i am very nervous about posting this poll. Here's why: we subbies and sissies are notorious for being demanding and bottom topping. The conventional wisdom is we never have enough, always want more and act way too uppity for the subby roles we say we want (all that previous male training i suppose?). i think there is more than a kernal of truth in those observations. The CM motto "Be careful what you wish for . . . " probably comes right out of that attitude. Of course, there is a flip side to it. Most of us adjust to and accept whatever level of training our Superiors find in their best interest. i am definitely of the opinion that whatever my Mistress wants in this relationship is exactly what She should get, and on a basic level i suppose we may have zero right to make any demands. That said, i am wondering how subs and sissies here perceive their Superiors. Here's the question: Thinking about your primary D/s relationship, in your opinion which of the following best describes the Dominant's attitude. It's anonymous of course. I definitely don't intend this to be an evaluation of any relationship or any of the Superiors. i firmly believe whatever a Women decides is right for Her is the only determining factor in the relationship and that She rightly decides the level of D/s in Her primary relationship.