I wanted to try and explain how it feels to be a submissive as I feel sometimes Subs get some what of a bashing some times. I don’t want to be seen as a rant at our Dominants though. The hardest part of describing how it feels to be a sub is to express the sheer differences in emotions and feelings that you go can through. At one minute you’re deep into a trance like sub space and the next minute you’re you can fall back to earth with a bump. It’s hard to explain how it feels to be in sub space. It feels like being in a trance like state where you feel almost primitive and more importantly a lot more submissive. I often feel as if I would do anything for my Master and often wish Master to order me to do something that would other wise be deemed to be one of my hard limits. So you go from this deep feeling of submission and the next thing you know you’re watching telly feeling as horny as hell and just wanting to submit and be dominated. And you wonder why submissives appear to be so needy. That is probably what makes the life of dominant so much harder, the nature of the submissive. Sometime I feel though that dominants don’t realise the emotional toil that submissives go through from day to day. Not just day to day, from one minute to the next. So why would you want submit you ask, stop bitching and moaning. Well it’s a desire and a strong one at that. For me there is a need to submit and a desire to fall into my sub space state. It’s hard to ignore. The feelings of pleasure, pain and humiliation wash over you drive you wild with desire and make you want to beg for more. This is what makes coming out of subspace so hard, you could say it’s an addiction. So know you should be able to see how hard it is to go from submissive wanting only to serve and be humiliated and played with to a normal couple watching telly or doing the chores. Chores wouldn’t be so if I was wearing a collar or maids outfit that would make it a lot more fun. Sometimes I just wish to wear a collar, a butt plug or an item of jewellery when we’re not in our ‘roles’ just something to remind me of my submissive side. Do dominants have similar feelings? Is there a dom space? It would be good to read how dominants feel when they are in their roles. I hope this goes some way to expressing the deep feelings and emotions that submissives go through. And I hope it doesn't sound preachy. I only desire to submit and sit at the feet of my Master. Oh I forgot to mention how the male is often in chastity and hasn't had release for what could be weeks/months, this would drive a lesser man insane. It takes a strong man to submit and give control of his reproductive organ to his dominant.