Stopping Erections to Be Able to Get Device Back On

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    Hello all,

    I got some great advice and perspective in the other thread about short-term chastity, so I thought I would ask here about another concern: how can a keyholder stop an erection when trying to put a device back on? My partner wants to be able to take the device off, tease me, use my physical services, and then put the device back on without having me come. The problem is: it's impossible to fit back on while I'm hard. It would be more exciting for her to be able to put the device back on herself, or have me do it in front of her, but the combination of mental and physical stimulation will likely make it extremely difficult to get my dick to go down. Does anyone have any good techniques that their keyholder can use to stop an erection so she/he can put the device back on themselves?

    Thanks!
     
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    Bag of crushed ice should do it.

    I'm presuming that's preferable to a kick in the balls :)
     
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    You can try doing a few fast squats; it works for me. You'll need the ring and the spacer to be already in place, because the erection comes back fairly quickly. She should have just enough time to put the cage on.
     
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    Jump in a cold shower for a munuit should work just fine or have your keyholder give you a couple of good slaps on the balls allways seems to work for me. The ice idea works great too.
    I did try once leaning over the kitchen sink and useing the sprayer nozel with cold water but that ment going all the way down stairs to do it. :eek:
     
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    Have your mistress throw a cup of cold water on your back after a shower will shock your system enough to loose all signs of an erection too :p
     
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    talking to your mother on the phone
    ;)
     
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    The ice/cold water advice is the most practical, but I must say this recommendation is surely the most effective. Haha... Thanks guys.
     
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    I think we should take a poll:

    All in favor of a kick to the balls raise your hand...
     
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    If you use the ice or cold water method, you better have already installed the cuff ring or you, most likely, will not be able to put it on due to your balls drawing up in response to the cold. Actually, I find heat and a little time(supervised, of course), work better to relax your parts for the re-install.
     
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    A few slaps on the end of my hard cock by wifey, and then run it under cold water makes me shrivel up. :D
     
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    We've just started out using a beginner device (similar to something called a "stallion guard") and she doesn't like that she can't tease me and then put the device on soon after. I have to be almost completely soft to get back into the thing, but since I'm still new to chastity hearing her tell me I don't get to come while holding the device, ready to put it back on, definitely keeps me hard. We tried some ice, but it still takes a long time. I have to go to the bathroom to calm down and be able to put it back on myself. I don't think she wants to slap my balls or dick, but this may change if it is shown to be a reliable way to make me soft. She did mention that she's disappointed that she can't slip the device onto me while I sleep, so that I wake up to a nasty surprise! Man is that sexy to hear...
     
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    Yea we all have this problem :)
    Our mistresses make us so friggin' horny it is sometimes impossible to get soft without drastic measures. My mistress also hates that it takes long and has to supervise.

    The only thing i know that is pretty effective is a painful slap on the balls.
    The cold water thingy doesnt work for me at all. :(
    It makes my balls thigther but does very little with the dick, which is the bigger problem! ;)
     
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    go reading a book on the toilets. i used to read a book of economics...it was very quick to loose all sexual ideas in front of boring charts!
     
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    A number of years ago I saw a scene with a guy in a cage and a super hot domina teasing him and humiliating him. She decided he did not deserve an erection. She borrowed my electric fly swatter and two zaps to the head of his cock and he was all tiny and shrunk. Quick and effective.
     
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    Oh, I like the electric fly swatter idea. I will have to tell my Mistress about that so she can try that on me. :eek:
     
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    Well we haven't had much success yet. My partner tried holding an ice cube against me but it didn't accomplish much. I mentioned the idea of giving my balls one good, hard smack, but she doesn't like doing that. She tried giving one hit on my balls, but overall doesn't like the idea of causing me pain. I explained that the appeal of having her put the device back on herself outweighed any physical pain, but its still not her thing. Pehaps next time she can try a quick, hard squeeze of my balls, which may seem less violent than a smack but still have the desired results. We both really like the idea of her teasing me with the device off and then being able to say "no more," after which she can make me go soft and put the device back on herself. We'll have to keep experimenting.
     
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    Think we all have that problem and i believe that is why I got an edema cause I try ed to stuff my hard cock in to the device so mistress could lock it,
    Scott do not recommend the fly swatter,they can leave a good burn,and a kick to the nuts Hell no.

    Maybe the guys who have been in lock down the longest can tell us there secrets,cause it sure is frustrating
     
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    I had a similar problem too when I started to use my CB-3000. First, put on the A-ring while you are soft. After this you might get an erection, but don't worry about it. Lube well your sack around the ring. I also lube my penis, this way it will slide in the tube much easier. If you start waiting at this point to go soft, it won't happen :) So just do something else for a few minutes, like washing dishes. If your brain is occupied with something else, you will lose the erection very quickly. Then put on the tube quickly :) Done.
     
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    after i put the A-ring on i used to get an small erection,

    so i kleening my ears with q-tips, i dont think you kan do something more non-erotic than that. :p
     
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    A kick in the balls (as suggested by slave Nemo) would for me at least would increase my erection, as would whipping with a crop. Try using a deep-heatcream! Only a light smearing if going straight into a cage - as effect would be multiplied.
     
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    A tens unit used on and turned up high will me shrink fast it kind of pulls it down the balls stay hanging it does hurt but sure does work one pad on the tip one on the bottom of shaft.
     
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    that's a horribly frustrating problem... i'd love to see this going on!!! =)
     
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    My Goddess always tells me things like "picture yourself licking your grandma's feet" or some equally disturbining image and it goes right on. She can always come up with something new.
     
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