Spotted in real life ?

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    Not sure this is the right place for this,

    A new girl started at work last week, in a meeting with her afew days later I noticed she is wear this necklace with a tiny padlock and key on it (not like a real key but a symbolic one). Immediatley I began to wonder if she was a KH but passed it off as my over active imagination. However I've noticed she has been wearing it everyday and its this really wierd reminder of my own predictament.

    So anyway I came here to ask if other people had noticed subtle (or maybe not so subtle) things which made you wonder if other people were practising chastity in real life.
     
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    I saw a woman with a key around her neck, was for an integrated lock (magic locker). They are fairly easy to differentiate. I didn’t say anything, we were in the grocery store and was fairly busy.
     
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    Key jewelry has become fairly common lately. Even Kay Jewelers has a key shaped pendent. That being said, my Mistress wears Key Earrings as a symbol of Her being my keyholder.
     
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    I once got spotted by another keyholdress, but it was easy for her as my KH was wearing her Key in (on ??) her cleavage.
    And as there was no other male working behind the bar, and my wife and once she spotted the other woman also wearing a Key around her neck - well she pulled me over to give me a tender hug and that was it.
    Both women smiling at each other but no big talking about it.
    Other KH during the night ordered a few times at my bar, she threw some wild looks at me and I fired back and then at one time we both simply started to laugh about the whole situation.
    Unfortunately the place was so full that night that my KH and me could not find out whether she was there alone or also had a guy (locked ?) with her.
     
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    My wife doesn't like to wear the actual key, but she loves when I buy her lock & key jewelry, and she has them in many forms: pendants for her pandora bracelet, necklaces, bracelets, anklets, even a toe ring. In her case, if you see her wearing those, yes, it is definitely a symbol of my chastity.
     
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    My wife has key symbol necklace (avatar picture), it’s not a real key but it symbolize her role as KH.
     
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    More likely than not, it is not a chastity related piece of jewelry. Our kink is still pretty uncommon. But ti may be, you can always keep your eyes and ears open to see if any other indicators appear. At least it makes for good fantasies while passing time at work.
     
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    I have a sterling silver key necklace I wear all the time now and I've noticed a couple of men on my commute to work look at it (some quite intently). One in particular sometimes gives me a little knowing smile. :) Either he has guessed that I'm a KH or he thinks I need help remembering where my keys are.
     
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    A few years ago me and my husband were at a grocery store. A mid age woman with grey jogging pants stood a few meters in front of us. My hubby recognized something unusual in her pants and pointed out to me. We observerd her and when she leaned over her shirt pushed up a bit and we saw polished steel with yellow edge protection.

    She wore a chastity belt.
     
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    That is very hot. I know chastity belts are "mostly" worn by men these days but I think it would be very hot to see and know a woman is wearing one.
     
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    Lovely situation
     
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    I wear a gold choker necklace with my key on it and crazy-glued shut, to be ripped off in an emergency. Last year, Mistress and I noticed our waitress in a bar has key on a chain necklace around her neck. Mistress pointed it out to me and told me to ask if her key was for the same purpose as mine.

    So, the next time, the waitress came to our table, I opened my collar and asked "Pardon me Miss, but is that key around your neck for the same purpose as mine?" She replied, "Maybe so, but my husband will never have access to a key like you do!". Then, Mistress told Her that my key is permanently locked on for emergencies and I am never allowed my key otherwise. The waitress said, "All men need to be locked up and serving their woman!" We all laughed and found it interesting that her key necklace evoked a conversation about a topic that's so rarely discussed among strangers.

    Mistress had me leave Her a 40% tip!
     
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    Love that story. Thanks for sharing
     
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    My wife was called out about the chastity key around her neck. It totally caught her if guard. She calmly said yes it is to my husband’s chastity cage. The women smiled and went on her way. Since then I bought her a Tiffany key that she wears.
     

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    I didn’t spot a key holder in public, but I did once see a master out with his female sub. She was wearing a mini dress, with her collar, wrist cuffs, and high heels with locking ankle straps/cuffs and a gps tracker on her ankle to.
    It was at the till and he told her off about how she was packing the bags, and she had to say sorry master, before he continued passing her the groceries.
     
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    My wife usually wears the key on a chain around her neck. I cut down the key (it's for an integrated lock, so it started out pretty big) and drilled a new hole in it, so the key is small.

    Usually she wears it under her top but lately she has been wearing it on top. I commented about that, hoping that perhaps she was inviting inquires.

    No such luck. She said it was just a comfort issue and that the last thing she wants is to have someone ask about it. Kinky me, I would be tremendously excited to have someone ask her.
     
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    I accidentally let it slip in a totally vanilla conversation with friends that I own a cage for my penis. I had been drinking heavily, and it just came out. I know at least one person knew exactly what I was talking about and shot me a surprised look.
     
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    A couple of years ago Miss A and I were in a pub, she was wearing the key on a necklace as usual. The guy behind the bar smiled and said, "I haven't seen one of those keys for a while".
     
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    I wear a tiny lock on a short ballchain. When shopping last week at the grocery, I just about ran my cart into a couple. She had a key on a necklace and he was pushing the cart. I said sorry, excuse me and the woman smiled and moved over. She then snapped her fingers at the male with her and pointed to move the cart out of my way which he did. She then said tohim 'good boy' while he held his head down. Fairly sure they had a familiar dynamic.
     
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    I wear a decorative key on my necklace. I am yet to be asked about it, however whilst drunk one night at a nightclub in Darwin I saw a US Marine with a key on his wrist. I asked him what his key was for and he said "My room Ma'am". I asked him if he knew what my key was for whilst playing with it, he said no, so I said "It is for my husband's cock" :)
    He mumbled something, looked very embarrassed and walked off.
    I was hoping he was going to ask some questions, I would've even shown him some photos :):lock::)
     
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    He wasn't ready for them.
     
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    I would wear my husbands key around my neck but it’s the kind of ugly long key for his integrated lock on his cage....I keep it in my little keysafe on my nightstand...
     
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    My girlfriend always wear the key around her neck when I'm in cage, it mean very often. 20200602_074151.jpg
     
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    Obviously one notices if women are wearing keys as keyrings or chains on necks ankles and wrists.
    Less obviously you sometimes notice damage / scratches to toilet seats from the cage or lock or both, at work or in people's homes.
     
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    Hi we are a couple new to Darwin and new to this scene. She is very beautiful. Would love to chat more in the hope of you explaining the benefits of chastity to her? Dm if you're interested
     
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