I saw a cage on Amazon and was some kind of attracted to it. So i doesn't think to much about it and ordered it. Some Chinese cheap one. I guess my motivation was kind of to stop my masturbation. Some times i masturbate 2 times a day and led to a point where i'm not really interested in Sex with my GF. The reason my by, because by watching porno and masturbate my lust is somewhat satisfied and also because i think with watching porno regularly you become kind of numb for real Sex. And so my GF and I doesn't have much sex, even i know she want's to have. Right now i am selflocked, but i will tell my GF of course and the reasons why. And maybe she agrees to hold the keys. After i received it i was quite impressed how short it is and was wondering if i could fit my penis inside. With some kind of pressure i finally made it and the cage got locked. After a few hours of constant exitement i took it of. After that i masturbated and had an orgasmus. That was 2 weeks ago and was the last one i had. When i tried to sleep with the cage on, it was a very short night. I couldn't find any sleep. Not because it was hurting, more or less o think the problem was in my mind. The fact that i knew that there is a cage on my penis seemed to make sleeping Impossible. Next i planned to wear the cage for some more time. Plan was 4 Days. But after 2 days it became uncomfortable. Not in a physically way, it was more or less in my head. I had the strong feeling i have to get out. After i released my self, i did not have any intention to put the cage back on. Also thought that maybe chastity isn't my kink. But after only 2 days i had the strong desire to put it back on. That was on 24th of March. And until now i'm still caged. Sleeping also works well, and i didn't need an alarm anymore to wake up, because that is done by my morning wood. I open the cage once every 24h for about 20 Minutes to wash penis and cage. Other than that 'm locked all the time. And i notices some changes in my overall behavior. I try to avoid dispute or try to calm her and me down. Also i 'm less into discussing everything, some thinks i now just accept. I work more in the household, like washing, buying food and so on. Last but not least, i noticed my feelings towards my GF somewhat changed. Much more attracted by her and even a kiss is very satisfying. After 7 years i forget about that.