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    Well, Lent ended last week and my diet ended along with my chastity test. I lost 25 pounds and wore the cage for almost the entire time. My wife released me a couple days early for PIV. Honestly, I was kind of over the whole chastity thing and welcomed the freedom for a few days while we travelled.
    When we got back home, it took about 2 days for my wife to start complaining about the lack of attention. She would also make comments like, "I guess you can do whatever you want with it now. Are you?" I may have made myself cum once, but was actually doing pretty well without the cage. It's not like I am ignoring her, it's just that I am less focused on her and more focused on me.
    We had really good sex last Wednesday night and she tells me for the first time to go put the cage on. In the past I would always ask her if she wanted me to put it on. It's like she waited for me to be tired of it before she embraces it. Go figure.
    Well I have been taking care of her needs for the last 3 days and she has been pleased. She woke me up tonight by playing with my nipples and pushing her leg against the cage. I started moaning and she really got into it. I started touching her and she actually grabbed the cage. I asked her if she wanted me to take my boxers off and to my surprise she told me to take them of. She has never wanted to touch the cage before. She had an orgasm while tugging on my cage. I asked her if she wanted to let me out and she casually replied, "Not tonight". She rolled over and told me to scratch her back. She is now asleep and I am up writing this.
    I am truly in love with her more than ever now and am excited for the future. I think.
     
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    Congratulations on moving to the next level.

    I am curious though. What type of diet were you on that helped you lose 25 pounds?

    Iso.
     
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    I did the Daniel fast which is supposed to only last 21 days. I figured I would do for all of Lent which is 47 days. It basically is what Daniel from the bible would have eaten at the time. No meat dairy, processed food and sugar. Only water to drink. You can have brown rice, unleven bread and all the veggies you can eat. I baked my own unleven wheat bread and energy bars. I am very good at stir fry now. I have modified it now to continue getting more toned. The hardest thing was giving up coffee. At 52 nothing was working so I went sort of drastic, but I fit in all of my clothes now. Sadly they are now out of style. Anyone want any pleated pants?
     
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    Loved reading your early morning post. That’s great to hear and a good place to be in. Similar to you, I found my greatest fulfillment of chastity after I “was kind of done with it” and yet still locked at my wife’s pleasure.
     
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    Thanks. It was pretty hot. It took me a couple of hours to fall back to sleep after that. It has taken years to get my vanilla wife to approve and participate in chastity. It has brought us much closer and I enjoy treating her well after she put up with me for 20 years.
     
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    @Design is me that is great progress. I'm only 2.5 weeks from my last O and my wife and I review every day the improvements in me since. The 'feeling' I put in a caress, the firm tenderness of a backrub, the cuddling as I drift off to sleep. I couldn't fake these things if I tried. Why shouldn't I want that from my loving husband everyday, she asks...
     
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    This....my wife understands the chemistry involved, all wives should imo!
     
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    You had me until you had to give up Coffee. I drink Coffee for the safety of others.

    The other parts sounds good. I will have to look into it.

    Thanks

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    Good luck. I had to give up coffee because I was putting three spoons of sugar in it twice a day. Now I can drink it black with no sugar. The fast was kind of a 25 pound reset. I am good at maintaining a weight. It just has never been the weight that I wanted.
     
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    LOL-good for you, but the pleated pants line made me laugh!
     
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    I thought going without coffee was against the Geneva Convention?

    Well done on the development of your journey though. I have been in and out of chastity for the last 5-6 months with only limited participation from Mrs Sen, but she does comment about the increased affection when I am in it.
     
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    Thanks. I drink coffee every other day now to try and keep from getting addicted to the caffeine. 5-6 months is nothing. My wife and I have been making baby steps for a few years now. In the beginning I couldn't leave the house with the cage. Then it moved to just on weekends. Just make sure that when you have the cage on, it is all about giving yourself to her. I am naturally a selfish person but when I wear the cage I am more focused on her. It can be frustrating at times, but being her slave is my goal and she finally sees the benefits.
     
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    But… but… the energy bars! Nothing says bible like energy bars!
     
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    The energy bars were all natural oats and nuts mixed together. After you go without sugar and meat or anything processed for 47 days, you'll understand. By day 20 they started to actually taste good.
     
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    What brand? They sound yummy.

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    My wife took time to get used to chastity. Actually in retrospect I think it was her making sure *I* was used to chastity. At any rate at some point she will understand it is what you want and what she deserves. She will think of that as part of the natural order, and get used to controlling you by controlling your penis. After that she's on board, and after a couple more years she's never gonna let you roam free ever again lol.

    The joke between my Wife and I is that I shoulda been careful what I wished for!
     
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    I found a recipe online and bake them myself. I have modified it a little by adding pumpkin spice to give them more flavor. Since my diet ended I have added a little maple syrup to give them a small amount of sweetness. I can send you the recipe if you want it.
     
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    EXACTLY!
     
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