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    Hello everyone,

    i am new to chastity and got a lot of questions but in my case the most important is :
    should i place myself in a chastity device althougt i never had sex. What would you say. I am very curious to chastity.

    greetings from Frankfurt
     
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    Well it’s up to you! But if you are that curious about it. Give it a shot. Buy a cheap plastic/metal one And try iT out.
    From my experience I would buy a plastic one first.
    Wear it a few hours at Home And remove it. Try it a few days And if you feel confident wear it at night And So on.
     
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    Yes, you shall consider go to chastity before having any relationship, you will feel much better then. A big advantage is to avoid masturbation.
     
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    Im sure there will be some people who would love the idea of controlling a virgin's orgasms so it is a selling point to a potential KH although it is only one selling point

    Some others I 'm sure would potentially argue that you don't really know what you are giving up.

    I can see some pros and cons and unsufficient of either form an informed opinion.. Especially with not having been a virgin for an extremely long time.
     
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    hello again,

    are there women that like to have a male virgin in chastity?
     
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    Our village had to cancel the nativity play ... they couldn't find three wise men or even one virgin :)
     
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    By all means try, fail, succeed, grow desperate, cry, throw a tantrum, revise, find things you like, things you don't, learn, grow.

    Don't sweat it. Be calm. Just experiment. And be happy that there's a whole host of experts and nice people here to call upon for tips and advice.

    The men I meant. You boys give all that dull practical advice. Rings, inches (or lack of) etc.

    Us girls are more prone to sadistic suggestions...
     
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    Chastity is a matter of discipline. You will need a carrot and stick to keep you on course. Ms Holly is good with the stick. ;-)
     
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    And you know where that stick is going, bitch :eek:
     
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    where do you think the carrot is?
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    You are quite a refreshing novelty my friend, so many people have sex for the wrong reasons, it should be special no need to rush.
    I honestly believe that Chastity is good for us, didn't used to but now I do. I have to ask, although you are a virgin I presume you have masturbated?
    Why do you want to try Chastity, have you explored sexual games? Have you a mistress?
    If you have no desire for sex or masturbation then I have to ask what's the point, I mean it's not hard if you don't want it???
     
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    i am interested in chastity for a few years ans yes i masturbated. i didnt happened that i found a women to have sex with..
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    Give it a try then.......
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Only one way to find out. Try it and see, Do you have device and/or keyholder?
     
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    hello, i ordered a cheap device to test, but i like the Lori device and no there is no kh
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Good idea to test on a cheap one first. But Lori is top of range and you need exact measurements. Also most (not all though, e.g. 2A) need piercings, and all have long delivery times.But worth it in the end.
     
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    It surprises me that someone that's only 18 would want to lock himself up. Is it just for the sexual kink of it or is it because you want to stop Masturbating ? I don't believe that having a chastity cage on will make it easier to find a girl friend. I would say that it would make it much more difficult.

    Since no one else holds your key, your in control so enjoy your play time.
     
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    You just caused my cage to tighten.
     
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    I know what it's like. I happen to be in the same boat. I started with a cheap plastic device but that broke. I moved onto a metal device and that is much better. If you don't have a kh but want the experience I suggest buying a safe with a combination lock and signing up for a online kh website. I saw a list of them on here somewhere.
     
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