Hi all, Late 30s married with kids. I'm pretty darn kinky, my wife (much) less so but this seems to have got her intrigued. We bought a basic entry level device from a big online toy shop, we've dabbled with it but she definitely seems more intrigued by it recently. Even instigating buying a better fitting (smaller)one and teasing me a bit more than normal, being sexier etc when she knows I'm wearing it. I could and have masterbated 3-4 times a day, every day for weeks. It's very rare that I have a full 24 hours without cumming. I don't want to give up sex, just add some fun kink to it. I've got so many fantasies it's hard not to throw them all at her, over whelm her etc. I've mentioned some, such as the prospect of going to a greedy girls type swingers evening while I'm locked up, just happy with the recent steps.
Welcome. Doesn’t sound like you need to throw your fantasies at her… she’s going at a good pace. Sit back and enjoy the ride. I imagine her destination will be far better than any fantasy you can think of.
Welcome to CM! This thread might help you out. https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/non-sexual-activities-in-a-flr.46844/
Welcome to CM. You are very fortunate to have a wife so willing. Take things slow and let Her set the pace. Probably the worst thig you could do, right now, is to try to "top from the bottom" and tell Her what she should do. That can easily backfire. Next time, be careful what you ask for!!!!
Welcome to the group, you sound like you will fit right in here. Take your time to progress into this lifestyle. Male chastity is not about what you want, it’s much more about how you can better please your wife. The possibility that it may be the best thing that ever happened in your life is a wonderful side benefit. Ask questions and let us help you. Enjoy the ride and keep us updated
As an update, we messed around with he cage for a bit, on for a few hours, off, sometimes teasing sometimes nothing....then the ring broke. It was only a cheap knock off cb6000 but we were making some progress so it was a shame. The sexy thing is that my wife agreed it was a shame and ordered a replacement, but that I should have a smaller version because my cock was too small for it. She ordered the small version from another supplier and the same size one turned up, it wasnt practical for long term use and the feeling for it subsided. I ordered a clone of the kink3d and it's recently arrived. Anyway, the day after some serious self pleasuring (5 times), we fucked but I just couldn't finish and then that evening we fucked again and I did but it was serious hard work for her. During some dirty talk I suggested locking me up and afterwards she was serious! Cue a 36 hour lock up, lots of sexy teasing and we fuck again doing this times I'm cumming in minutes. We chatted after and she wants me locked up a lot more and demanded I put it on again. She said she enjoyed the freedom of flirting and teasing with me knowing she had the power and seems to have been hornier recently than pretty much ever. Think it'll be a while (if ever) until my more wild ideas happen but much bigger steps than I ever thought!