I searched for those terms here, and was really surprised not to see more hits. So, here's another new thread... My interest to hear the communities' thoughts on this subject was inspired in part by @MVee's post: I thought those links provided quite a bit of useful info, and wanted to make sure they were re-posted as well. As you can read in the links, subs are not alone in these feelings! Topdrop is very much a thing... --- Have you ever felt this way? What are your experiences with sub (or Top) drop? Do you find certain triggers or scenes leaving you more vulnerable to drop than others? How do you manage your feelings?
I do not think I have been playing this long enough and we are quite vanilla so I don't have too much to say on this but I do feel a certain level of sadness after getting a release .... It is really weird because you would think the opposite would happen however I have read regularly here that this I not that uncommon for the chaste.
I'll post more articles here as I find them. Thanks for sharing this one with Me, @amalgam. Enjoy kink? Here's how to handle the 'drop' you may feel after you play
I feel it more acutely when she notices it. I guess I feel it, but didn’t think anyone would notice. She will ask me if I’m angry, if something is wrong, call me grumpy, or say “ok mr sassy” after something I answer. I then feel bad, because I know I’m giving one word replies to questions, not being very talkative, not being attentive, and slack off on things that I normally do. I then try to get back to my baseline by trying to please her in some way, which helps me get back on track.
Having the drop after a release has been one thing that I wanted to avoid by being locked and not allowed a release. I’d rather be at 80-90% on the excitement scale all the time than. 100% and down to like 20% after. When I’m allowed release if my Mistress does something to stimulate me after the recovery rate is much faster. This can be simply a visual stimulation or even what she says to me. I’ve also noticed in the past few months since she’s allowed me more releases that my recovery time has been a lot faster. It’s an exciting time we live in.
Much like mash2214, I would rather be at a high excitement level with no release. I think for me it stems from my KH not requiring me to lock up after release. I think if she required me to lock back immediately I may not feel quite as much drop.
I have exhibited the drop but it usually happens after a multi-orgasm with my partner and then needing to masturbate after. I get cold and distant and it sucks. How I have been working on combating it "this time" is through exercise. I am trying out a theory that working out will help regulate the horomone levels better ...
It would be interesting to experiment with the medication cabergoline. It suppresses prolactin and men are using it to be multi orgasmic. With no prolactin release, there should be no sub drop. You should be able to order from www.alldaychemist.com. I have used them for other things in the past with no problems.