I never realized the shirtless pic of my subby would be offensive. I could be sorry this makes you feel a certain way, but I’m finding it difficult since the problem seems to be a personal one. I took and enjoy the pic and told him to use it as his avatar. I didn’t realize he was trying to be manly and trying to overcompensate. Who knew? I’m sure my cleavage is offending someone out there as well, so perhaps that should be restricted to make things gender equal.