Subtle Sub Jewelry/Adornment/Symbol?

I wear a slave ring on my right hand ring finger my wife bought me. It's titanium with a gold chain inlay around the the ring. It's something very special for me to wear 24/7/365 It looks very slave like.

I have been asked many times what that ring means! LOL If they only knew.

 

Hello Fidelis,
The answer is already within your question. Ifbyou truly "belongs" to her, the only answer can be a tattoo or even several tattos over time.
Everything else is something which you could take off and therefore is a weak sign.
I would choose a place which can be seen in public but also not somewhere where you can always hide it.
And maybe you can suggests that she will do the tattoo herself, its really simple if you get a Poking Set.
My 2nf vote would maybe be something like a collar, but nor sure how this can be done without everybody knowing what's up.

Feathers.sub

 

My wire put a chain with a padlock around my neck. I wear it when I go out and at home when she wants me to play submissive. I lost a lot of weight so my wedding ring does not fit and my wife knows that women are attracted to me from using me as bait to bring women to our bed for her to play with. So instead of a wedding ring I wear a chain collar. No one has ever asked me why as it is simply a nice black chain with a black padlock. Some may know what it means but I do not care.

 

I have get permission to post any pics. I will ask her. Also, she got online, not sure where.

 

https://www.swedishcollar.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/409-right-768x576.jpg

 

That takes the word "subtle" to a whole new level. lmao

 

Seriously.... Funny but nothing which used in real life. I think - back to the initial question - that if its a serious FLR and about proving commitment, something which is permanent...
... is better.
But it should also work for someone who is not living 24/7 in cage in the basement.

@Fidelis Marito have you suggested a tattoo?

Feathers.sub

 

My wife and I don't use any symbols out in public. I do wear a collar at home usually. We have some friends that have a FLR marriage and he always paints his right hand pinky nail black. He says no one ever asks about it.

 

My cufflinks and padlock pendant on a necklace

 

Trust me, its great maybe also includes the risk of wanting more of them.
It's the best sign that you are really (!) committed and will also remind you in bad times.
Would love to hear what she thinks of it.

Feathers.sub

 

A little while after she got me the padlock pendant I noticed that I would raise my hand and put it between my thumb and forefinger periodically. A few days ago I started an experiment. I try to touch it purposely, but subtly when she speaks to me. Today, on Littlehampton beach her hand went to the silver key on her necklace in response. It was a wonderful sight. Not sure if she knew or whether it was subconscious. She hasn't really brought the key into our teasing much before.

 

I have a tattoo of a padlock on me near my member with the Korean symbol “owned” on it. I also have a large tattoo of a Tiger (she is year of the Tiger) grabbing an anatomical heart that represents her and my heart.

We’ve talked about getting me an infinity collar. I’ve also seen rings with the sub symbol on it (it’s subtle and most people don’t know what it means).

 

How does this looks like?

Feathers.sub

 

This symbol means “male sub owned”

 

The most subtle thing I have is a leather bracelet. It has my full name stamped into it, not the one I'm known by. That's the one Lady C calls me when I have to recognise her authority. It is held together by a Chicago screw.

Less subtle is a keychain with the BSDM owned male submissive emblem. Anyone who has seen it thinks its something to do with The Who. This is it: https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/868743693/submissive-day-collar-bdsm-owned-male?ref=yr_purchases

I also have a white T-Shirt with in the style of the LinkedIn logo, except it says LockedIn. Got it during lockdown.

We also have a key and lock ring set. They don't fit so don't wear them any more.

A

 

Interesting, i have never seen that before.
Looks simple to be made as a tattoo maybe on a half visible spot

Feathers.sub

 

https://blog.beautifullybound.com.au/bdsm/bdsm-symbols-and-their-meanings.htm explains all. They were meant to be so that only those with similar interests would know what the mean.

A

 

I have this one, Under a t-shirt nobody will see it.

 

When I'm locked, I wear this: https://www.etsy.com/listing/837407898/male-submissive-day-collar-247-wear?ref=share_v4_lx

I also have this on my gym bag:
https://kink3d.com/products/covert-cobra-pin

 

I really like the aesthetics, but I don't get the symbolism. Why does this represent male in chastity?

 

Two Balls? In a cage?

- Feathers.sub

 

Yeah - subtle as a heart attack