Hello everyone, Thanks for checking out my post. Currently I haven't had a chastity experience personally but unfortunately during college I was roped into inadvertantly being a bull for a chastity couple which initially peaked my interest in the chastity world. Fast forward, I come across Supreme Empress Lucy during my exploration into chastity and FLR. Each time I viewed more of her content the more submissive I felt which was a strange but exciting feeling for me and made me curious about how my life would change in chastity. The problem is, typically chastity cages protrude based on the size of the cage and unfortunately I was cursed with a 26cm piece of useless meat that I'm afraid won't fit without immediate humiliation while wearing in public. Any advice on my situation? Overcoming the fear or potential alternatives? Thanks in advance
So it sounds like you want to lock up at 10" penis. I'm assuming that is your erect size but chastity devices are based on your flaccid size, which is what? You may have to go to a custom device. I might think a "minimalist" device would be best to keep down the bulk and make the device less noticeable under clothing. Minimalist devices just cover the glans and upper shaft of the penis but all require a piercing. Would you be wiling to be pierced (assuming you are not already)?
@Adam444 thanks for the feedback! Yes, I may need to look into a custom cage. Apologies for not mentioning flaccid/erect dimensions. Flaccid: 17cm long and 12cm circumfrance. Erect: 26cm and 15cm circumfrance. Currently am not pierced, would prefer to remain that way if possible. Lastly I'm terrified of how an erection would feel in a cage given my unfortunate dimensions. Please help
You aren't going to feel any different than ant other locked man assuming you can find the correctly sized tube. That's going to be the challenge. Off the shelf is probably out, you might contact some of the custom makers to see what they can do for you.
6 and a half inches when flaccid? That’s over double of me hard...woe and sorrow, my heart breaks for u and your giant penis! I doubt you will find a cage for a 6.5 inch flaccid penis without ordering it made, male chastity now is somewhat custom and the service is excellent so will probably make one to fit. They aren’t outrageously priced either. As far as being able to cage such a member, properly fitted, it shouldn’t get hard enough for there to be any difference between a caged one incher and a six incher. Good luck and welcome
Actually, I have seen on amazon and eBay a steel cage which curves down that’s 6” long. It was about $30. Worth trying and in expensive.
@Nicoftime thank you for your condolences they really mean a lot. Unfortunately born with the wrong assets to suit my personality and am reminded of it constantly. I feel like the cage would help decentralize the focus from my unfortunate flesh to female priorities thoughts?
Can’t hurt to try (or at least it shouldn’t hurt too much )! It sounds like you’re already getting some good advice on where/how to find a suitably fitted cage. I would imagine that regardless of size, the same basic principle would hold true: a cage closely fitted enough to prevent an erection from starting will be the most comfortable for you.
Decentralization is as good a word for it as any. At some point it becomes less of a penis and more of a spout for peeing. I don’t know about it causing femininity, although there are plenty here with issues about gender, so causation may be a chicken and the egg enigma. I often wondered if my size had anything to do with some of my gender issues, if I had been blessed with a monster like you, if I would still feel comfortable in female apparel. Seems, that size and the confidence that it would bring hasn’t kept femininity from your psyche.
@Nicoftime i wouldn't necessarily say that I consider myself feminine whatsoever. In aspects of life based on formal characterization I would be an "alpha" but it's the submissive area of FLR that's appealing and transition the focus to her needs instead of my absurdly disproportionate appendage. Does that assist in understanding my classification?
@Jessica Alexander than you for the feedback I really appreciate it, generally I would prefer not to castrate but if that's what it takes to not achieve an erection that may be on the table as a serious option. Recently I saw a locked circstance where the slave was forced to inject a Viagra while locked, that seems like a ruthless form of torture, I wonder if while castrated an erection could be forced
Let me preface this by saying I'm not a doctor, nor do I play one on TV. What Jessica was talking about was "penis banding" which, from what I understand, is a way to temporarily "deaden" one of the nerves in the penis thereby preventing erections for some period of time. Obviously there is some chance of doing permanent damage and certainly not an option I would recommend. Viagra (and drugs like it) work by relaxing the arteries and making it easier for blood to flow into the penis. At the same time the veins naturally constrict keeping blood from flowing out, which causes the penis to engorge and become erect. Viagra does not cause your to become aroused but rather allows you to more easily achieve an erection if you are already aroused. From what I understand castration effects men in different ways with some being able to achieve an erection and orgasm as if they had testes. I also believe the younger the person is when the testes are removed, the more pronounced the effects. I wholeheartedly believe the place for you to start is with a chastity device. As I said it may be a challenge to find one that fits you without going custom. I would check out DH Gate and Ali Express to see if there is anything that might fit you. Remember beyond the tube, you need to find a base ring that fits too. I seem to recall seeing an ad for a Chinese maker who was willing to do "custom" work. Or simply contact one of the mainstream makers like Mature Metal or Steelworxx and see what they can do you for. There are also a number of companies doing 3D printed plastic devices if you want to go that route. Keep us posted on your progress.
Go to Mature Metal, order the sizing rings and work with them, they will get you fitted perfectly and their cages are designed to help with noticeability.
@Adam444 thanks so much for the detailed feedback it was immensely helpful. Yes chastity will likely be the place to begin, however considering the feedback from you and others I'll likely need a custom bird cage or comparable cage. Additionally I find it pertinent to find a key holder either local or remote. I would opt for Empresd Lucy but I'm sure she grows tired of carrying her chain of 39+ keys
There's lots of ways to self-lock, at least as a start until you find a key holder. The unfortunate reality is that it takes most men several tries before they find the "right" cage. I would suggest doing as much research as you can and maybe even trying a couple of the larger cheap devices. It's also not uncommon for guys to think they are a bit larger than they actually are. You want the "normal" flaccid length of your penis, not when you are slightly excited or very cold. It can be helpful to measure several times over the course of a day (or days) and take an average.
@Adam444 thanks so much for the feedback, I may need to look further into the option you mentioned. Unfortunately, I've been very modest with the appendages measurements even while completely flaccid, sitting down in a general public bathroom toilet the head of it rests on the curve of the bowl, it's cold and unpleasant. Perhaps a cage would assist in this problem or emphasize it by clanking the metal against the bowl each time I sit down...