware of piling rule upon rule and ending up with what looks like the T&Cs of an insurance document. I would advise you to reduce the rules; but maintain the spirit of what you have here. So read the rules then shred the agreement.

I can tell you now that If I had not mentioned it a pedant would have questioned how a slave could agree a contract (they might still); but I don't really mind: I get what you're trying to do.

 

Yep. We used to have contracts and rules. Now she just locks me and unlocks me as she wants. When I’m locked I’m her slave. Simple as that.

 

Rules may be a bit of a loaded word, we use “routines”. For example we had a routine where I would go down on her and worship her pussy and ass every night or the next morning. Our schedule changed so this was impractical so we have since ended that routine, but she loved it while it lasted.

Another one is I rub her feet with lotion every evening. I make her coffee and lunch every morning, I start her car in the winter, and I am her maid once a week and try to work in giving her a bath and give a massage.

She tried to instigate a maintenance spanking routine, but it kinda fell off the table with our schedule.

Whatever works for her and what she enjoys should be great.

 

Be respectful and obedient. Everything else steems from that.

 

How about everyday?
Its liberating to be able to say I haven't wore guy underwear for decades.

Off & on is a good way to put it ...
Some of our guiding rules:

1. You must always do what I say without hesitation - and if I ask your opinion, agree with me.
- 'Agreeing' is difficult when on the edge & She says something like: "Dont you think you should wait another week or two?". "Oh, yes. That is a splendid idea.".

2. You may ejaculate only with my express permission & then only in my presence.
- It might be anywhere between 1 week to 4 months.

3. When I let you masturbate or ejaculate you must not let your gaze wander from my eyes - if it wanders to ANY distraction, you must instantly end the session without objection.
- This can be the hardest thing of all - especially when she creates compelling distractions.

4. Your testicles, all the semen they produce and penis are mine & exist for my pleasure and my pleasure alone. I will play with them as long as they amuse me or ignore them as long as I choose. Them being part of you simply makes you the custodian - nothing more.
- A 'custodian' often under the influenced of impossibly raging hormones.

5. You are never allowed to ask, beg or imply that you want to masturbate or have an orgasm.
- Easier said than done.

6. You are never to express thanks if I allow you to cum nor show any form of complaint if I do not - just silently accept my decision.
- I have not been cured of rolling my eyes or exhibiting a mournful glance even though that behavior might mean another week of OD. In the very moment, I often cant help it - and of course she knows that


Similar in design to yours.
We try to 'keep it simple' so dont have any rules about my servitude - me doing the chores is a given & has an unspoken influence.
- Do all the cooking.
- Do all the cleaning.
- Treat all women special.
- Always show respect for others.
- Always ask what I can do for Her.
- Dont let the ice try become empty.
- Dont let the toilet paper roll run out.
- Finish all the laundry before something is needed.
- Etc ...

Take what you want and leave the rest.

 

Why are you only wearing panties on non work days? My ex wife and now my Mistress felt it was best in panties all the time. Although i can see an exception if you have a job where you need to change into work clothes at work.

 

One we have that I didn't see on your list is that I'm not allowed to schedule any social activity or work related activity outside of working hours without asking permission first. This is just another level of control and an opportunity for her to make you beg or deny you something you enjoy. We have more followed the "she makes the rules" as opposed to a formal list. Still there were standing expectations regarding housework and meal service. So similar to your list.

 

Heres a few protocols or rules that I've had over the years.
1, Not permitted to sit or lye down in her presance without permission ( This can be fun at restaurents/pubs etc)
2, When sent to bed stand or kneel naked by the bed until given permission to lye on it with her, she will come up to bed when it suits her.
3, On seeing her stir in the morning perform oral sex or analingus if shes on her front. ( Not a bad way to start the day)
4, Lick clean and worship any shoes/boots she has touched or worn that day before putting them away. If shes feeling playful you may find your lips and tongue swollen and sore after cleaning many shoes and boots, oh yes don't forget to clean the sole and heels thoroughly.

 

understand the thinking, ok

 

I've said it before but..

Rule 1 I do what she says and when she tells me

Rule 2 In the event of any dispute, doubt or lack of clarity I should see Rule 1

these will cover it for most people.

 

Those basic rules are the main ones with my Mistress as well

 

also start by typing "i" instead of "I" and for HER always Upper Caps. Paying close attention to small details like that will help you become a better slave.

 

Yep that's the way to go, she has total control of your reproductive organ full stop. All the other things are what I believe grind you both down, they can't be done day to day in the real world, but your ability to get erect or ejaculate can be.

 

Indeed, i (W/we) used to have a full document related to our FLR, it was based on a business plan template i found on the internet. It had objectives and goals and values, and my top 10 rules like commandments, etc. However, now i just follow two basic rules; First, love, obey, respect and listen to my GODDESS, EMPRESS, QUEEN, and WIFE MISS LENA, be submissive to HER in all endeavors and actions. Second, if there is any disagreement or ambiguity or doubt, obviously mostly on part, about anything always go back to rule number one!!! my WIFE an i, W/we both call them the basic "eunuch" rules. And if anything along the way becomes dysfunctional for whatever reason, the "eunuch" shall always go back to basics! It is rather simple, if you ask me.

 

Indeed, i (W/we) used to have a full document related to our FLR, it was based on a business plan template i found on the internet. It had objectives and goals and values, and my top 10 rules like commandments, etc. However, now i just follow two basic rules; First, love, obey, respect and listen to my GODDESS, EMPRESS, QUEEN, and WIFE MISS LENA, be submissive to HER in all endeavors and actions. Second, if there is any disagreement or ambiguity or doubt, obviously mostly on part, about anything always go back to rule number one!!! my WIFE an i, W/we both call them the basic "eunuch" rules. And if anything along the way becomes dysfunctional for whatever reason, the "eunuch" shall always go back to basics! It is rather simple, if you ask me.

 

Our relationship is a bit different. My keyholder is queer, and a friend of my wife and I. My role with her is more or less chaste/dickless manservant who has had his desire for sexual pleasure and orgasm reduced or removed over the years. She prefers women, but I think that a male servant who is not dick motivated is the next best thing. She is also not sexually motivated, so I've been trained to better suit her. I provide companionship and service.

The rules are pretty basic, but we find as we go, we have fewer "rules", as much of what had to be spelled out early on, are just daily life now.

The main foundation of things for us is our #1 rule. No unlocked erections. That takes care of so many things that were a rule in the past. I haven't seen my dick unlocked and hard since last summer when she was whipping it raw. She likes beating it from time to time, but much prefers that I learn to live without it, so now it stays locked up at all times. No more sex rules, erection rules, masturbation rules.

No using the genitals for pleasure, outside of "emptying out" every 2-3 months, done locked. Wash it, put it away. Treat it like you're cleaning your nose.

Locked 24/7 unless absolutely necessary. We used to have a bunch of rules for this, but I'm decently trained, and know my boundaries.

I may touch my keyholder, but may not see her naked. If she's naked, I'm blindfolded or hooded. This has evolved, but is largely to reinforce our defined roles.

I serve my keyholder, and obey my wife.

That's pretty much it really for rules. The rest is just expectations. I only wear a cage that fully hides/removes the penis from sight. I am for giving pleasure, not having it. If she is feeling sadistic, I submit to what she wants. I beg for mercy, rather than use a safeword when I've had enough. I function as her manservant as well as friend and get pleasure from just helping her out with stuff and life. She likes me confident, but submissive, respectful and polite. We dont have any set rules on that stuff beyond that really.

Private time is more slave/servant, but that's poly life really. With my wife, we're just equals, but I'm locked at all times and chaste and give pleasure with no pleasure given in return, which is all she wants from this really. My wife only wants me wearing my strap-on, and my keyholder fucked me a couple of times so I wouldn't whine about it down the road, and we closed that chapter of my life once we adopted our #1 rule of no unlocked erections.

Stay locked. No boners. Accept your fate. No peeking. Accept whats asked and given. Derive pleasure only from giving it. Be respectful. Open jars, lift heavy objects and do car repairs and handyman stuff. Kill spiders.

 

An early hurdle we had to overcome was giving up on me having to wear Her panties.
Still do on occasion but for everyday wear, I needed to find what worked best for me.

It was a chore to find ones that were both comfortable & functional.
Some are for just around the house while others are for being out and about all day long.
Took a bit of trial and error ... and expense ... but finally nailed some down.
Once I found a few brands that fit well - it was 100% panties for me.

Private message me if you want any ideas on how to make it work.

 

5. Sleep on the floor if I fail to please her that day.

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Ask if you may have a thin blanket unless she is very angry with you, it gets very cold in the early hours without one, an added refinement was using wrist restraints and chaining/tying my collar to the footboard but not enough play so I could not lie down, you don't sleep just hit a twilight zone eventualy, so you will be mentaly and physicaly exhausted the next day, but all your regular work/chores must be done to standard. That is a tough punishment and will break your spirit quickly. Are you brave enough to share this with her?

 

Sounds Like your Mistress and yourself have a good handle on rules, Panties could be added if She feels you need that. For Us, Punishment has always been if it is Major infraction She waits 24 hours for it to settle down and me to think about it then it could be cane or paddle. Sleeping when I became Her 24/7 housemade slave after retiring 14 years ago I received the room across the Hall from our old Master Bedroom entering when asked or to clean. seeking a lover outside is something you both need to talk about and make sure you are both sable and comfortable with it but like Us it adds to the relationship, good luck and sounds like you both know how to move forward