Strange relationship

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    I recently started dating a lovely woman, who is willing to indulge my chastity kink, but with no device. It will be likely be three weeks before we can be together alone. I am not to masturbate during that time.

    Yesterday I told her on the phone not to ask me to beat my record(68 days) without a device, because I couldn't do it. She told me that I would if she told me to, just to not disappoint her.

    Sounds like a dream for a lot of guys, right? Nice and normal for those of us on the site? The strangeness comes in when I mention that we are both switches, and that with her I am more Dom than sub. And there is a constant power struggle between us, we may switch roles two or three times in an evening.

    If she were to require it of me, I would wind up topping her yet still being subject to her interdiction when it came to my own orgasm.

    Has anyone else experinced anything like this?
     
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    Mistress and i switch occasionally. Mistress IS a switch but mostly Dom. i am almost completely sub but can top when Mistress prefers that. W/we certainly don't flip flop like Y/you guys do. in everyday life i am Her full time, devoted, lifestyle slave.
     
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    It's strange, I've played with one switch who was my first mistress. She was my mistress before she discovered that she was a switch, I knew, but she didn't. There was not much of a power struggle there, one night I topped, the next night she topped.

    With my girlfriend now, the power struggle is part of the appeal. We joke about attending a fetish party and screwing with every body's head when they can't figure us out.
     
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    Not sure how to parse that relationship, except to say, "She bears looking into further!"
     
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