I recently started dating a lovely woman, who is willing to indulge my chastity kink, but with no device. It will be likely be three weeks before we can be together alone. I am not to masturbate during that time. Yesterday I told her on the phone not to ask me to beat my record(68 days) without a device, because I couldn't do it. She told me that I would if she told me to, just to not disappoint her. Sounds like a dream for a lot of guys, right? Nice and normal for those of us on the site? The strangeness comes in when I mention that we are both switches, and that with her I am more Dom than sub. And there is a constant power struggle between us, we may switch roles two or three times in an evening. If she were to require it of me, I would wind up topping her yet still being subject to her interdiction when it came to my own orgasm. Has anyone else experinced anything like this?